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To be shocked it’s been this easy to loose weight!

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EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

OP posts:
Butchyrestingface · 08/08/2024 05:03

23Shadows · 08/08/2024 01:55

I'm glad to hear this is working for you and I might try something similar but I'll just point out that you're not really fasting at all if you're having sugar, honey, milkshakes etc. It's more like an intermittent VLCD.

That’s what I thought. When I do a 36 hour fast, I FAST. The only thing that passes my lips is water - and lots of it, otherwise I’d get a crashing headache.

OP seems to be doing well though so her method is obviously working for her.

NinetyNineRedBalloonsGoBy · 08/08/2024 05:17

Well done OP!Flowers you're inspirational!

Ignore the posters who are criticising and nit picking- there's a few on MN who don't really like to read about genuine successes for overweight people Confused and become competitive about surviving only on a massive salad once a week... you have found a way that is sustainable for you and that is what is important and will genuinely work in the long term 👏

JudyBlumesBlubber · 08/08/2024 05:50

Well done OP!
I have never done fasting but lost a lot while calorie counting. It was a challenge to do all that logging and the “re-entry” to post diet maintenance was hard. I might try fasting.
What would you all recommend as a starting plan?

CatLady476 · 08/08/2024 05:57

Just popping on to say that I have found Slimpod really helpful in keeping weight off in the long term (kind of like hypnosis tapes). I would not have believed how effective it's been with zero effort - I automatically eat less and genuinely want really healthy stuff. Never thought it could be so easy. 11 lbs off in a month and I'm not even trying - my body has naturally fallen into a 16:8 rhythm.

connie26 · 08/08/2024 06:01

Thanks for sharing op and well done! This sounds great. I like the idea of still having protein shakes as I don't think I could last that long without something. Do you make your own shakes?

LaLaLoca · 08/08/2024 06:10

The short reply is no, I’m not shocked as you’re massively reducing your calorie intake. Good luck with the maintenance- I'm sure you’ll continue to improve your health and feel great.

27Bumblebees · 08/08/2024 06:24

DistanceCall · 08/08/2024 04:59

Nonsense. Maintenance Phase is a pro-Fat Acceptance podcast that spouts misonformation about your “set point” and so on. Bodies are not “programmed” to recover lost weight. If you go back to overeating, you will get fat again. It’s not genetics, it’s caloric intake,

Did you read my source? That's not maintenance phase, it's from academia.

Do you have a source from recent research?

theworldsmad · 08/08/2024 06:26

Op I love fasting. Something really clicked for me when I discovered fasting.
My mum used to always say 'kitchen closes at 6mp' when we were growing up. She used to say you're body is not doing anything with that food after that sice you are sleeping And my mum was always skinny and still is. And now I realise that she was basically IF (although she doesn't call it that) and not eating for at least 14 to 16 hours every day
Anyway when I grew up and had my own household I struggled to not eat later. I would pop grapes into my mouth while cleaning up after the kids.
DH and I would sneak some chocolate as a dessert later before we went to bed.
But the moment I was fasting it was like some will power kicked in and I wouldn't eat because I didn't want to break my fast.

And like you say, because you know you can eat tomorrow I'm never feeling like I'm depriving myself, but I'm more conscious of what I break my fast with. I don't want to not eat for 36 hours I don't want to break my fast with chocolate that will just cause my blood sugar to spike.

I'm currently breastfeeding, and have read somewhere you're not supposed to fast longer than 18 hours. Don't know how true it is. MN? Can't wait to get back to 36 hour fasts!

FeelingUnsure99 · 08/08/2024 06:28

It's great that you've lost weight op but I think a lot of people would disagree that regularly fasting for 36 hours is easy.

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 08/08/2024 06:31

@EatStopEat , I was going to ask about this:-
“On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet! ”
but I see you are doing a version of 5:2 namely 4:3. I have had my best weight loss doing various fasting methods from 5:2/4:3 through to absolute fasting 3 x 42 hrs per week.
I recommend you look up Jason Fung and read The Obesity Code there are many advocates of fasting. You may become interested in autophagy which is one of the great benefits of absolute fasting. If you are only interested in losing weight then I’m very glad for you that you’ve found a method that works for you.
Alas despite losing a huge amount of weight, I put it all and more on again and as a post menopausal woman I had convinced myself that my hormones were against me. Your post has inspired me to try again, I may try your exact regimen although when I did 4:3 I only allowed myself 400 calories a day.
Please learn from me and when you are content with your weight keep one 36 hr fast a week, it’s scary how easily weight piles on again.
Thank you for your post and good luck!
P.S
Is there a fasting discussion on Mumsnet?

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 08/08/2024 06:38

XlemonX · 08/08/2024 02:45

Well done OP

further down the line you should try to clean fast and only have water on fasting hours to achieve the full effect of autophagy and detoxing.

I am a true believer of OMAD (one meal a day) it works better longterm and I throw in longer fast a few times. That works wonders. My fat just melts off and I become full of energy, skin becomes flawless.

@XlemonX ,
Do you not allow black tea or coffee or a squeeze of lemon in your water. How about gassy water would you have that?

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 08/08/2024 06:43

@DistanceCall
”Nonsense. Maintenance Phase is a pro-Fat Acceptance podcast that spouts misonformation about your “set point” and so on. Bodies are not “programmed” to recover lost weight. If you go back to overeating, you will get fat again. It’s not genetics, it’s caloric intake,”

I don’t agree with you, ‘set point’ is a very well researched topic and one which my elder son who is a GP agrees with. Maybe you would find reading around the subject enlightening.

manova366 · 08/08/2024 06:44

I'm with you OP. I've lost about 10kg in the past couple of years, and I don't even properly fast. I've just found it a sustainable way to reduce the total calories I eat. Diets always felt like deprivation so I know what you mean - I never feel deprived - if I do get hungry when I'm in a 'no eating' stretch, I remember I can eat whatever delicious thing I want at dinner.
It is a very simple way to reduce calories while never having to think about calories or make exhausting small decisions or feel a sense of failure about a 'wrong' decision. Even having the occasional 'cheat' day where i eat three big meals doesn't make any difference.
I never eat breakfast anymore (but I do drink coffee with milk, so technically breaking the fast). I skip lunch a few days a week, and when I do have lunch I have a protein bar or small sandwich. Then for dinner I eat whatever I like, and generally don't eat anything past 9pm.
It works for me because my job is extremely sedentary - I am never actually hungry for lunch.
Weight loss has been a benefit, and dropping the weight has drastically reduced menopause symptoms; but it has also made me more conscientious about balancing my dinner meal - making sure it has sufficient carb, protein, greens, veges, etc.

It's not going to work for everyone, like I would never have done this when my kids were little and I was more active, but it is absolutely the key for me in middle age.

LividCovid · 08/08/2024 06:44

Back in the day I did the 5:2.

For a couple of weeks only, as it made me so bad tempered on fast days that I sacked it off…

NicoleSkidman · 08/08/2024 06:54

23Shadows · 08/08/2024 01:55

I'm glad to hear this is working for you and I might try something similar but I'll just point out that you're not really fasting at all if you're having sugar, honey, milkshakes etc. It's more like an intermittent VLCD.

Exactly my thoughts. You’re not fasting at all if you’re having milkshakes, protein shakes, flax seeds, honey etc etc on those days. True fasting would just be water.

Have you calculated how many calories you’re consuming in those fast days? I’d wager it’s not much less than the recommended intake for an adult woman.

babiesonthecarpet · 08/08/2024 06:57

LividCovid · 08/08/2024 06:44

Back in the day I did the 5:2.

For a couple of weeks only, as it made me so bad tempered on fast days that I sacked it off…

Reading this thread with interest as I was the same as you! In the second week I actually got migraines on the fast days and at that point I gave up. The only diet I’ve ever had success with is just calorie counting.

It’s great though to see how well IF works for others. I have a less busy lifestyle now than I did when I tried it (no commuting and only work part time now) so wondering if it might be worth trying again.

NicoleSkidman · 08/08/2024 06:57

FeelingUnsure99 · 08/08/2024 06:28

It's great that you've lost weight op but I think a lot of people would disagree that regularly fasting for 36 hours is easy.

It would be easy if you’re consuming what the OP consumes on her fast days!

AShortName · 08/08/2024 07:00

I am happy for you, but this doesn’t work for me. I naturally don’t eat from c.9pm until 12:30 the next day (I’m not sure the extra half hour helps?) and I’m still putting on weight. I don’t eat that much in the other hours either 🙁

KeepinOn · 08/08/2024 07:04

Sounds like it's working for you, which is the main thing. Enjoy! But to spend the time to write 12 paragraphs just to bash weight loss injections is a bit overkill. Especially since your accusations about them are false. 😊

CherubEarrings · 08/08/2024 07:04

23Shadows · 08/08/2024 01:55

I'm glad to hear this is working for you and I might try something similar but I'll just point out that you're not really fasting at all if you're having sugar, honey, milkshakes etc. It's more like an intermittent VLCD.

This. You are not fasting for 36 hours.

XlemonX · 08/08/2024 07:08

@Lovepeaceunderstanding
ohh yes! Any liquid can be consumed as long as you dont trigger your insulin levels. I had mineral water to keep my electrolytes in balance but i had to let the fizz fizzle out as it gave me bad acid drinking it on empty stomach.
@Stopsnowing I prefer to have my large meal for lunch so i have plenty of time to digest. I find waiting all day till dinner to eat the large meal is hard and more easier ending up eating ”junk”. No snacking in between.

Its actually more to the OMAD and ADF. You will lose a lot at the beginning as you easily eating less and falling into the catergory of reduced calories but a true OMAD or ADF, your overall calories of the week should not be reduced as you want your metabolism to burn an x amount.

I would recommend listening/read books by Dr Fung

Kipperthedawg · 08/08/2024 07:11

How do you concentrate at work?

Meadowwild · 08/08/2024 07:17

@EatStopEat Thank you so much for starting this thread. Just like you, I watched that Michael Moseley programme last week, out of respect for him (and also felt so sad when he talked about wanting to live long) I told DH I wanted to try this but he seemed very unsure.

Currently I am working away from home with catered very stodgy food. But back next week and have said to DH I am giving it a go twice a week.

I really hope you keep this thread going as I'd love to join it for mutual support. I was interested in the doctor who said, yes people over eat next day but by 25% not 100%, so long term, there's a massive calorie reduction.

Nannyfannybanny · 08/08/2024 07:20

Cherub earings, you are correct
Smoothie especially fruit can contain a lot of sugar and calories,will spike your blood sugar. Healthy eating doesn't include the chocolate, sugar, syrup People with a lot of weight to loose always loose a lot first off. If it works for you, good luck. A vast majority of people don't realise how many calories and how much they really eat. That's the unpalatable truth.my DH has been complaining about his (beer) guy for 20 years,he doesn't actually drink any alcohol, before bed last night he ate a packet of wine gums,half a pack of chocolate raisins,an ice cream,was up at 1am with heartburn. I stopped buying sweets, chocolate,I don't want to lose any more weight, just maintain where I am now. He decides it's meal time, I eat when I am hungry, but there's always a "fasting"element because I have a hiatus hernia, I can't eat later than 6, after that it's just tap water.

Meadowwild · 08/08/2024 07:22

I would so happily try this. I am currently on ADHD meds which reduce appetite anyway and I've realised that there are loads of really delicious healthy meals that are very low calorie and would work well on a 500 cals a day 'fast' twice a week.

I know a true fast is just water. But it probably makes sense if working to have a few calories during the working day..