Why do we have to be a gigantic pity party for someone based on their identity?
That's profoundly patronising.
If you enter high level sports and win a gold at the Olympics you open your life up to the public in various ways. That's the nature of the beast.
That includes scrutiny.
In the midst of this pity party we need to acknowledge that Khelif has known about the chromosome issue for some time, and took an active decision to participate knowing that it was controversial.
And we are still supposed to feel pity, despite knowing that action of lowering testosterone that the coaches have admitted to, means an admission they knew there was a problem that potentially put women at risk. Khelif, after the defeats by points (which is on technique), reached a point were it was felt no longer possible to train with women.
That's not a passive thing where you are poor ickle Khelif who everyone hates because of difference. That's an affirmative considered action knowing you are capable of doing significant harm more so that your fellow competitors.
That's fucked up. And yet we are supposed to join the pity party for Khelif who is a grown adult who is in this position after making considered decisions of own free will.
The women concerned have not been in control of the situation. Indeed one quit mid match because of safety fears. A position and a decision she should NEVER have been put in if safety was first and foremost here.
Quite frankly I'm interested in the level of underdevelopment or genetic mutation of genitals. It's irrelevant in terms of sport safety and fairness.
I don't have time or sympathy for competitors who knowingly put others at risk and have a disregard for fairness. That applies all sport - whether it be two driver in a car or two boxers in a ring. You just don't do it. You seek to be the best with your peers but not at their risk.
In terms of sympathy for a difficult psychological issue - frankly it's not for women to be support humans to someone else's distress. That should be dealt with outside the ring and outside the circus of the IOC.
You can't claim distress after knowingly doing all of that and having the opportunity to deal with it prior to the games.
This pity party is the ultimate in othering too. Far from it being enlightened it's massively regressive. It's not treating everyone as equal and capable of making adult decisions and taking responsibility. It's initialising. It's removing their responsibility for their actions.
Seeking equality and having protections in law aren't about infantilising. It's about recognising differences from a legal point of view in terms of discrimination to allow all to take on those responsibilities and to have opportunities. It doesn't involve feeling sorry for people.
This hierarchical liberal tower of oppression doesn't reflect the law nor equality.