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Why do so many people seem ‘triggered’ by Oasis?

204 replies

Blueybanditbingochilli · 31/08/2024 11:27

For want of a better word.

If I saw a band I didn’t like were reforming, it wouldn’t stay in my head longer than a split second, it would be absolutely nothing to me.

Yet we’ve had multiple threads from posters demanding to know why anyone is buying tickets, why don’t people agree that they’re shit, how superior their own music taste is and what a better person they are for it (😂). I would never demand to know why somebody likes something I don’t, it just seems so arrogant and the answer so obvious.

If the band are aiming to be a bit ‘marmite’ they’ve clearly got the result they wanted!

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username44416 · 31/08/2024 12:44

Cornishcoast1 · 31/08/2024 12:42

People on here were claiming not to even know who Taylor Swift was a few months ago 😂

I've heard of her because I read the papers but I've never heard any of her songs.

GoldPlayer · 31/08/2024 12:44

TorroFerney · 31/08/2024 12:36

Exactly this - people are against the subset of fans who think they are lads, piss in bottles at concerts and look up to people like Liam. Making a career out of never taking your coat off is quite admirable though. You do not get wee throwing I assume at Taylor Swift and I have not seen that with James or New Order.

I bet Stone Island are rubbing their hands together as all scrotey (not sure if that should have an e or not) element of the fans will want to buy some new togs for the gig.

G, Am, C and D chords 🙌
EXACTLY, such musically lazy shite after the 1st album

AhBiscuits · 31/08/2024 12:45

They're just desperate to show how special and not like the other girls they are.

PersephonePomegranate23 · 31/08/2024 12:46

LilBowWow · 31/08/2024 12:18

People (on here, at least) hate others enjoying themselves. Bands are shit, dogs are shit, football is shit, Christmas … shit, tv … shit and on it goes. Any snide dig to dampen someone’s fun.

Yes, there's definitely an element of that throughput MN!

StolenChanel · 31/08/2024 12:46

It’s so interesting how algorithms work these days. A band like Oasis must be so far away of anything I usually click on or pay attention to online that I only know they’re reforming because of MN. I’ve seen absolutely nothing about them anywhere otherwise.

greenel · 31/08/2024 12:54

StolenChanel · 31/08/2024 12:46

It’s so interesting how algorithms work these days. A band like Oasis must be so far away of anything I usually click on or pay attention to online that I only know they’re reforming because of MN. I’ve seen absolutely nothing about them anywhere otherwise.

Ben Fogle posted about it on his IG, in the queue for tickets. Jamie Oliver had something about it too a few days previously. A female radio DJ/mum influencer I follow was giving out tips to get tickets. But if you're on IG and follow any major band, you get the sponsored Ticketmaster posts. It's also on all the mainstream news pages internationally. It's quite far reaching!

fundbund · 31/08/2024 12:55

Agree about people on here finding everything shit.

There was a thread the other day about lovely things to look forward to in autumn and someone said they hated it and only liked summer as "all other times of the year are shit" or something along those lines.

Imagine hating 3/4 of the year

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/08/2024 12:56

soupfiend · 31/08/2024 12:26

Im not fan of Oasis particularly, I might hum along with their tunes on the radio

But that article and the Guardian can fuck off

Damaging?

Not as damaging as many of their writers' narratives about identity politics.

The main argument here seems to be they disagree with opinions or views that have been expressed over the years, well so what? Are only musicians/actors/telly presenters that toe the Guardian line allowed to be in the media? Well scrap that, according to lots of people that is the case isnt it.

I vaguely know the writer and whilst I do think he's a bit of knob and so far up his own arse at times that he needs to wear sunblock to go to the toilet, he is absolutely right about Oasis fans. He'd have been avoiding getting a kicking from them for looking 'gay' (when he's actually very much married, twice actually) any time he left the house, particularly when attending gigs, going to pubs and generally existing.

DP, who lived hundreds of miles away in the same period had identical issues and therefore also despises the original fandom.

Oblomov24 · 31/08/2024 12:58

Agreed. Everyone is so angry. Angry about everything. It's got worse post covid.

StolenChanel · 31/08/2024 12:58

@greenel I’m definitely out of the loop then 😄 I wouldn’t see anything any of the people you mention post (I even had to Google ‘Ben Fogle’ to check I was thinking of the right person! I was, lol.) I don’t follow any major bands, my sponsored posts are from smaller ticket sellers and I don’t generally go on mainstream news pages, unless it’s from clicking on a link to specific articles. It goes to show how easy it is to end up in echo chambers online.

Racheltension1 · 31/08/2024 12:59

What a characteristically pathetic article. Peak Guardian. Some miserable non-binary flump is not happy. The football lads at school made fun of him! Waah! Stop the press! So lazy and pointless to look back at 30 years ago through the prism of today...and when you do, gosh, how dull and sanctimonious today really is! Don't look back in anger mate! 😄

Blueybanditbingochilli · 31/08/2024 13:04

Racheltension1 · 31/08/2024 12:59

What a characteristically pathetic article. Peak Guardian. Some miserable non-binary flump is not happy. The football lads at school made fun of him! Waah! Stop the press! So lazy and pointless to look back at 30 years ago through the prism of today...and when you do, gosh, how dull and sanctimonious today really is! Don't look back in anger mate! 😄

DP did say he wondered if it reminded certain people of when they were young and bit uncool and that’s why they feel defensive 😬😬😬

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MagentaRocks · 31/08/2024 13:05

A lot of it is snobbery, same as the Taylor Swift thing. People like to think they are above that sort of thing and look down on those that like things they don’t. I am not an Oasis fan, I know some of their music and might sing a long to it on the radio but have no desire to see them. I have a friend who has got tickets and I am thrilled for her as she is really excited.

I never understand the AIBU to not get the hype over ….. football, love island, cycling etc as if it’s totally beyond their understanding that people like different things.

People just like to piss on other people chips for some weird reason.

Desperatefornachos · 31/08/2024 13:06

@Blueybanditbingochilli Ive wondered that too 🙈

Patiosong · 31/08/2024 13:10

It's because oasis became the band that people who didn't even particularly like music liked. Like Kings of Leon and stereophonics ; you can sing quite happily cos you know the tunes and most of the words. And their whole identity became being an oasis fan.

And yes, I know I sound a bit 'I liked them first', and a music snob,but the oasis worship was tiring first time round.i get the joy; I felt the same when some of my teenage favourite bands teamed up and did gigs a few years ago, but the fact oasis are touted as THE band of the 90s is irritating to those of us who spent our teens living for a whole range of music.

Jumpingthruhoops · 31/08/2024 13:13

MyGhastIsFlabbered · 31/08/2024 12:22

@Jumpingthruhoops that's so not true, I was 16 in 1990 and there were so many better bands around, Pulp, Blur, Gene, Echobelly, Elastica etc (I was a Britpop fan, can you tell?).

Anyway, if someone asked me what one band summed up the 90s my answer wouldn't be Oasis.

I actually have no fucking clue what class I am and don't particularly care so that's not why I loathe Oasis to the point where just the mention of them enrages me, it's their arrogance, attitude, the LADS who formed most of their fanbase and the fact that IMO they are terrible role models. The music is the least of it. I like a few of their songs but am fairly meh about most of them and a few force me to turn the radio off.

At least Taylor Swift seems a genuinely nice person although without knowing her personally it could all be hogwash, but she seems a better role model for younger girls.

It IS true - the current frenzy speaks for itself.

Better rarely correlates to most popular. Oasis are a case in point. The fact you don't agree, is neither here nor there.

Blueybanditbingochilli · 31/08/2024 13:13

Patiosong · 31/08/2024 13:10

It's because oasis became the band that people who didn't even particularly like music liked. Like Kings of Leon and stereophonics ; you can sing quite happily cos you know the tunes and most of the words. And their whole identity became being an oasis fan.

And yes, I know I sound a bit 'I liked them first', and a music snob,but the oasis worship was tiring first time round.i get the joy; I felt the same when some of my teenage favourite bands teamed up and did gigs a few years ago, but the fact oasis are touted as THE band of the 90s is irritating to those of us who spent our teens living for a whole range of music.

But there are no official body who crown ‘THE band of the 70s/80s/90s’. The press say it about any major band who suddenly make the news for some reason. They need to interest readers, saying ‘they were prominent in the 90s, possibly not the biggest band, or truly iconic, but well known nonetheless’ wouldn’t excite readers.

I thought everyone knew this.

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Blueybanditbingochilli · 31/08/2024 13:16

At least Taylor Swift seems a genuinely nice person although without knowing her personally it could all be hogwash, but she seems a better role model for younger girls

Oasis weren’t trying to be role models for young girls. They weren’t trying to be role models for anything as far as I can see apart from a haircut and coat.

I know this won’t go down well on here but some people like others who are a bit spiky, or sarcastic, or entertaining in a ‘omg’ way. I can think of 10 adjectives to describe Liam (not all conventionally flattering) but none to describe Taylor bar… nice? Kind? Simpering neutrality is just so dull and the mould virtually everyone tries to pile into these days, desperate not to be ‘cancelled’ or seen as too anything.

The world would be extremely dull if only the Mn-approved personality type existed.

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SkytreeMadeOfClay · 31/08/2024 13:17

I'm ambivalent about their music, but didn't one of them get filmed relatively recently by CCTV, assaulting his girlfriend/a woman, grabbing her by the throat or something? And yet, collectively, the world excuses another piece of shit domestic abuser, and puts ticket money in this man's pocket 🙄 that's the real bullshit aspect to it all.

ABirdsEyeView · 31/08/2024 13:17

Maybe there's an element of the Gallaghers being pretty awful people, who are now going to make even more money?

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My thread wasn’t ’why does anyone have a negative opinion about any band/singer?’

I haven’t demanded to know why people like Taylor, or why she’s big news. I accept it’s because a lot of people like her, even if I don’t.

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malificent7 · 31/08/2024 13:21

I always thought Liam was a knob until I saw him in concert ...he was amazing. Ive now got tickets...am chuffed!