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To be shocked it’s been this easy to loose weight!

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EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

OP posts:
Beautiful3 · 08/08/2024 07:23

That's fantastic @EatStopEat . I've fasted in the past.and I.want.to.go.back to it. I'm counting calories at the moment, but it's taking too long. Fasting was.quicker and made my brain really.sharp. I only have 1.5 stone left to go. I found making food for the family, while I have none too difficult.

Iamthemoom · 08/08/2024 07:28

I do 16-20 hour fasts 6 days a week (only water and black coffee) and then longer fasts up to 4 days every few weeks. In those I only have black coffee, electrolytes and 2 bullet proof coffees a day. I have done full on water fasts in my 20s but don't feel I could handle those now and my longest was 10 days to fix a medical issue. I hadn't heard of ADF. I think I'd find that harder than fasting for four days! Day 2 is always the hardest and then I feel great and as long as I take electrolytes there's really no hunger at all.

Differentstarts · 08/08/2024 07:29

Well done on your weight loss and finding something that works for you. Iv recently just finished a vlcd (very low calorie diet) and like you it's amazing how quick the cravings go away and how much better you feel. Keep it up op your doing great 👍

soupfiend · 08/08/2024 07:29

27Bumblebees · 08/08/2024 01:54

Well done on making some positive changes to your health OP.

I would be mindful though of recent research that shows that long term effects of dieting actually lead to more weight gain due to the physiological processes that restrictive eating can trigger. Slower, gradual changes are much more likely to be maintained over time, and have fewer negative impacts on things like hormones and metabolism. The podcast "maintenance phase" has some great episodes on this, including the 5:2 diet and those like it.

Also the weight loss research centre at Sydney university has written quite a bit on the long term effects of dieting.

www.sydney.edu.au/news-opinion/news/2023/07/05/its-time-to-bust-the-calories-in-calories-out-weight-loss-myth.html

This really isn't to rain on your parade, I hope your manage to continue your journey to a healthier weight (whatever you deem that to be). I guess it's just to say to take care that once you come off your diet, if you've lost a lot in a short period, you might put it all back on plus some - it's what your body is programmed to do. Go well.

I thought the research showed (that Ive heard about) that slower methods simply lead to people giving up because theres little motivation from something happening so slowly and that for very overweight or obese people, faster weight loss is more sustainable over the long term.

In OPs case that first 20lb or so is likely 10lb of water and glucose in any case so it normally always slows down to around 1lb or 2lb a week in the longer term

But OP, in terms of fasting, just be mindful about gallstones and the effect on the gallbladder, I think it doesnt like fasting.

SallyWD · 08/08/2024 07:29

Fasting is the answer! I've lost then maintained my weight for years through fasting.

Rewis · 08/08/2024 07:35

From the first paragraph I understood that you don't have anything for 36h. Other than probably water. And that sounded like hell 😅
But I'm glad you found what works for you!

LindaDawn · 08/08/2024 07:36

I have been doing intermittent fasting for over a year now. I usually do 7pm to 12 noon but occasionally extent it to 2pm. It saves time in the morning. Not sure I have lost any weight through it though LOL! I do it mainly because I have read that it’s good for our bodies to have a break from food.

LindaDawn · 08/08/2024 07:37

Make sure you drink throughout your fasting period as I tend to get headaches if I don’t.

HolidayAtNight · 08/08/2024 07:42

Those who've been fasting for a while - have you had any issues with gallstones? The research on fasting is so appealing but the fear of gallstones is strong!

SloaneStreetVandal · 08/08/2024 07:42

Glad it's working for you, and you're already feeling the benefits. I don't think I could go that long without sustenance though!

katepilar · 08/08/2024 07:44

Its great it works for you, thank you for sharing.

I wonder why its called fasting as you consume quite a lot on your fasting days. Real fasting can treat a lot of conditions its just not very popular or known about.

KeepinOn · 08/08/2024 07:45

HolidayAtNight · 08/08/2024 07:42

Those who've been fasting for a while - have you had any issues with gallstones? The research on fasting is so appealing but the fear of gallstones is strong!

I've done 16:8 for many years now with no health issues. I don't do longer fasts because I want to eat family dinners etc.

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 08/08/2024 07:47

I had to have my gallbladder removed due to gallstones, I was fasting at the time and had lost about 4 stone, the doctor said the fasting was what likely triggered the gallstones so just be mindful of that

BunnyLake · 08/08/2024 07:48

EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

Well done! I’m going to photo your post and keep it for the future as I’d like to try it if I need it. I’ve been hearing a lot about fasting but don’t feel at the moment I would be able to do it. I’m currently on Keto which is not too bad and I am losing but it’s slow. I’m very intrigued by your experience so thanks for posting.

soupfiend · 08/08/2024 07:49

If you already have gallstones its problematic, I have a number of friends who are nurses who say that (and have experienced it themselves)

coodawoodashooda · 08/08/2024 07:50

Well done!

ineedtogwtoutbeforeitatoohot · 08/08/2024 07:50

Keeping it off is the problem
It's not sustainable.

CoffeeGood · 08/08/2024 07:53

I'm really glad you have found a way that works for you but please don't say you fast for 36 hours because you really don't and it's quite misleading to say you do!

Areolaborealis · 08/08/2024 07:58

Not really shocked. If you miss a few days of worth of food/calories each week for an extended period you are going to lose weight regardless of the philosophy behind it.

What's great is that you have found something that works for you. Challenge will be adapting it when weight loss goal is achieved.

Feelingblue77 · 08/08/2024 07:58

@crazybeelady would you mind sharing which plan you are following as my situation sounds similar to yours!

OP - well done! Really pleased for you.

RettyPriddle · 08/08/2024 07:59

Well done OP. I’ve found your post really useful. I will start the same after my holiday! Keep us posted on your progress.

DeliciousApples · 08/08/2024 08:01

That's great you've done so well.

This article has put me off. It seems balanced and is from the British heart Foundation so it's from a responsible place. It does say further research is needed though:

www.bhf.org.uk/informationsupport/heart-matters-magazine/news/behind-the-headlines/intermittent-fasting

HowIrresponsible · 08/08/2024 08:02

Its been easy for you so far because you're very overweight. I say with no animus but your starting point was over 18 stone.

I only want to lose a stone to a stone and a half and that won't work for me because of the lower amount of weight.

Eating everything I wanted in that 12 hour window would balance out and wouldn't work.

You'll eventually plateau when you've lost more and it won't work. Slow and steady is best.

BunnyLake · 08/08/2024 08:03

Apologies for quoting your full OP. I hate it when people do that!

NeedToChangeName · 08/08/2024 08:04

I haven't heard of alternate day fasting. Sounds unhealthy to me, to go so long / often without food

And intermittent fasting just sounds like skipping breakfast / no snacks after dinner

In a nutshell, eat less = lose weight

But, there's no money to be made by encouraging people to eat sensible amounts of mostly healthy food, with biscuits / bacon from time to time. Hence, the diet industry coming up with endless variations of "eat less"