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To say the Olympics hates women

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ArabellaScott · 03/08/2024 10:30

A child rapist performing for the Netherlands.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/olympics/article-13674293/Convicted-child-rapist-Steven-van-Velde-Netherlands-booed-volleyball-olympics.html

Males punching women in the face as sport.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/cnd0drjr4jdo

Offensive caricatures of women everywhere.

https://glaad.org/french-drag-artists-made-history-as-first-in-drag-to-carry-the-olympic-torch/

Convicted child rapist Steven van de Velde reaches volleyball last-16

Convicted child rapist Steven van de Velde received a hostile reception again as he was loudly booed by the crowd during the Netherlands' volleyball defeat against Norway on Friday.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/olympics/article-13674293/Convicted-child-rapist-Steven-van-Velde-Netherlands-booed-volleyball-olympics.html

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Cookiecoop · 04/08/2024 21:02

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:50

And I've explained why those are truths. Not insults. Whereas what cookie called me was.

Just to clarify I agree, I shouldn’t have said you were being a penis (well, the other word for penis) and mumsnet were probably right to remove. Sorry. I’ve read a lot of AIBU posts on here which uses it casually, like ‘oh she’s a dick op, don’t worry’ so I didn’t think it would be so offensive.

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 21:03

@GargoylesofBeelzebub can you put a link to the report please?

Regardless of what it may or may not say, my personal opinion is that the way in which you have posted on this topic has been hateful and divisive.

NannyGythaOgg · 04/08/2024 21:08

Ladyzfactor · 03/08/2024 11:10

The boxer that everyone is upset about isn't a man. They are intersex. Completely different. They are not, and have never been trans, or male. They were born biologically with female genitalia. They do tend to have more testosterone., but not much else different. But mumsnet loves to get upset over trans issues so I'm not surprised about the misinformation.

They may not be a man BUT they are male, not female and definitely not women. They have male chromosomes so biologically they are male

Tandora · 04/08/2024 21:09

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:01

We can have an argument about whether she is rightly described as “female” or “male” but that would be semantic (and pointless):

"Semantic" implies "concerned with meaning".

"Female" and "male" mean something and have consequences.

This isn't just "arguing about words"

Again, let’s stick to the facts

The facts, based on what we know is this person has male pattern chromosomes.
Meanwhile, they were assigned female at birth and raised female.

These are the facts (as we know).

We can all agree on them.

you can therefore call her male - I wholly disagree- either way it doesn’t change these set of facts.

These facts do not disqualify this boxer from the olympics under the current rules.

you can take issue with the rules but stop attacking the person . They abided by the rules.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 04/08/2024 21:10

A good read -

threadreaderapp.com/thread/1819427537740558848.html

DelilahBucket · 04/08/2024 21:15

I haven't read the whole thread, but yes, and we only need to look back at the history of the Olympics and what female swimmers were made to wear in order to be allowed to compete (which incidentally were see through when wet 🙄), to it to see nothing much has changed.

FrenchFancie · 04/08/2024 21:18

Well as this is the first olympics with equal numbers of male and female athletes I wouldn’t necessarily agree.

but if you dislike the games you could just not watch? Not follow along?

perfectstorm · 04/08/2024 21:20

The Olympics barred women from the ski jump till 2014. Apparently, fear of the risk of uterus damage. Eddie the Eagle was fine, but women? Heaven forfend.

"Woman" is defined by passport at the Olympics. That means self ID in most of the world. Bonkers. Kindness is great, as is inclusion, but what about kindness to all the girls and women who have dedicated the years of their lives to achieve, only for a physical advantage no training nor skill can redress to boot them? Literally excluded.

Also: why no long distance endurance events? Women excel at those. We can beat males. Yet the Olympics have none.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 21:22

perfectstorm · 04/08/2024 21:20

The Olympics barred women from the ski jump till 2014. Apparently, fear of the risk of uterus damage. Eddie the Eagle was fine, but women? Heaven forfend.

"Woman" is defined by passport at the Olympics. That means self ID in most of the world. Bonkers. Kindness is great, as is inclusion, but what about kindness to all the girls and women who have dedicated the years of their lives to achieve, only for a physical advantage no training nor skill can redress to boot them? Literally excluded.

Also: why no long distance endurance events? Women excel at those. We can beat males. Yet the Olympics have none.

Also: why no long distance endurance events? Women excel at those. We can beat males. Yet the Olympics have none.

thank you!!! What an excellent question, For the love of god let’s ask more of these questions!!

This is what feminism should be doing- (instead of tearing itself apart at the seams, trying to police the boundaries of womanhood)

cathyandclaire · 04/08/2024 21:22

Assuming it's ok to box with XY chromosomes at the olympics, does anyone know the rules for testosterone levels in boxing? An individual with a DSD and vitalisation would naturally have an endogenous testosterone level at male levels unless medically suppressed.

I believe the top 5 competitors are routinely tested for doping - although I am in no way accusing the two boxers of doping.

cathyandclaire · 04/08/2024 21:24

Virilisation- sorry autocorrect!

MushMonster · 04/08/2024 21:25

I do not agree with the rapist and paedophile to be allowed to compete, at all.

On Khalif, the boxer, could you please stop refering to her as a male? It is not her fault the genes she was born with. She was deemed to be female at birth, raised as female, has fought previously as female. She is intersex, at best, not trans gender. She seems to be a borderline case, as one organisation has allowed her to compete, while other has not (apparently, for high testosterone levels at the time of testing- which some XX individuals also have). The XY chromosomes results, apparently that test was never published and I do not fully trust the source. We could discuss bringing back the XX/ XY test, combined with hormone testing in future, but Khalif should not be referred to as male/ man. Neither blamed, she is following the rules.
I think Carini should have raised her issues before the fight. There has been other fights with Khalif and at least they touched gloves and acknowledged Khalif after the fight. Plus thay threw a good number of punches to each other.

On who carries the torch, I have zero issue, whatsoever.

Cookiecoop · 04/08/2024 21:25

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:59

Your photo (not your writing but the writing on the meme) used the word to refer to a penis that begins with d, and I referred back to it. I thought it would be okay as when you used it in the photo, it was approved.

Do you really not get the difference between saying someone has a d*ck and saying someone is a... 🤔 One's an insult, ones not . HTH

Nice you're doubling down on it though in your "apology"

I would definitely prefer it if someone called me that word than posted an image of my intimate body parts on the internet and suggested I was lying about being a woman.

I would consider calling someone a penis mean but not bullying. I think posting pictures of someone’s crotch and saying they have a d”ck, with the intent to embarrass them, is bullying.

again, sorry I used the word.

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:26

you can take issue with the rules

That is rather the point.

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:28

On Khalif, the boxer, could you please stop refering to her as a male? It is not her fault the genes she was born with.

World's gone fucking mad.

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 21:30

She was deemed to be female at birth, raised as female, has fought previously as female. She is intersex, at best, not trans gender. She seems to be a borderline case, as one organisation has allowed her to compete, while other has not (apparently, for high testosterone levels at the time of testing- which some XX individuals also have). The XY chromosomes results, apparently that test was never published and I do not fully trust the source.

Why wouldn't you trust the source? It was the CAS that oversaw the testing. Which was not, for accuracy, testosterone testing.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 21:32

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:28

On Khalif, the boxer, could you please stop refering to her as a male? It is not her fault the genes she was born with.

World's gone fucking mad.

world’s gone fucking mad

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 21:32

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:26

you can take issue with the rules

That is rather the point.

Exactly. 'The Rules' are basing sex classification on documents that we KNOW may not be accurate. Why would anyone with a brain not take issue with the rules?

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:35

world’s gone fucking mad

Who said anything about political correctness? I'm talking about basic sense and reason.

"Will people stop saying I've got 2 legs? It's not my fault the limbs I was born with."

MushMonster · 04/08/2024 21:40

No, she has been raised female, after being proclaimed female at birth.
Whether later in life it turned up that she has XY, how can anyone be blamed for that?
She will not be male, but intersex. Not a man, still a woman.
Also, following the rules.
You do not like the rules, so advocate to change them.
But address the athlete as woman.

HipTightOnions · 04/08/2024 21:42

Whether later in life it turned up that she has XY, how can anyone be blamed for that?

Nobody is being blamed for that, but it means that he is male.

(If you don't understand why, try reading one of the many threads which explain clearly.)

MushMonster · 04/08/2024 21:44

She will be intersex.
And if she wants to be addressed as a woman/ female, which is the case, I will.

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 21:45

MushMonster · 04/08/2024 21:40

No, she has been raised female, after being proclaimed female at birth.
Whether later in life it turned up that she has XY, how can anyone be blamed for that?
She will not be male, but intersex. Not a man, still a woman.
Also, following the rules.
You do not like the rules, so advocate to change them.
But address the athlete as woman.

No one is 'blaming' Khelif for having a DSD, but that doesn't change the fact that the two gender tests undertaken have concluded that they do not qualify for female competition.

And we're all advocating as strongly as we can for the IOC to reimplement sex testing. They appear not to be listening however.

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 21:45

MushMonster · 04/08/2024 21:44

She will be intersex.
And if she wants to be addressed as a woman/ female, which is the case, I will.

Intersex is not a helpful term. All people with DSDs are one sex or the other.

ArabellaScott · 04/08/2024 21:46

MushMonster · 04/08/2024 21:40

No, she has been raised female, after being proclaimed female at birth.
Whether later in life it turned up that she has XY, how can anyone be blamed for that?
She will not be male, but intersex. Not a man, still a woman.
Also, following the rules.
You do not like the rules, so advocate to change them.
But address the athlete as woman.

Addressing a male as 'she' is deceptive and confusing, given the context.

I won't take lectures on being 'kind' while men are sanctioned in beating women for money and entertainment.

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