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To wish that everybody could see the total number of ‘Thanks’

177 replies

Starlingexpress · 26/08/2024 11:39

On thread comments rather than just the author of the comment?

I’m not sure why this is not viewable to everybody but reckon it could be really useful.

Never in the history of AIBU have I seen an OP or a particularly rude or argumentative poster EVER admit they are BU but I sometimes wish a comment which gets loads of thanks might just sow a seed 😆

OP posts:
Sugarsugarahhoneyhoney · 26/08/2024 14:23

Why? It's not Facebook as long as the poster receives a thanks I don't see why it should matter.

cariadlet · 26/08/2024 14:24

Do thanks only work for the web version?

I get emails to say I've been thanked but I always use the app on my phone and have never seen an option to thank a poster for their comment or to check if one of my posts has any thanks.

Scarletrogue · 26/08/2024 14:44

I got 14 thanks once - don’t see them normally as I usually can’t find my original post. And emails are directed to a folder not visible le on my phone

Nowordsformethanks · 26/08/2024 15:01

We're not mentally 12, which social media has turned all the public likes, validation and admiration seekers into. MN is the last vestige of non-social media-esque online space that i know and it's why I'm still here. Once the competition goes public to prove who has the most likes, followers and bandwagon members, it will turn to the same shit everywhere else.

The juvenile giddy claims of "I have 20 likes", "I had 100 likes", "I have lots and lots, so many likes me, tee hee" just shows where we'd be headed if anyone could see them. It doesn't add anything useful to be public as it's been shown everywhere else.

StarryDance · 26/08/2024 15:04

I quite like being juvenile 🙃

WickieRoy · 26/08/2024 15:09

Nowordsformethanks · 26/08/2024 15:01

We're not mentally 12, which social media has turned all the public likes, validation and admiration seekers into. MN is the last vestige of non-social media-esque online space that i know and it's why I'm still here. Once the competition goes public to prove who has the most likes, followers and bandwagon members, it will turn to the same shit everywhere else.

The juvenile giddy claims of "I have 20 likes", "I had 100 likes", "I have lots and lots, so many likes me, tee hee" just shows where we'd be headed if anyone could see them. It doesn't add anything useful to be public as it's been shown everywhere else.

Sounds like you're just jealous because you've never had 100 Thanks, unlike me 😜

Coughsweet · 26/08/2024 15:24

If there were to be visible ”thanks” I think there should also be visible “no thanks” as well. I think is fair enough voice what you disagree with other posters about but clicking a visible like with no comment feels like just shouting “booo” from the sidelines.

Nowordsformethanks · 26/08/2024 15:29

WickieRoy · 26/08/2024 15:09

Sounds like you're just jealous because you've never had 100 Thanks, unlike me 😜

Ha!...I would boast...but as you said, I'm unlike you 🤪 😂

Nowordsformethanks · 26/08/2024 15:35

Another good thing about it being hidden is that we could claim any number of likes/thanks we want and no one will know. See, silver lining.

JaneJeffer · 26/08/2024 15:40

Screenshots are available (just saying)

TheClawDecides · 26/08/2024 15:42

JaneJeffer · 26/08/2024 15:40

Screenshots are available (just saying)

I was just going to say this!

I saw a thread a couple of months back where someone demanded a screenshot! 🤣

HelenWheels · 26/08/2024 15:43

if you want everyone to see you want to thank the post, you quote it

Coughsweet · 26/08/2024 15:43

I think it should be changed to a “this is the bollocks” button

SouthLondonMum22 · 26/08/2024 15:45

No thanks.

You already have people saying things like “well I’ve had 25 likes, you can’t see them but some people agree with me!”.

JaneJeffer · 26/08/2024 15:45

Coughsweet · 26/08/2024 15:43

I think it should be changed to a “this is the bollocks” button

It would explode from overuse

WickieRoy · 26/08/2024 15:45

Coughsweet · 26/08/2024 15:43

I think it should be changed to a “this is the bollocks” button

I would fucking love that button. But I don't work enough as it is.

WickieRoy · 26/08/2024 15:49

JaneJeffer · 26/08/2024 15:40

Screenshots are available (just saying)

FFS @JaneJeffer , are you trying to make me look like a total prat. 😂@Nowordsformethanks I was only teasing, presume that came across but you never can tell on here.

Still, here you are, my greatest accomplishment in life, but under a different username (that you know well @JaneJeffer ) so I can't even post it unedited. Never to be repeated I'm sure.

Right, need to have a shower, feel unclean.

To wish that everybody could see the total number of ‘Thanks’
Starlingexpress · 26/08/2024 15:51

HelenWheels · 26/08/2024 15:43

if you want everyone to see you want to thank the post, you quote it

I quote posts when I want to argue….

OP posts:
Starlingexpress · 26/08/2024 15:52

JaneJeffer · 26/08/2024 15:40

Screenshots are available (just saying)

My new goal is for somebody to demand a screenshot of my (many) likes 😃

OP posts:
WickieRoy · 26/08/2024 15:52

Starlingexpress · 26/08/2024 15:51

I quote posts when I want to argue….

And if you want to agree with a post, but have the OP see it (because it's useful advice) or for your "vote" to "count" in a debate, you have to do the annoying "This!" thing or similar. I think showing numbers is fine.

itsgettingweird · 26/08/2024 15:53

I can't see the polls.

I didn't even know there was a thanks 🤷‍♀️

I use the app and I don't pay premium. Are these desktop services or premium only?

WickieRoy · 26/08/2024 15:57

itsgettingweird · 26/08/2024 15:53

I can't see the polls.

I didn't even know there was a thanks 🤷‍♀️

I use the app and I don't pay premium. Are these desktop services or premium only?

Browser. I hate the app, just use the browser on my phone.

BIWI · 26/08/2024 16:02

Couldn't resist @MrsTerryPratchett Grin

JaneJeffer · 26/08/2024 16:03

🧐 don't want anyone to be getting deleted!

MrsTerryPratchett · 26/08/2024 16:06

BIWI · 26/08/2024 16:02

Couldn't resist @MrsTerryPratchett Grin

LOL!

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