To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

[TittiesOutPutThemBack]

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

Mine play Rule Britannia.

😂
I’m Scottish, mine are thistles…

Especially when bobbing about in the sea 😂

this is cracking me up 😂

Your original post prior to you editing it read this.
Well if tits are seen and in show…. Toys are seen and on show…. Makes no odds in what situation, so you can’t say it’s not the same.

That post made absolutely no sense.

It’s my opinion, I find it grim that’s it. Obviously some people clearly love doing it but I don’t think it’s very classy. I find it tacky and I’d rather be described as a prude than tacky

But who decides where the line is drawn? I don’t like the colours grey or beige. I don’t want to see swimwear in those colours.

And the beach is an appropriate place for men and women to have their tops exposed. My breasts are nothing to be ashamed of because someone in history (male) decided they were.

For the same logic, l don’t expect to see bare chests, male or female, when walking down the street.

Obviously it was a typo…..

The fuckers could take out the HMS Queen Elizabeth for sure.

I'm a guy and can only imagine the pain you suffer with thistly nipples. 😂

Free the nipple 🍉🍉

😂😂

Ok, you find it grim. That's your right.

But it doesn't mean a thing beyond that. It's something you don't like. So don't do it and don't go to places where it's done. It's just something you don't care for, big whoop. That doesn't mean the people who do it are wrong, morally inferior or anything else. You don't like a thing, so don't do the thing. That's it.

I’m not a fan of it. I’m not sure why it’s so appealing for people to do. That’s just me though, but I’m not here to be persuaded otherwise

@ClickClack300
If you don’t want to see somebody’s breasts, then don’t go to a beach in a country where it is allowed. There are plenty of countries where being topless in public is not allowed. Why not go to such a place instead?
Women going topless in countries where it is not banned, are not doing anything wrong. If you don’t want to see them, don’t go there or avoid the beaches.
Would you be happy if someone told you that they do not want to see your arms, legs or hair because in their culture it is considered immodest?
Would you be happy if a woman posted here that she doesn’t want her husband/son looking at your legs/arms/hair so you should cover them up?

Have you been living under a rock OP ??

I lived in Barcelona 40 years ago and the only people who got stared at were those with their tops ON . Literally everyone was topless including me !

Guess what ? I think all those families made it through to adulthood without the need for trauma counselling due to having seen their mothers (or sisters or other friends) breasts .

This is NOT a new fad !
Listen to the words of 1960s hit 'where do you go to my lovely'
It contains the lines

When you go on your summer vacation
You go to Juan-les-Pins
With your carefully designed topless swimsuit
You get an even suntan..

So you are getting worked up about
behaviour that has been normal for 60 years!

Why do you think your wants should trump theirs? They want to sunbathe topless, which is a cultural norm for them. Why is your cultural norm to be weird about breasts more important? If you don't like it dont go to the beach. And teach your husband and kids not to stare if its an issue.

Some prudes here are going to have a bloody conniption if they find out that you can feed babies with them too!

I’m in my 50s. Tits are tits. Providing you’re not browsing around Tesco with them out (mine are so low they’d add an extra kg or two when weighing my spuds), likewise in a restaurant (mine’d be in my soup before my spoon would be) then please, unclench.

Adult DD and Adult DS have been around them since they were kids, they’re perfectly well adjusted humans.

The parts I hardly expose burn when I’m abroad. When I’m UK I sunbathe in my bikini when I can and have a base. I know therefore that my sensitive nipples, never exposed to the sun and torn apart by breastfeeding would definitely burn with sunscreen even with sunscreen, the same as the other parts of my body the first time they get exposed in the year.

Enjoy the saggy boob jokes, mine are beautiful and pert.

Ah, but do they play Rule Britannia?

What is a family friendly beach? I don't think I've ever met a strip of beach specifically marked as family friendly and enforcing some additional rules.

Normal unmarked beaches are fair game for everyone and yes some people prefer being topless there, both men and women. Some people choose to bring their children there.

I don’t sunbathe at all… bad for your skin. Just got back from 3 weeks in Spain during which I spent a lot of time on the beach with my kids, and my pale, non sun exposed skin didn’t burn at all because I wore factor 50 sun cream the whole time. Not much can burn through regular applications of factor 50, even nipples!

Tbh I am dying to find out what are these countries!

This isn't the 1950s
Go and clutch your pearls elsewhere 🙄

Mine play “Born Free”! 😀

And swimming sans top, plus when you get out is far more comfy!