"I mean they call them "trans women", not me. I never use that term unless I'm responding to someone who has."
This is me too. If I have to, I will use 'transwoman'. I used to use it until I realised where the language that people politely used was used to directly harm female people.
SoundTheSirens, some of us have made decisions that allow us to continue on this board.
So as to not be deleted, I have chosen to use 'male people' and 'female people'' This is due to having posts with evidence deleted because someone was claiming that it was transphobic to use woman / girl or man / boy. It is fucking cumbersome. It keeps it also impersonal (hence, not deleted).
On the other hand, it has been very useful in making it very clear the sex of the person I am referring and just how obfuscating the language demands are.
I have had so many posters tell me just how offensive my posts are because I call male people, 'male people'. Sometimes they slip up and accuse me of using the term 'man' when I clearly have not. That shows more about them than it does me.
I don't think those who make those accusations realise just how much they undermine their own arguments and prompt those reading along to think ' .... oh, hang on....'.