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Measles … I don’t understand!

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dol1 · 29/08/2024 07:09

Dd has had the vaccine at 12 months. I’ve been watching news and there is apparently a ‘surge’ in cases now. The second vaccine for it isn’t until she’s 3… does this mean she could well get measles between now and then?

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Chocolateorange22 · 29/08/2024 08:51

There are also a generation of us now 30+ who have ever had one dose. My DH is immunosuppressed and has never had the MMR jab. As I've only had one dose as a kid our GP agreed for me to have a booster just incase earlier this year. My DS literally had his pre school booster with it in yesterday.

ODFOx · 29/08/2024 08:51

curious79 · 29/08/2024 07:23

And if she does get it in all likelihood, she’ll be absolutely fine. It is immunocompromised and already unwell kids who fare badly from measles. When I was growing up our parents would literally take us to peoples houses when they had measles so we could all catch it and be done with it.

I think that you are confusing measles with chicken pox, which is generally milder as a childhood illness then in adults, so chicken pox parties were indeed a thing. Measles has a significantly higher chance of permanent injury or death and has never been taken lightly, except by anti-vaxers. When my DM was a child they still isolated children with measles.

Bodeganights · 29/08/2024 08:53

LynetteScavo · 29/08/2024 07:34

Which country and decade was this?

I've never, ever met a parent who wanted to expose their child to measles, even those who chose not to vaccinate.

1950s measles parties were a thing, they carried on past the 50s because things like that do. I caught measles from a measles party age about 2, I dont remember exactly because I was so young.

Fraaahnces · 29/08/2024 08:53

All that bullshit publicity about MMR causing autism has been responsible for a lot of damage. Measles was virtually nonexistent and now it’s back thanks to those eejits. It’s been disproved over and over again, but they insist on “doing their own research” and going out into the community and spreading their misinformation and their germs.

Hoardasurass · 29/08/2024 08:54

Sweetswede · 29/08/2024 08:44

It's not "dangerous nonsense" , it's a fact. Some people did want their children to get measles to get it done and over with before vaccines. You'd most likely get it at some point anyway

The dangerous nonsense is that posters claim that measles is only harmful for immunocompromised, this is nonsense and a lie. If you'd bothered to actually read my post you would see that I explained about the parties and that they were ONLY for VACCINATED people

Almostwelsh · 29/08/2024 08:54

German measles parties might have been a thing in the past. German measles is Rubella, which is usually only dangerous when caught in pregnancy, so before vaccination parents did want girls to catch it young. So there may be some confusion there.

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/08/2024 08:54

You are being a responsible parent OP, and getting your child vaccinated. You are giving her as much protection as possible against diseases which previously harmed, seriously harmed or killed children. Even if she meets children with less responsible parents, she will have a good measure of protection.

veritasverity · 29/08/2024 08:56

VestaTilley · 29/08/2024 08:15

@LynetteScavo deliberate exposure was quite common up to 40/50 years ago. The younger the better was the view.

You're talking bilge mate. There was an outbreak of measles in the early 1950s, before an effective jab had been made. Every case was notifiable and put into isolation. Absolutely no bloody way would there have been measles parties, there was an outbreak in 1952/3 in my mums school, the school was temporarily closed, to try and put a break on the spread, my mums best friend was left severely disabled and never returned back to the school.
40/50 years ago there was a vaccine and measles was pretty much eradicated from the UK.
Measles doesn't just kill, it causes all manner of disabilities including severe brain damage, bilateral hearing loss, permanent blindness, to name but a few. It can cause damage and death to the healthiest of people. It's not called Morbillivirus hominis for nothing you know!

bruffin · 29/08/2024 08:57

shallweorderpizza · 29/08/2024 07:54

‘tis true.

There is a Malory Towers book where Alicia faints in an exam and everyone is frightfully relived when it is ‘only’ measles Smile

You are misrepresenting it.
Alicia is relieved that it was measles because she had thought that the brain fog she had during the exam was retribution for her sneering at her class mates that were not as clever as her.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 29/08/2024 08:57

queenMab99 · 29/08/2024 08:29

I had measles when still a baby in the 50s, it left me with permanently poor eyesight, it was closely followed by chicken pox, as my sister had just started school, and brought home all the infections! Thank goodness for the vaccination programme! I can't believe that parents are just letting all the advantages fall by the wayside. Childhood used to be blighted with constant illnesses which swept through schools, causing disruption to education, and children often debilitated for a while, if not permanently damaged. My mother was not a believer in parties to spread these illnesses as she had lived through the 20s and 30s when children still often died from them, including her own little brother.

It can be very salutary to walk through an old churchyard, with graves from the 1800s, and see how many gravestones list 2, 3, or even more children from the same family, all dead within a very few weeks from the same epidemic.

Devilsmommy · 29/08/2024 08:58

Emsie1987 · 29/08/2024 08:23

Oh and when we was home I still had to take my eldest to school. I called the school to explain I had a baby with measles. Could I please drop my child off later and pick him up earlier to avoid other parents mainly the ones with new babies. Nope. Just come in as usual.

I wasn't impressed.

Its really scary that people think it's absolutely fine to have a baby with measles around other babies who haven't yet been vaccinated 😳 I really can't understand how as a parent you can happily not get your child vaccinated, I can't wrap my head around it at all. Glad your little one is ok now

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/08/2024 08:58

Thank you, @veritasverity . I think people genuinely underestimate these kinds of diseases and their impact. People were understandably terrified of measles.

countrygirl99 · 29/08/2024 08:58

PepaWepa · 29/08/2024 08:50

No, I think you'll find it was very common. Please refer to my comment above.

It was not common
I was there, were you? Every, but everyone knew someonewho had been permanently damaged by measles and very few were stupid enough to get their kids exposed deliberately.

Redmat · 29/08/2024 08:59

Nobody had measles parties. That's plain wrong. It's a frightening illness. My eyesight was permanently damaged. The doctor came twice a day. Children died and were left with far more serious handicaps than my sight problems. No parent in their right mind wanted their children to get measles.

countrygirl99 · 29/08/2024 09:01

@Redmat don't you love how people who weren't there are insistent that they know better than those who were.

DogInATent · 29/08/2024 09:02

It is impossible to underestimate the risks the uninformed are prepared to take.

"Popular in the 1950s before mass immunisation, the measles party is making a comeback"
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2001/jul/26/healthandwellbeing.health

SabrinaThwaite · 29/08/2024 09:02

PepaWepa · 29/08/2024 08:37

Yes they did, but believe what you want

German measles (rubella) maybe, because that was safer to have as a child and as a female you definitely did not want it as an adult. I’d be very surprised if it was for measles in the pre-vaccine times.

I had measles in early 1970s, although my DM thinks I must have been vaccinated because she would have taken up any vaccines if offered (so I probably must have had a mild case). I remember the doctor coming daily to check on me and being off school for quite a while, and I did suffer regularly from tonsillitis for years afterwards.

DoIWantTo · 29/08/2024 09:03

I had measles as a child because my parents refused to vaccinate me. It was horrific. Any parent that refuses to vaccinate their children (bar medical exceptions obviously) are unfit and negligent parents who should have their children removed and be forcibly sterilised. They are abusive POS parents.

I’ll state again - that opinion excludes parents unable to vaccinate their children due to medical reasons such as allergy etc.

FancyRedRobin · 29/08/2024 09:03

Someone I know, her brother caught measles in the 80s. He recovered at the time but ten years later died of SSPE. It's a progressive untreatable fatal neurological disease caused by measles infection which happens years after the initial infection. It's rare I think but devastating.

Viviennemary · 29/08/2024 09:03

dol1 · 29/08/2024 07:09

Dd has had the vaccine at 12 months. I’ve been watching news and there is apparently a ‘surge’ in cases now. The second vaccine for it isn’t until she’s 3… does this mean she could well get measles between now and then?

No. She will be covered till her next vaccine. The surge is because people aren't vaccinating. Vaccinations have got out of hand IMHO. I'm not surprised more people are getting concerned about side effects.

IBegYourBiggestPardon · 29/08/2024 09:04

curious79 · 29/08/2024 07:23

And if she does get it in all likelihood, she’ll be absolutely fine. It is immunocompromised and already unwell kids who fare badly from measles. When I was growing up our parents would literally take us to peoples houses when they had measles so we could all catch it and be done with it.

Do you mean chickenpox?

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/08/2024 09:04

@PepaWepa read the details from pp - no-one had measles parties.

init4thecats · 29/08/2024 09:05

MarmaladeTerra · 29/08/2024 08:35

some things yes and other things no. But almost always to a lesser degree.

For example, whooping cough vaccine antibodies get through the placenta (not breastmilk) to offer SOME protection.

Breast milk antibodies are great for general health and immune system but is in no way effective for measles.

Thank you :) - ashamed I didn't think of placental transfer (kicking myself now!)

PepaWepa · 29/08/2024 09:06

countrygirl99 · 29/08/2024 08:58

It was not common
I was there, were you? Every, but everyone knew someonewho had been permanently damaged by measles and very few were stupid enough to get their kids exposed deliberately.

I know nobody permanently damaged by measles, however, I do know elders who caught it and are just fine. You can also see from this thread that it was common, even if you didn't experience it yourself.

FancyRedRobin · 29/08/2024 09:08

@SabrinaThwaite that's really interesting about you getting infections after.
They've found that measles infection causes immune system amnesia, once infected with measles, your immune system loses all it's memory of previous infections and vaccinations so you are more vulnerable to them too.

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20211112-the-people-with-immune-amnesia

Measles: The race to understand 'immune amnesia'

Scientists have known for years that measles can alter the immune system – but the latest evidence suggests it's less of a mild tweaking, and more of a total reset.

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20211112-the-people-with-immune-amnesia

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