My point isn't lost, you just don't want to hear it. For years, people have said that in all the instances of animal abuse I've mentioned that the animals enjoy it, that they are happy, that it wouldn't be possible to force the animal to do it if they didn't want to. Horses in poor countries with their bones sticking out pulling carts with loads that are far beyond their capability to pull - do you think they want to do it?
You said you can't force a horse to do something it doesn't want to do, i say that humans routinely force horses (and other animals) to do things they don't want to do, and people swallow the lies they tell themselves to justify it and ignore the fact that there's an animal that's suffering at the heart of it. They just want to get on and enjoy watching the dressage and tell themselves that anyone who thinks there's a problem with horse welfare in equestrian sports just "doesn't understand" or is jealous. That's a lazy argument.
Also just because you personally don't abuse your horses, that doesn't mean there's no abuse in the horse world. Not just at the high levels. It starts at the grass roots. If you've ever been to a riding school, competition, livery yard, show, you will have seen a horse be forced to do something at some point. But i do get it, it's much easier to ignore it than to stand up and say "that's wrong."
Have you never seen a top level dressage horse with such a severe bit that it cannot escape rollkur, so it gets to choose between agonizing pain in it's neck or in its mouth? How is that not abuse? That has happened in the olympics this year, multiple times. Noticed how many of the photos shared on official social media accounts for the team GB equestrians dressage is from front on, or 3/4 view so you can't see them riding behind the vertical?
Do you think there's any possibility that any horse could reach the upper echelons of any horse sport without any element of force being applied at any point? I don't. I don't think I'm the one who is ill informed here.