Do you consider yourself a feminist?
Yes
Do you support single-sex toilets (women only, no men, no transwomen)?
Yes
Do you consider feminism compatible with allowing transwomen into women's toilets?
Absolutely not. Women who are ok with men, male bodies (however they identify) into women's intimate spaces are complicit with rape culture and a coercive culture in which women are unable to say no, assert boundaries or push back - whether women are uncomfortable, have religious/cultural reasons or just don't want to, without having to share their feelings or trauma to see whether their rights is law are worthy of being granted.
Julia Gillard recently essentially suggested that female prisoners forced to share showers and cells with convicted sex offenders and stalkers were a minority; ditto others saying that the male boxers pushing women in the face only affects a few women. They forget the message sent to girls and women at grass roots sports, edged off the podium, or losing awards and prizes set up to widen female participation to males - you don't matter, and should stand back to let a male (such a small % of the population, but so over represented in offending and in women's gains) demonstrate how to woman better than you ever could. Either we have male/female prizes, sports, spaces, safeguarding for a reason or we don't. I'd rather people came out and said women actually aren't serious participants, so not worth investment or safeguarding.
Make everything mixed sex and watch women (biological, xx, female) disappear from sport, public life and decision making. Why is it that the NHS can use the word man when talking about prostate cancer, but goes struggles to say woman when it's breast or cervical cancer? Why do we not use penis or testicular people in male health literature, but chest feeding or birthing bodies (very handmaid's tale) when referring to women.
Misogyny has been rebranded as being kind, and this time the men on the left have middle class women who are able to buy/privilege their way out of the consequences they imposed on the rest of us doing a lot of the heavy lifting for them.
We can't say any more that 90% of sexual offending in leisure centres occur in the 10% of spaces that are mixed sex, that 48% of transgender prisoners are convicted of sexual offending v 17-19 % of male prisoners. It's transphobic and awful to remind people that sexual offenses are usually crimes that have escalated from unchecked peeping Tom, stalking etc when we see similar behaviours excused when every single safeguarding principle is ignored - google Surrey Pride, LGBTY in Scotland or even Drag Queen Story Hour.
Just as we say, NAMALT, not all transwomen are - but every one knows that predators will go where safeguarding is weakest, and there is opportunity; excluding men from female spaces is the ultimate safeguarding because it removes opportunity; Not all men, but almost without exception always men.
I don't see why I should have to pretend that the transwoman in my recurrent miscarriage support group was anything but a cos playing narcissist getting an illicit thrill from listening to our pain and forcing us to listen as he described his entirely made up (and biologically impossible) miscarriage. So many women left that space further traumatised, but unable to speak and never to return to a support group they had set up and now run for the validation of emotional vultures.