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If Brighton can protest peacefully so can the

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WeAreManyUArefew · 08/08/2024 13:54

So called ‘protesters’ from the far right?

6 racists turned up to a immigration advice centre in Brighton, 2,000 peaceful counter protesters played instruments, sang, chanted ‘We are many you are few, we are Brighton who are you!’

There was no trouble, just a lot of people making a point.

So if we can do it, without racist language, violence, looting etc why can’t they? They were fine, a ring of normal police ( no riot gear needed) surrounded the bigots then removed them in a van.

YANBU - they are racist right wing thugs. It’s no real protesting.

YABU - they’re legit. And if they want to smash up the place then it’s because they’re provoked by ‘2 tier’ policing.

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FrippEnos · 09/08/2024 12:58

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:19

I didn't see the 'demonstraters' in Blackpool. Thought it was just last week-end. One issue in Blackpool is that a very large hotel on the Promenade has been filled with asylum seekers (mainly young men). The town has three issues with this:

  1. Only large hotels - corporate-owned - were offered asylum seekers. Struggling B&Bs got no look-in. Seen as unjust even if B&B owners did not want asylum seekers - could at least have been asked.
  2. The town received an influx of homeless in the noughties from Manchester etc. This means many hotels are now HMOs, which detracts from the holiday nature of the town and also fills its streets with beggars. Many hoteliers feel yet more displaced people, especially young men who have culturally different ideas, esp to do with women, are probably not best placed in a town that is full of young women scantily dressed (from asylum seekers possible pov) and which also has a problem with the grooming of underage girls. Blackpool is also the northern equivalent of Brighton, as a gay capital, with Pride events, gay hoteliers, gay bars and gay cultural events (Funny Girls, for example) etc. Some may feel very threatened by young men who have a different cultural outlook on homosexuality.
  3. There are international events taking place in Blackpool (fireworks, ballroom dancing, various festivals) which may be affected by the advent of unattached young men on top of all the HMO residents.
It may all seem racist but it's much more to do with factors such as that people are trying to run a business in the town. It's an international destination, too. Blackpool has enough problems (severe poverty, poor schools) without dealing with asylum seekers, however worthy of help and kindness they are.

there is a 4th issue with this in that the town (and other towns where this was done) not the hotels rely on seasonal business, and this has been affected by putting in the immigrants and restricting the amount of holiday makers to the town.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 13:13

FrippEnos · 09/08/2024 12:58

there is a 4th issue with this in that the town (and other towns where this was done) not the hotels rely on seasonal business, and this has been affected by putting in the immigrants and restricting the amount of holiday makers to the town.

You're right. Had missed that one.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 13:18

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 09:43

No one should get violent but if you are going somewhere saying opinions then expect backlash that's how free speech works. I side with trans people I am a woman to but if I started saying how women shouldn't exist I would expect your lot to tell me to shut up etc that's how it works. What alot want is to spout some horrible stuff and have no challenge that's not how protests work

Women who support women's single sex spaces, women who do not accept that one can identify into being a woman, do not shout down or assault those who disagree with them. They would (mostly - no-one can speak for all) would welcome civilized debate and an exchange of views. That's free speech. Shouting down people who you don't agree with and telling them to shut up is not free speech, it's abuse.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 13:23

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 11:07

No that's not true you can't shout fire in a cinema free speech has responsibilities as I say you can't shout stuff not ecpect folks to have a ho back that's not how free speech works

I don't think shouting 'fire' in a crowded cinema is expressing an opinion. It's an act calculated to cause severe trouble.
@VictorianBigot is correct in their explanation. Free speech means the right to express an opinion without being attacked for it. You are suggesting that free speech can only happen if nobody listening disagrees with a statement and if that is not the case they have the right to shout down opposing opinions, rather than engaging in debate.

Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 13:29

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:42

It would appear that Brighton has a child poverty problem, just like other seaside towns; that children have been trafficked from the town, and that there is a drug problem.
I think the point that some of the more wealthy may be gay couples is likely to be the case - esp if they have no DC and both are working. Others likely to be better off are 2 income no DC heterosexual couples.
Why did you not comment on the post I commented on (that actually made what you call a 'sweeping generalisation') rather than my post btw? Just asking.😀

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A drug problem, well yes, it is a City, it has a population of 276000 as opposed to Blackpool that is a town and has a population of 141000. There are many residents in Brighton & Hove that are Media jobs, Actors and quite famous musicians, the average price of a house in Brighton is £505000, they are just as likely to be owned by people who have children and work in these industries because of its proximity to London! It has a huge student population and the highest percentage of the population are 20-29, this demographic aren’t the ones owning the period properties! Brighton has had an influx of people from London particularly over the last 20 years that push up the prices and it has a huge problem with AirBNBs that are just investment properties that push up prices and have made some families move away as it is unaffordable. It is disingenuous to say that those problems are comparable to Blackpool because they are not.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 15:30

Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 13:29

A drug problem, well yes, it is a City, it has a population of 276000 as opposed to Blackpool that is a town and has a population of 141000. There are many residents in Brighton & Hove that are Media jobs, Actors and quite famous musicians, the average price of a house in Brighton is £505000, they are just as likely to be owned by people who have children and work in these industries because of its proximity to London! It has a huge student population and the highest percentage of the population are 20-29, this demographic aren’t the ones owning the period properties! Brighton has had an influx of people from London particularly over the last 20 years that push up the prices and it has a huge problem with AirBNBs that are just investment properties that push up prices and have made some families move away as it is unaffordable. It is disingenuous to say that those problems are comparable to Blackpool because they are not.

No. My point was that Blackpool is the gay capital of the North as Brighton is of the South. Blackpool's problems are about affordable housing, however, outside the streets behind the Central Pier and the Pleasure Beach, house prices are in the 145-300k range though some areas have houses in the same bracket as Brighton: 500k to 700k, mainly owned by people who do not work in Blackpool. There is a homeless population wished on the city by the council in the 90s-00s, and there is seasonal employment - which I expect is similar to that in Brighton among tourist attractions, hotels etc.
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Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2024 15:38

ForFancyAquaFox · 08/08/2024 14:29

I think everyone already knows rioters aren't reflective of whatever cause they are claiming to support.

But Brighton is one of the richest, most affluent cities and most expensive places to live in the UK - it has a very different demographics and community issues to say, Rotherham.

If you live in Brighton and your experience of UK cultural diversity is wandering down 'The lanes' and buying some fantastic gelato or pho; you're having a very different experience to many others in the UK.

I live in an area of high deprivation, and our cultural diversity is still seen by myself and the vast majority of my neighbours as a massive benefit, thank you very much! Taking your example of culturally diverse dining opportunities alone, do you honestly believe that it's only wealthy areas who benefit from this? Because the poor are all sitting in our holes on the ground, chewing on coal and resentment?

Don't you dare imply that you are doing racism on behalf of the working classes - it's a fucking insult.

Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2024 15:46

pinacollateral · 08/08/2024 15:14

Very well put.

The reason why Brighton can do this when so many other places cannot is that on the whole, Brighton is an affluent, pleasant place to be, people who live there are educated and privileged and have access to a variety of cultural and enriching experiences.

To put it bluntly, they don't experience a lot of the issue that a lot of other places do - both in terms of the right wing extremism AND mass immigration into communities, which inevitably changes the culture and feel of a place, and can make people feel threatened if people aren't given the support they need to integrate into communities.

To compare Brighton with areas of socioeconomic disadvantage/ deprivation, riddled with issues and segregation - you are not comparing like for like.

Of course Brighton can do this - people there are perfectly set up to be able to have the resilience and emotional resources to respond to things in a healthy way - but also, the issues they are responding to in Brighton are not as bad as they are elsewhere.

This is absolute nonsense - you appear to believe that the working classes are some kind of sub-species, who don't receive education, are unable to have enriching experiences, lack emotional intelligence/resilience and can't respond to things in a "healthy" fashion.

Do you know any working class people?

Allthislovelygreen · 09/08/2024 17:30

RampantIvy · 09/08/2024 08:28

Imagine growing up in a place with easy access to London, beach, happy holiday people, middle-class artists, pastel painted houses.

There are lots of places like that nowhere near London. I suspect that you are a Londoner or someone who wishes they lived in London.

Not everyone wants "easy access to London" (ex Londoner who has no wish to live there again)

I live in Doncaster 🙄

RampantIvy · 09/08/2024 17:48

Allthislovelygreen · 09/08/2024 17:30

I live in Doncaster 🙄

And I'm near Barnsley Grin

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 19:29

RampantIvy · 09/08/2024 17:48

And I'm near Barnsley Grin

It's because farage and his ilk pretend that being ignorant racist is because they speak for working classes etc. This is pure nonsense and it frustrates me . I have never been to uni I live in dewsbury and yet i get very despondent when I hear people blame immigrants on the fact the reason why the town is down fallen is because if council budgets etc being cut fir example. Immigrants are not making us poor those at the top are and that's what annoys me about other people who cant see that

pinacollateral · 09/08/2024 19:30

Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2024 15:46

This is absolute nonsense - you appear to believe that the working classes are some kind of sub-species, who don't receive education, are unable to have enriching experiences, lack emotional intelligence/resilience and can't respond to things in a "healthy" fashion.

Do you know any working class people?

I come from one of the most deprived areas in the north of England.

WeAreManyUArefew · 09/08/2024 21:50

Not just Brighton of course - Sheffield, Liverpool, Walthamstow etc or are posters going to pretend that those cities don’t have any deprivation either????

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PathOfLeastResitance · 09/08/2024 22:03

ForFancyAquaFox · 08/08/2024 14:29

I think everyone already knows rioters aren't reflective of whatever cause they are claiming to support.

But Brighton is one of the richest, most affluent cities and most expensive places to live in the UK - it has a very different demographics and community issues to say, Rotherham.

If you live in Brighton and your experience of UK cultural diversity is wandering down 'The lanes' and buying some fantastic gelato or pho; you're having a very different experience to many others in the UK.

Just to add some balance to what you have written, there are certainly areas of Brighton that are incredibly deprived with a cornucopia of issues and struggles. You could tick every box, many times over on a ‘deprived and down trodden areas’ bingo card. I worked in one of those areas for many years and in all those years the issues did not abate. Whenever I tell people about these areas of Brighton they are shocked as they only see the seafront and laines but the city is far more than that.
Sorry to derail but it is something I felt necessary to correct.

julydecembermay · 09/08/2024 22:38

@PathOfLeastResitance well said. Brighton has so many social and mental health issues. Just because some rich people live here does not make it easy on those who have issues. Same as London, for example. FFS. People need to get over their preconceptions.

LakieLady · 09/08/2024 23:05

Floogal · 08/08/2024 18:55

Exactly! The same goes for 'posh' Sussex towns Eastbourne and Hastings. Higher cost of living yet lower wages, underemployment is rife, as is homelessness. Sussex has it's share of oversaturated housing and job markets.

Hastings is the 13th most deprived town nationally.

It used to qualify for special EU funding targeted at deprived areas, but still voted for Brexit.

Hastings deprivation

PickAChew · 09/08/2024 23:12

Imagine growing up in a place with easy access to London, beach, happy holiday people, middle-class artists, pastel painted houses.

Most people in Sunderland and Hartlepool probably don't give a shit about most of those things, apart from the beaches and they have excellent beaches of their own. Ones with proper soft sand.

Tarquina · 09/08/2024 23:18

So-called "antifa" are among the worst fascists I've ever seen.

By this time the term "Nazi scum" simply means "anybody who doesn't agree with me."

Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 23:18

LakieLady · 09/08/2024 23:05

Hastings is the 13th most deprived town nationally.

It used to qualify for special EU funding targeted at deprived areas, but still voted for Brexit.

Hastings deprivation

Hastings is not Brighton!

Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 23:19

Brighton is awesome and it is so chilled out you forget what life is like outside of the area!

Devonshiregal · 10/08/2024 00:17

pinacollateral · 08/08/2024 15:14

Very well put.

The reason why Brighton can do this when so many other places cannot is that on the whole, Brighton is an affluent, pleasant place to be, people who live there are educated and privileged and have access to a variety of cultural and enriching experiences.

To put it bluntly, they don't experience a lot of the issue that a lot of other places do - both in terms of the right wing extremism AND mass immigration into communities, which inevitably changes the culture and feel of a place, and can make people feel threatened if people aren't given the support they need to integrate into communities.

To compare Brighton with areas of socioeconomic disadvantage/ deprivation, riddled with issues and segregation - you are not comparing like for like.

Of course Brighton can do this - people there are perfectly set up to be able to have the resilience and emotional resources to respond to things in a healthy way - but also, the issues they are responding to in Brighton are not as bad as they are elsewhere.

This is just not true.

Brighton is a hole. And it’s sinking further. It’s utterly filthy. and people are so cracked up they don’t have the energy to cause too many problems.

just some examples from 2023 stats:

The data shows that Brighton has more people sleeping on the street on any given night than anywhere other than Manchester and Westminster.

Brighton is one of the biggest centres for drug misuse rates in the UK, with a study showing that the city has the highest use rate for Cocaine, Ketamine, and MDMA

It is a town of two halves - utter haves and have nots. It’s actually not that pleasant to be there. Yes it rides off it previous glory day’s reputation but people new to the town see it instantly - pure grot. And people who’ve lived there for years have boiling frog syndrome. When they take a second to look around are horrified. But admitting it would bring down their property prices so they bury their heads in the sand.

honestly go there. Get off the train and walk down to the sea. In one road you will see nothing lovely or easy or affluent. It’s neglected and dirty and a sad shadow of itself.

on the plus side all those drugs and people who have gone there for a party, hippie, “brighton” life do lead to imaginative protests with singing and peace signs.

sorry editors to add:

eighteen percent of the population of the city (or 44,893 people) were migrants. putting B&H at the highest percentage in south east and 15th highest nationally.

this was a few years ago now so I’m sure the figures have gone up or down or whatever but clearly you don’t know the town.

the diversity IS something brightonians old and new pride themselves on. This is what’s different about the town. This is what is keeping it hanging on by a thread. This is what helps keep tensions down. So I’ll admit it has some good. But It’s not what you’re making it out to be. Or maybe you have the boiling frog syndrome too?

Waitingfordoggo · 10/08/2024 06:55

@Devonshiregal I agree that the decline is maybe less obvious to people who live there. I grew up a few miles outside Brighton and then lived in the city itself for seven years in the 00’s. I live elsewhere now but still nearby. It’s a very different place now to when I left 17 years ago. Very dirty and run-down and so many lost people!

Reminds me of San Francisco which I first visited in the 80s, visited again in 2004 and then again in 2015. Each time I went back, it had become tattier and sadder there were more homeless and addicts.

Grammarnut · 10/08/2024 18:57

Cadela · 08/08/2024 14:10

They’re not protesting, they’re using this as an excuse to get all their toxic masculinity out. They aren’t campaigning for anything, they just whip themselves up into a lager fuelled rage because they think they are being shorted by the govt.

Nothing more dangerous than a white man with a chip on his shoulder.

Like the Labour councillor (now thankfully suspended) who called for the 'protestors' to have their throats cut. Dreadful example.

Grammarnut · 10/08/2024 19:00

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 12:36

Because free speech comes with responsibility aka you can't shout fire scare people in a cinema even though you can see that's free speech. The point is people don't want to be challenged sure go yo Brighton protest peacefully do that amongst loads of lgbt people who disagree with you who also have their free speech to challenge to say you feel intimidated is that words? If it's violence then that's a line not to cross but I see so many free speech flk who don't want yo be challenged

All those who shouted down the Let Women Speak women, who thus needed police protection.

AllyMcdonald · 11/08/2024 12:03

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