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Got sent worrying WhatsApp message

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ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:03

I don’t know why I feel weirded out, but today I got a message on WhatsApp from an ex colleague, the message was a 2 minute long blank video where there was just a bunch of noise. Followed by a message that just said “p#*”

I haven’t had a message from this person in nearly 2 years, what should I make of this?

OP posts:
Secondguess · 28/07/2024 18:04

I'd expect that you've been pocket-dialled.

Eyelinerwonky · 28/07/2024 18:04

Could it be a pocket shuffle? Not sure as don’t have the WhatsApp.

Narwhal23456 · 28/07/2024 18:04

Sounds like a butt dial... I'd just message saying " hey stranger is all OK? Or a butt dial?" And see what they say back

Ponoka7 · 28/07/2024 18:05

They've possibly been hacked/spammed. I'd delete it incase it contains a virus.

Thatsfrenchforstopahorse · 28/07/2024 18:05

It’s just a pocket dial 🤷🏼‍♀️

Cantrushart · 28/07/2024 18:05

I once sent a friend a perfect recording of a toilet flushing. Fortunately not the lead up to the flush.

twentysevendresses · 28/07/2024 18:08

I 'sent' a similar WhatsApp to my daughter only this morning...phone was in my jeans back pocket - she instantly messaged back with: 'You've either been kidnapped or butt-dialled me...I'll go with the second option as you're not that valuable to a kidnapper! 🤣' (she's right 😁)

I expect you've been similarly messaged 👌🏻

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:14

My thing is, if they picked dialled me how would that be easy being that they haven’t messaged me in 2 years

OP posts:
NecessaryNC24 · 28/07/2024 18:15

Was going to join in with the butt dial thing but you're right, you normally have to be in the recent contacts ...

Sahara123 · 28/07/2024 18:15

Honestly, I really think you’re overthinking this ..

Thatsfrenchforstopahorse · 28/07/2024 18:17

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:14

My thing is, if they picked dialled me how would that be easy being that they haven’t messaged me in 2 years

Easily. I’ve done it. It scrolls though contacts and then you move and it dials whoever was selected off the list.

GoogleWhacking · 28/07/2024 18:17

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:14

My thing is, if they picked dialled me how would that be easy being that they haven’t messaged me in 2 years

I almost did this to an archived message the other day from over a year ago. Honestly, it's easily done.

BigPussyEnergy · 28/07/2024 18:18

I always end up butt dialling people whose name starts with L! No idea how or why but it’s happened 5-6 times always to a different someone in my contacts list starting with L.

Except once when it dialled my exDP 6 months after we split, which was mortifying and started a whole chain of bullshit!

I have no idea how my phone managed to unlock itself in my pocket, find the number of a man I hadn’t called for 6 months and phone him. But I really wouldn’t read as much into it as I (and he!) did. It’s just a butt dial.

KaIeidoscope · 28/07/2024 18:22

I once butt-messaged a gif of Frenchie from Grease blowing a bubblegum bubble to every single one of my whatapp contacts and groups 🙃

Andthereitis · 28/07/2024 18:31

I put screen recorder on today. No idea how as It'd take me five minutes to find how to open it.

Pocket dial ...

Crystalselfcare · 28/07/2024 18:32

Sounds like something my toddler would accidently send to someone when he gets hold of my phone 🤣🤣🤣 maybe ex colleagues child?

Liv999 · 28/07/2024 18:33

Cantrushart · 28/07/2024 18:05

I once sent a friend a perfect recording of a toilet flushing. Fortunately not the lead up to the flush.

😂

PyongyangKipperbang · 28/07/2024 18:36

two weeks ago I managed to arse dial a friend of my exes that I havent spoken to in 10 years! He is under R in my contacts, so fuck knows how I managed it!

We had a nice chat anyway!

sunsetsandboardwalks · 28/07/2024 18:37

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:14

My thing is, if they picked dialled me how would that be easy being that they haven’t messaged me in 2 years

It's very, very easily done. My phone has done all sorts when it's frozen or decided to be slow for no apparent reason, lol.

PerkyMintDeer · 28/07/2024 18:38

I had this. Weird pictures and random words/letters.

It was an ex colleagues 6 year old who'd been given their old phone to watch YouTube on! I got a profuse apology after 14 missed videocalls!

Jumpeduppantrygirl · 28/07/2024 18:40

My butt managed to buy a pair of toddler shoes on EBay!

Barryplopper · 28/07/2024 18:43

As the video was blank I'd assume it was by mistake and what you could see was the inside of the pocket

GoldenLegend · 28/07/2024 18:43

I was once phoned by an ex-colleague's toddler daughter. There was about ten minutes of nothing and then my ex-colleague expressing an opinion of her daughter's behaviour!

Adviceneeeeded · 28/07/2024 18:47

My name begins with A so even though I might not speak to someone for years, people's little kids still manage to call me when playing with their mums phone. Happens a lot more than you would think!

watersofmars · 28/07/2024 18:49

Back in the pre iCloud days where your numbers were stored on your actual phone I once changed phones on the same day I was going out on a first date with a new guy which meant his number was the third one I saved to it.

Nothing ever came of the date - he was awful, actually - but even after I'd deleted his number he was still in there somewhere as keyboard shortcut 3. Which was only one button different to deleting a voicemail. I pocked dialled him about 3 times in the subsequent year. Luke, you were a creep and it definitely didn't mean anything!

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