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To say the Olympics hates women

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ArabellaScott · 03/08/2024 10:30

A child rapist performing for the Netherlands.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/olympics/article-13674293/Convicted-child-rapist-Steven-van-Velde-Netherlands-booed-volleyball-olympics.html

Males punching women in the face as sport.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/cnd0drjr4jdo

Offensive caricatures of women everywhere.

https://glaad.org/french-drag-artists-made-history-as-first-in-drag-to-carry-the-olympic-torch/

Convicted child rapist Steven van de Velde reaches volleyball last-16

Convicted child rapist Steven van de Velde received a hostile reception again as he was loudly booed by the crowd during the Netherlands' volleyball defeat against Norway on Friday.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/olympics/article-13674293/Convicted-child-rapist-Steven-van-Velde-Netherlands-booed-volleyball-olympics.html

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/08/2024 20:26

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:23

All facts are pointing to this person being a cis woman with a DSD. She participated in the sporting match as she was legally allowed to do , as she met the inclusion criteria. She did nothing wrong.

Whether her DSD should prohibit her from qualifying for female boxing is a legitimate debate.

Calling her names- like liar, cheat, a woman beater etc - and publicly scrutinising her genitals is wholly unacceptable. (And that’s the most polite word I could use).

Edited

What is a cis woman? You use these words frequently but the general populace has no idea what endosex or cis even mean. You need to be clearer with your language to make your point properly.

brunettemic · 04/08/2024 20:26

Yes, the Olympics hates women, everyone hates women, soon there will be women only Olympic events for ironing, cleaning and hoovering…a housework triathlon if you will. Maybe they’ll even throw in whining on MN whilst they’re at it 🙄

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:27

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:23

@GargoylesofBeelzebub as I said, it is my opinion that your posts are of that nature, and I know that you disagree.

The reality remains that you do not have all of the facts. That is not debatable.

There is a way to habe this debate, which is a legitimate but incredibly complex conversation, without it being so hateful. In my opinion. However, I am sure you will continue to conduct yourself in the way that you see fit.

I believe we have sufficient facts in the two independent tests carried out by court of sport arbitration labs that determined the boxers are male.

And yes I will continue to share evidence of the individuals own actions that disproves misinformation stated online. HTH

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:29

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:25

All facts are pointing to this person being a cis woman with a DSD.

Are you conveniently forgetting the two independent tests carried out by court of sport arbitration labs, the results of which have now been shown that say the boxers are male?

You still don’t seem to understand , (despite I presume many people explaining it to you?)

It’s likely the test was chromosomal- it’s likely she is xy.

Having XY chromosomes does not prohibit someone being a cis woman.

This person was assigned female at birth and raised female. She is likely to have a DSD with male pattern chromosomes. There are many possible variations, and we don’t know which she has.

Whether her particular variation should prohibit her from participating in female boxing is a legitimate debate. But in this case she qualified under the rules and she did nothing wrong.

Calling her a liar and a cheat is unacceptable

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 20:30

All facts are pointing to this person being a cis woman with a DSD.

What DSD do you think fits with the observable evidence?

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:32

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/08/2024 20:26

What is a cis woman? You use these words frequently but the general populace has no idea what endosex or cis even mean. You need to be clearer with your language to make your point properly.

A cis woman is a person registered female at birth who identifies as female. As you well know .

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:33

No tandora. You don't seem to understand that if tests show you are male (and they did say male btw), and you don't contest them therefore making them legally binding, and then go on to enter a competition reserved for females then it's perfectly acceptable to consider them a liar and a cheat.

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:33

@GargoylesofBeelzebub I'm not sure you (or I, or anyone else on this thread) is categorically able to say what is and what isn't misinformation at this point. There is so much nuance to this debate, and I think it's really important. I also think it's really important to have a reasoned, evidence based debate without it being emotive or needlessly attacking individuals. As I said, you conduct yourself in the way that you see fit, but I personally wouldn't behave in the way that you are.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:34

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:33

@GargoylesofBeelzebub I'm not sure you (or I, or anyone else on this thread) is categorically able to say what is and what isn't misinformation at this point. There is so much nuance to this debate, and I think it's really important. I also think it's really important to have a reasoned, evidence based debate without it being emotive or needlessly attacking individuals. As I said, you conduct yourself in the way that you see fit, but I personally wouldn't behave in the way that you are.

Yet here you are attacking me? Bit hypocritical don't you think?

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:34

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 20:30

All facts are pointing to this person being a cis woman with a DSD.

What DSD do you think fits with the observable evidence?

I can’t possibly diagnose her on tele and nor can you or anyone else .

What has been reported is that she was raised female since birth, is legally female, but testing was done (likely chromosome testing) and she was found to be XY . All this information is very consistent with multiple potential variations in sex development.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:35

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:33

@GargoylesofBeelzebub I'm not sure you (or I, or anyone else on this thread) is categorically able to say what is and what isn't misinformation at this point. There is so much nuance to this debate, and I think it's really important. I also think it's really important to have a reasoned, evidence based debate without it being emotive or needlessly attacking individuals. As I said, you conduct yourself in the way that you see fit, but I personally wouldn't behave in the way that you are.

Yet you seem very keen to suppress clear evidence of male genitalia being precept, why is that?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/08/2024 20:35

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:32

A cis woman is a person registered female at birth who identifies as female. As you well know .

Listen. I am not your audience here. You are obviously trying to educate people and you need to use clear language to do so. I haven’t heard the word cis in absolutely ages, I didn’t even think it was still used and I have never heard of the word endosex which I think you used in a separate thread. Just speak plain English and you may get a few people to agree with you. You never know!

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:36

How does one "identify as female"? Are we back to clothes again.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:37

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:33

No tandora. You don't seem to understand that if tests show you are male (and they did say male btw), and you don't contest them therefore making them legally binding, and then go on to enter a competition reserved for females then it's perfectly acceptable to consider them a liar and a cheat.

No . You are totally wrong. She met the inclusion criteria for the olympics. She was disqualified in a different sporting event and did not participate in that one.

You don’t have a grasp on the facts here because you’re engaged in very black and white reasoning, and the situation here is nuanced.

TheKeatingFive · 04/08/2024 20:37

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:34

I can’t possibly diagnose her on tele and nor can you or anyone else .

What has been reported is that she was raised female since birth, is legally female, but testing was done (likely chromosome testing) and she was found to be XY . All this information is very consistent with multiple potential variations in sex development.

So why are you concluding female DSD rather than male?

Many males with DSDs appear to be female until puberty.

I am at a loss as to what female DSD would fit the observable facts.

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:37

@GargoylesofBeelzebub where is the attack? I have said I wouldn't conduct myself the way you currently are. I have not insulted you, I haven't said anything unpleasant about you.

On the other hand, you have insulted, degraded, demeaned and belittled other people. That is not how I choose to behave.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/08/2024 20:37

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:36

How does one "identify as female"? Are we back to clothes again.

I think it’s down to feelings but that doesn’t cancel out a male puberty in regard to strength, power, height etc.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 20:37

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/08/2024 20:35

Listen. I am not your audience here. You are obviously trying to educate people and you need to use clear language to do so. I haven’t heard the word cis in absolutely ages, I didn’t even think it was still used and I have never heard of the word endosex which I think you used in a separate thread. Just speak plain English and you may get a few people to agree with you. You never know!

Edited

Feedback taken on board. I’m doing my best

TipsyJoker · 04/08/2024 20:37

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 03/08/2024 12:13

Have a day off, will ya? Other posters have countered you way more eloquently.

I'm under the weather today and can't. Suffice to say your word salad is cockcustard 🤬

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Just wanted to say, great username 👍

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:38

You don’t have a grasp on the facts here because you’re engaged in very black and white reasoning, and the situation here is nuanced.

Yet you say it's a female DSD. I don't think I can take much more of the hypocrisy on this thread. 😂

Cookiecoop · 04/08/2024 20:39

I’m really really sorry for making this argument even more offensive and dividing than it already was.

The image/ meme that the poster shared said ‘He has a d-i-c-k’ and I then used that word (beginning with D) towards the poster, which I shouldn’t have done. I thought I was breaking the tension a bit with a joke and ending it with babe to show this but it went down really badly and I have apologised. I apologise again, it was out of character for me.

As I said, this issue is really close to home, I acted emotionally. I still believe the comments and images by other posters (some of which have been doctored) as being wildly offensive but I shouldn’t have called anyone the d word.

I do think a lot of people on here are pushing horribly sexist and transphobic views that will be shocking to society in 20 years time, at least I hope they will be.

I won’t post any more because as I said I don’t think we’re getting anywhere and I don’t want to upset any more people. Thanks to those putting my point across much more eloquently than I could ❤️

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 04/08/2024 20:39

It’s telling that people seem more bothered by upsetting the feelings of two people who have previously failed ‘gender tests’ that resulted in disqualification, than the fact that they may be male with a DSD with all the advantages having gone through male puberty brings, which could have dangerous, disastrous consequences for the females they fight against and women’s sports in general.

A simple test can put this right. Why isn’t this forthcoming? And a picture of their genitals is hardly hateful. People have eyes. Any concern should be directed at any female on the receiving end of those punches.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:39

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:37

@GargoylesofBeelzebub where is the attack? I have said I wouldn't conduct myself the way you currently are. I have not insulted you, I haven't said anything unpleasant about you.

On the other hand, you have insulted, degraded, demeaned and belittled other people. That is not how I choose to behave.

Oh I'm pretty sure you said I was nasty. Read back your posts.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:40

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:37

@GargoylesofBeelzebub where is the attack? I have said I wouldn't conduct myself the way you currently are. I have not insulted you, I haven't said anything unpleasant about you.

On the other hand, you have insulted, degraded, demeaned and belittled other people. That is not how I choose to behave.

And again. How is it degrading to show footage from live TV of the persons own actions?

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 04/08/2024 20:42

Rustnot · 04/08/2024 20:37

@GargoylesofBeelzebub where is the attack? I have said I wouldn't conduct myself the way you currently are. I have not insulted you, I haven't said anything unpleasant about you.

On the other hand, you have insulted, degraded, demeaned and belittled other people. That is not how I choose to behave.

Also please show where I have insulted anyone or ask for your posts to be deleted.