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To think the anti-immigrations have BEEN "heard"?

501 replies

dropoutin · 07/08/2024 01:40

I posted something like this on one of the riot threads but it ws locked soon after.

Is anyone else getting really bored of people justifying racism, terror, violence and destruction by insisting how important it is that those who imagine asylum seekers are responsible for the country's problem are "heard".

Little reminder: It's exactly that particular obsession that led to the Brexit referendum in 2016, and the most radical - and destructive - political change of recent times.

There were several years in which the country barely discussed anything else. Farage and Johnson got to tell you in great detail how the reason you're poor is because of the black family down the road. And you got the choice of believing them, or not. You even got to make Johnson PM so he could "get Brexit done" and "level up" your community.

You've been taken for a ride. Asylum seekers rriving irregularly (via small boats etc) make up less than 5% of total immigration, which is coming down after peaking in 2022 (partly due to the Ukraine war, and other factors). Neither Tories nor Labour are going to radically reduce immigration because anyone having to ACTUALLY run the country can see that doing so will exacerbate the demographic time-bomb, reduce economic activity and decimate the NHS. You're poor because of 14 years of Conservative economic policy, not because of anyone's skin colour or passport.

Meanwhile: How many of us get to have a national referendum tailored around our favourite policy hobbyhorse? When is my referendum on industrial relations? On housing and land ownership? On the House of Lords? When do I get to be "heard"? Being heard doesn't mean everyone has to agree with you, or that you get to go out and beat up brown people because things aren't working out the way you imagined they would.

It's not that you haven't been heard. It's just that you were wrong.

OP posts:
BunsForTea · 07/08/2024 11:36

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 11:18

Best to think about how to be more like a country that doesn’t have this then

I have thought about it. Can we get rid of the right-wing thugs and the people who incite them, that might be a good place to start?

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 11:45

BunsForTea · 07/08/2024 11:36

I have thought about it. Can we get rid of the right-wing thugs and the people who incite them, that might be a good place to start?

Have you thought about it for long? Not sure how you get rid of people and you might find the reality much more difficult to deal with

Especially if riots increase and police don’t want the risk

Anonym00se · 07/08/2024 11:47

It was one incident, and the killer got a whole life sentence. Three women were killed by a white man with a crossbow last month. Should we eject all white men from the country?

Some Muslim men are killers and sex pests. Some white British men are killers and sex pests. 89% of sex offences are by whites, versus 6% by Asians. Given that only 83% of the country are white, and 6% Asian, it’s the white British population who are more likely to be sex attackers.

This is not a race issue, it’s a gender issue. Women don’t go round killing and raping, men do.

CobaltQueen · 07/08/2024 11:48

Oh @Forestgreen19 I am sure everyone will be bending over backwards to hear your educated views.
You are very rude. Not everyone thinks the same way as you or has the same lived experiences. Just because you are all for immigration doesn't mean that you can ignore the very legitimate concerns that others have.
Must be so nice to live in your little bubble.

WillimNot · 07/08/2024 11:50

Forestgreen19 · 07/08/2024 08:37

British people need to get off their arses and work if they want less migrants. Work hard in school, train to be a HCA or a nurse, get up at 5am for a job in caring. Work ethic. But these rioters (and some people on this thread) don’t want to hear that.

There are huge numbers of vacancies in the NHS and care sectors which we cannot plug. That’s why the UK is granting so many “low-skilled” visas each year - the vast majority of them are for care workers.

In February 2022 the Home Office added care workers to its shortage occupations list. We desperately need these migrants.

It’s always “too many immigrants, go back to your own country”. It’s never “Bob, get off your arse/put down that crow bar, stop smashing the window of SportsDirect and go and get a job at the care home”, is it?

We don’t have enough nurses. Can the racists (sorry, people “concerned about migration”) in this thread please gain a sudden passion for getting unemployed young British people to train as nurses?

27% of NHS nurses are from outside the UK. We have 100,000+ open vacancies which the NHS are desperately trying to fill with international recruitment. Maybe there’s a case for a small percentage of the 1.6 million people claiming unemployment benefit in the UK to start working? Then the NHS can change their recruitment strategy?

You seem to forget that to become a Doctor or nurse takes a university education, something that is put of reach of many people in this country.

User135644 · 07/08/2024 11:58

WhysEverythingABallAche · 07/08/2024 07:32

I think we’ve reached the point now where these people can’t even remember why they are rioting. It’s only been a week and no one’s talking about killing 3 little girls anymore.

I don’t even think it’s about immigration any more. I just think that lots of people are angry, they are fed up and they’ve had enough.

I’m f*cking angry about;

There was no one for me to vote for. My vote didn’t reflect my values (LibDem tactical vote)

Labour/ Conservative both screw the country

Had a new government for 4 weeks and they’re already a pile of shite. What kind of people take my widowed 87 year old dad’s fuel allowance away

My town is in massive decline due to explosion of population, 000’s of houses but no more GP places, no kids dental, waited in A&E for 9 hours

Just basically seeing the massive decline of our country unfold in front of our eyes

The chipping away of women’s rights, our safety and how little by little it’s becoming acceptable to treat women as lesser humans

WRT immigration. I don’t have a problem with immigration. We need it. We don’t need people who rape children in gangs, or who refuse to integrate. I’m sure the peaceful immigrants would welcome us throwing them out so they don’t have to be put in the same bag.

Everyone is pissed off. When this happens, people turn on each other, this is what is happening now.

There are people rioting. There are people who think everything is rosy, no issues with immigration etc. Then there are people like me who are very angry about how our society is collapsing, but I’m not about to go out on the street about it. There are loads of people like me, and NO we are not being listened to, and in fact called ignorant and racist.

I

Edited

I think you're spot on. We've just had an election where Labour won a landslide without any real enthusiasm for them and without them really having anything to offer (general admission there's no money and the Tories have destroyed the country).

Look where the riots have happened. Inner cities in northern England all where there's extreme poverty. Places ravaged by austerity, child poverty, food poverty, lack of housing, lack of good jobs, cost of living crisis. Now we've got a change of government and it's more of the same.

Whenwillitgetwarm · 07/08/2024 12:04

You are 100% correct OP. I almost posted the same thing out of frustration.

We’ve heard about their ‘concerns’ to the exclusion of all else for many years now. All government rhetoric has centred immigration for over a decade.

The ‘concerned’ got their Brexit, their Boris Johnson etc. They had Lee Anderson, Rees-Mogg, Patel, Braverman, May, Jenrick centering them. Sunak built his whole premiership around stopping the boats. Fuck the economy, education, health. They even supported Farage into an election win.

The concerned had the mainstream media solely focused on immigration. The Daily Mail, Telegraph, Express and GB News only paused for breath when the Queen died. They have Twitter (X) owner Musk amplifying their ‘concerns’.

Like the Pied Piper the rest of us have been following their tune into the cave all the way to shitsville.

I’m sick of hearing about their concerns to the exclusion of all else. It’s time to ignore them, they will never be happy. Look at their paramilitary wing fighting all over the streets. Jobless, toothless, thick. These are not the group connected to building a successful country. Enough. Ignore them and if they become violent, lock them up. Let us get on with rebuilding our economy, infrastructure and other major things.

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 12:15

Whenwillitgetwarm · 07/08/2024 12:04

You are 100% correct OP. I almost posted the same thing out of frustration.

We’ve heard about their ‘concerns’ to the exclusion of all else for many years now. All government rhetoric has centred immigration for over a decade.

The ‘concerned’ got their Brexit, their Boris Johnson etc. They had Lee Anderson, Rees-Mogg, Patel, Braverman, May, Jenrick centering them. Sunak built his whole premiership around stopping the boats. Fuck the economy, education, health. They even supported Farage into an election win.

The concerned had the mainstream media solely focused on immigration. The Daily Mail, Telegraph, Express and GB News only paused for breath when the Queen died. They have Twitter (X) owner Musk amplifying their ‘concerns’.

Like the Pied Piper the rest of us have been following their tune into the cave all the way to shitsville.

I’m sick of hearing about their concerns to the exclusion of all else. It’s time to ignore them, they will never be happy. Look at their paramilitary wing fighting all over the streets. Jobless, toothless, thick. These are not the group connected to building a successful country. Enough. Ignore them and if they become violent, lock them up. Let us get on with rebuilding our economy, infrastructure and other major things.

It’s hard to do any building when you have riots breaking out, I’d put in policy to reduce that happening

CosmicDaisyChain · 07/08/2024 12:16

Anonym00se · 07/08/2024 11:47

It was one incident, and the killer got a whole life sentence. Three women were killed by a white man with a crossbow last month. Should we eject all white men from the country?

Some Muslim men are killers and sex pests. Some white British men are killers and sex pests. 89% of sex offences are by whites, versus 6% by Asians. Given that only 83% of the country are white, and 6% Asian, it’s the white British population who are more likely to be sex attackers.

This is not a race issue, it’s a gender issue. Women don’t go round killing and raping, men do.

It's not however the only incident where an asylum seeker/ failed asylum seeker has committed murder in the UK.

Midnightalready · 07/08/2024 12:18

Anonym00se · 07/08/2024 08:17

This is what angers me. They do these despicable acts in the name of “protecting women and children”, without a thought that women are statistically FIFTEEN times more like to suffer sexual assault at the hands of a white man than an Asian man.

It sickens me that they feel entitled to speak for us. We need protection from ALL men. To have them spouting that we’re scared to walk the streets (because of the threat from Muslim men) when in actual fact it’s them that we fear, makes me so angry.

Women are statistically FIFTEEN times more like to suffer sexual assault at the hands of a white man than an Asian man.

Can I ask where I can verify this statistic? This research from Sweden shows exactly the opposite: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8330751/

German stats back this up: "An internal study by the German federal law enforcement agency, leaked to a Zurich newspaper, revealed that asylum-seekers have committed some 7,000 sexual assaults (ranging from groping to gang-rape ) between 2015 and 2023. Although they make up only 2.5 per cent of the population, asylum-seekers made up 13.1 per cent of all sexual-assault suspects in 2021."

Swedish rape offenders — a latent class analysis

Sweden has witnessed an increase in the rates of sexual crimes including rape. Knowledge of who the offenders of these crimes are is therefore of importance for prevention. We aimed to study characteristics of individuals convicted of rape, aggravated...

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8330751

Anonym00se · 07/08/2024 12:18

CosmicDaisyChain · 07/08/2024 12:16

It's not however the only incident where an asylum seeker/ failed asylum seeker has committed murder in the UK.

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So what? The crossbow incident wasn’t the only incident where a white man committed murder either. Three women are murdered every week in this country by men who are usually white.

Scarletrunner · 07/08/2024 12:19

We've had bad government - I don't remember people marching in the streets demanding a referendum to leave the EU - as I remember it it was D Cameron trying to force his fellow Tories into line. So we get Brexit - disaster.
Then no one can move on and sort out exports etc T May, disaster so we end up with B Johnson - useless. Then Covid. Mistakes made there.
And before that we bailed out the banks using tax payers money (which lead to years of austerity) and before that the Labour gov decided we should have free movement of eastern european people into the UK. The initial cause of anti immigration feeling.

Plus I live in Scotland and scars from the referendum are still there.
Then 14 years of hopeless SNP Gov ending in corruption - dam it I'm going on the streets too. ( not really )

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 07/08/2024 12:19

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 10:12

All this does not stop us facing increasing destabilisation

If we don’t get it together and pretty much do as Aus does I expect instability will increase and all the huge damage to the country that goes with it

I think people are being head in the sand whereas I would prefer calm over this

All it takes is policy but people are ignoring where this could go and won’t choose it, I think that’s madness

Nope, another response quoting me and completely shifting what we’re talking about

Daltonbear1 · 07/08/2024 12:21

User135644 · 07/08/2024 11:58

I think you're spot on. We've just had an election where Labour won a landslide without any real enthusiasm for them and without them really having anything to offer (general admission there's no money and the Tories have destroyed the country).

Look where the riots have happened. Inner cities in northern England all where there's extreme poverty. Places ravaged by austerity, child poverty, food poverty, lack of housing, lack of good jobs, cost of living crisis. Now we've got a change of government and it's more of the same.

Give it mire than a month sick of folks ignorant saying more of the same. Labour hasn't had a chance to do anything. Funny how those poor like me I live in the north to. Never think it's those at the top with the money neo liberalism capitalism labour will be better but they need a chance. Farage is pushing this he lost if you didn't want labour should have boted something else but you didn't. Also to the lady moaning about pension there are rich pensioners that don't need fuel allowance if onnpension credit they get it meanwhile we are in debt. These lot many are football hooligans and no excuses to blame immigrants on the issues. Tet right wing press have labelled anyone that believe we should tax the rich as scum yet that would help the country tax the corporations better but no people lazily blame migrants

NamelessNancy · 07/08/2024 12:22

YANBU OP. It's like the private school parents on VAT here. You start to feel like you hear little else. You've been heard loud and clear. We might disagree though.

Scarletrunner · 07/08/2024 12:23

These are not the group connected to building a successful country. Enough. Ignore them and if they become violent, lock them up. Let us get on with rebuilding our economy, infrastructure and other major things.

But we are at the mercy of social media - EVERYONE including MPs and the BBC pander to Twitter etc and as long as that happens we aren't able to put it behind us, be sensible.

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 12:25

NamelessNancy · 07/08/2024 12:22

YANBU OP. It's like the private school parents on VAT here. You start to feel like you hear little else. You've been heard loud and clear. We might disagree though.

Have you noticed the riots?

StarDolphins · 07/08/2024 12:25

Bumpitybumper · 07/08/2024 06:11

I disagree.

I think for too long genuine and legitimate concerns about immigration have been ignored and viewed as racist. The issue is a actually incredibly complex from an economic, ethical and cultural perspective and one that all developed countries are having to tackle. Put simply though, there are far far too many people who would like to come to countries like the UK and we don't have the ability to absorb that many people without huge (and often unwelcome) changes being felt by the existing population.

You also have to be honest about the fact that there are different types of immigrant. A highly educated, super skilled immigrant that speaks English already and is from a similar country is going to find it a lot easier to integrate and contribute than an uneducated, unskilled individual who doesn't want to learn English and has strong religious views that conflict with the liberal values the UK favours. Put stalky, some immigrants are likely to remain economic burdens for a long time and have no intention of integrating and enriching the country they end up in. Your demographic argument doesn't really stack up in this context unless you start sifting immigrants for what they can offer a country which has all sorts of ethical issues when it comes to asylum seekers.

According to a lot on MN, there is only 1 type of immigrant. The type that is a highly qualified consultant brain surgeon.

The type that stand about the streets (in my area anyway) trying to sell weed & intimidating teen girls & women doesn’t exist.

BunsForTea · 07/08/2024 12:28

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 11:45

Have you thought about it for long? Not sure how you get rid of people and you might find the reality much more difficult to deal with

Especially if riots increase and police don’t want the risk

Don't need to think about it for long. Custody and prison sentences would be the normal route for street violence, I believe?

I'm no expert on police job descriptions, but I believe "not wanting the risk" wouldn't abjure them from responsibility for policing it.

As for reality being difficult to deal with: yes, I'm finding it very difficult to deal with the fact that certain elements of society are wittering on about "British values" while acting like feral hounds. Happy now?

That just leaves us with the incitement to violence. Personally I'd be delighted if people who incite violence were made personally liable for the consequences. What about you?

Anonym00se · 07/08/2024 12:29

Midnightalready · 07/08/2024 12:18

Women are statistically FIFTEEN times more like to suffer sexual assault at the hands of a white man than an Asian man.

Can I ask where I can verify this statistic? This research from Sweden shows exactly the opposite: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8330751/

German stats back this up: "An internal study by the German federal law enforcement agency, leaked to a Zurich newspaper, revealed that asylum-seekers have committed some 7,000 sexual assaults (ranging from groping to gang-rape ) between 2015 and 2023. Although they make up only 2.5 per cent of the population, asylum-seekers made up 13.1 per cent of all sexual-assault suspects in 2021."

We’re not in Sweden or Germany though?

Sorry, those stats were for child sex offences, taken from a report by Centre of Expertise on Child Sexual Abuse. www.csacentre.org.uk

UK government stats for all sex offenders by race are below. Again, the vast majority are white offenders.

assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a820725e5274a2e87dc0c4f/number-convicted-sexual-offenders-by-ethnicity-tables.xlsx

Midnightalready · 07/08/2024 12:31

Sitdownrosa · 07/08/2024 08:59

The traffickers have their money by that point. They couldn't give a shit. The traffickers will still keep trafficking. They'll be lying to people and telling them that all they need to do is get on the boat and they'll be safe. They literally couldn't give a fuck if that person makes it safely to the UK.

You ever seen one of these boats in real life?

I have. It was full of women and very small children. A few men. I used to be one of those who would be asking why we have to take people who don't come here legally, asylum seeker or not. Get on a plane, do it properly, don't hang onto the bottom of a lorry or get on a dinghy.

When i saw that boat, I wondered how desperate as a mother you would need to be to put your tiny child into a rubber dinghy to float across one of the busiest shipping lanes in the world? That the alternative is worse? That this is literally the only option they feel they have? How will you get a plane ticket if you've lost it never had a passport? I defy anyone to look at a boat full of desperate women with their babies and tell them "fuck off, we're full". Instantly changed my mind about the whole thing. Who am i to tell that mother not to do what she feels she needs to to keep her baby safe?

The uk has an obligation to take asylum seekers so we can't just say, we are an island, not our problem. So some asylum seekers will end up here but the tories closed all legal, safe avenues. Which forces desperate people to get on the boat. So that's one way to stop the boats - allow people to start a uk asylum claim from the camp in France. Then they don't need to get on the boat and risk their 2 year olds life.

When i saw that boat, I wondered how desperate as a mother you would need to be to put your tiny child into a rubber dinghy to float across one of the busiest shipping lanes in the world? That the alternative is worse?...

So that's one way to stop the boats - allow people to start a uk asylum claim from the camp in France. Then they don't need to get on the boat and risk their 2 year olds life.

I genuinely don't understand what you're getting at here. Are you saying that refugees aren't safe in France? I live in France and it's at least as safe as the UK. If you've made it to France, then there is absolutely no need to risk your own or your child's life in a dinghy on the English channel.

Sitdownrosa · 07/08/2024 12:38

JumpingAtShadows1 · 07/08/2024 10:46

Once upon a time, there was a country of horses. There was a war in neighhhhhbouring Unicorn island and the horses shouted 'Hay! - come over here, we can help'

The horses gave the Unicorns stables and hay.

The horses slowly noticed their own opportunities being severely depleted - Baby horses cannot get a school place nor afford to fly the stable and have to live at home until they are 40 years old. There are not enough stables to go round

The paddocks the horses grew up in, they begun to be made to feel uncomfortable and unsafe by the Unicorns and the Horses begun to move away from the cities in droves - many forced to gallop out by intimidation and crime.

The unicorns have very different outlook on how horses live, from work / sleep / even rubbish disposal - everything is different and the Unicorn is not interested in the Horse way of life and these constant differences, cause tension

One horse on his way home from work one night, was attacked by Unicorns and had his skull broken by Unicorn hooves

Horses who still live in some areas, are scared to step outside of their doors at night -as there are huge droves of Unicorns galloping round the area armed with knives, bats and even petrol bombs.

The police just run away and do not get involved

The horses expressed concern about all this but were attacked by all the other horses

This is what is happening

It's not less racist because you say unicorns and horses, you know.

WhysEverythingABallAche · 07/08/2024 12:38

When i saw that boat, I wondered how desperate as a mother you would need to be to put your tiny child into a rubber dinghy to float across one of the busiest shipping lanes in the world? That the alternative is worse?...

I bet a high percentage of those women have been exhaustedly dragged through Europe to our dangerous channel, by a man. A woman in danger would’ve probably stopped at the first safe border. It’ll be men making them make the journey.

EasternStandard · 07/08/2024 12:39

BunsForTea · 07/08/2024 12:28

Don't need to think about it for long. Custody and prison sentences would be the normal route for street violence, I believe?

I'm no expert on police job descriptions, but I believe "not wanting the risk" wouldn't abjure them from responsibility for policing it.

As for reality being difficult to deal with: yes, I'm finding it very difficult to deal with the fact that certain elements of society are wittering on about "British values" while acting like feral hounds. Happy now?

That just leaves us with the incitement to violence. Personally I'd be delighted if people who incite violence were made personally liable for the consequences. What about you?

If we keep facing this each summer I’d suggest policy instead.

stronglatte · 07/08/2024 12:49

I can't find the post of the person who was thinking of cancelling a London visit.. so posting on a few threads. Please don't ! Just been out and about in London and delighted to report that a good and normal mix of people of every colour are put about going about their day. First of the nazi riots is due to start around 3.30pm so let's see. A proud and hopeful Londoner but I've got three young adults I've asked to stay in tonight xx