Dh and I haven't been in a great place for ages. I feel like everything I do annoys him and he moans about everything and then all of a sudden will have a massive blow up, which was yesterday and we've not spoken since.
This week's tellings off that caused an argument consist of:
- we brought a new water filter and I went to take the top off by pulling at the side. Apparently hat makes me thick because I didn't realise there was an indent which was a handle
-our food shop was delivered and I was rushing between an online exam I had to sit and another call so didn't realise that an item was wrong and just put it in the fridge. Dh came home and went to cook dinner and realised and went mental.
-DH has started a new job (5 weeks in) has come off shifts so now works permanent earlies. I've tried to support him as much as I can even though the change of shift pattern directly affects me and my job. Because I had logged off slightly early yesterday and he theb came home after being at thr gym and cooked dinner, apparently I should have cooked dinner for him
---should point out that he is the main cook, even when he was on shifts he would cook so this isn't unusual and I normally finish later it was only because I had started a bit early that I decided after a rough day to finish early
-all of the above resulted in him calling me a f'ing thick c* and telling me that the stupid things I do (like the water filter) will endanger our children.
However he's so worried about me endangering our children he is perfectly happy to book a holiday with his mates for 6 nights to go on a lads holiday 6 hours away in a few weeks.
For context we have 2 children (9 & 4)