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To be really sick of supermarkets treating paying customers like scum

416 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 25/07/2024 14:34

Sainsbury's traps you in the self service pen of shame until you scan your receipt like a good little girl

Tesco won't take the security tags off your wine until you've not only paid but they've examined your receipt in detail to make sure your wine is paid for - sort of a performance so you remember your place

Waitrose makes a bit song and dance about doing the rescan of self scanning shops (I don't do self scanning because why would I sign up for this extra work?)

Just in Lidl and my wine set off the security alarm even though I've had the tags taken off and the security guard chased me out the door to try to get me to show him inside my bags (er no fuck off pal)

Aldi staff try to look in your shopping bags as you queue

Does anywhere NOT get a kick out of treating their profit drivers like filth any more?

I will probably just have to live off UHPs from the local Greggs at this rate

OP posts:
politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 15:59

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 15:55

@Comedycook I don't see why you couldn't just show the receipt again.
He just wanted to see which staff member it was.
Absolutely NO BIG DEAL until you made it one.

i bet everyone passing just thought… what a weirdo. Holding her newborn and shouting at the guard for not wanting to show her receipt

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:00

politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 15:59

i bet everyone passing just thought… what a weirdo. Holding her newborn and shouting at the guard for not wanting to show her receipt

So I should meekly comply with a random man's demands so I don't make a scene

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 16:00

@Comedycook yes but an extra 10 seconds in your life really wouldn't have mattered would it.
Staff turnover in retail is huge and as a result staff training can be poor.
Can you not see why? Because many customers are arsy, rude and unhelpful.

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:01

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 16:00

@Comedycook yes but an extra 10 seconds in your life really wouldn't have mattered would it.
Staff turnover in retail is huge and as a result staff training can be poor.
Can you not see why? Because many customers are arsy, rude and unhelpful.

Their staff training situation is absolutely sod all to do with me

politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 16:02

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:00

So I should meekly comply with a random man's demands so I don't make a scene

Random man - security guard
Demand - to simply identify colleague to remind to remove tag to AVOID him having to hassle customers as they leave

politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 16:03

@Comedycook i would have passed you but, holding your newborn and shouting at this security guard that you won’t show him your receipt and i would have thought “poor sod” about the security guard. and “poor baby” for your newborn

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 16:06

@Comedycook not "random man" but an employee of the business you decided to go to.
All the staff are "random" people by that theory.
Which ones are you happy to interact with?
Man on the meat counter? The cleaner who says "careful the floor it's wet"? The assistant who serves you on the till?
All "random" people??

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:06

politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 16:03

@Comedycook i would have passed you but, holding your newborn and shouting at this security guard that you won’t show him your receipt and i would have thought “poor sod” about the security guard. and “poor baby” for your newborn

Well more fool you. And there's massive difference between raising your voice and actual shouting. I firmly told him to let me leave. Anyway this was a very long time ago...said newborn is a teenager now 😂

S1lverCandle · 25/07/2024 16:07

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:00

So I should meekly comply with a random man's demands so I don't make a scene

It wasn't a random man 🙄 and it was a perfectly reasonable request in the circumstances.
You sound incredibly militant about things which have such little meaning, really.
Your blood pressure must be permanently sky high.

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 16:07

@Comedycook mistakes happen by staff sometimes. Yes it's not your 'job' to teach them - but sometimes it's just helpful and nice.

politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 16:08

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:06

Well more fool you. And there's massive difference between raising your voice and actual shouting. I firmly told him to let me leave. Anyway this was a very long time ago...said newborn is a teenager now 😂

and has the same view of security guards as you do? ie not to be disrupted and disposable odious human beings

S1lverCandle · 25/07/2024 16:08

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 16:01

Their staff training situation is absolutely sod all to do with me

Figures.

AllyCart · 25/07/2024 16:10

OptimismvsRealism · 25/07/2024 14:37

Treating paying customers like dirt with measures that won't in any way prevent actual theft is indeed treating us all like scum.

That's like saying speed limits don't prevent road accidents because crashes still happen.

AllyCart · 25/07/2024 16:13

politicalintrigue · 25/07/2024 15:59

i bet everyone passing just thought… what a weirdo. Holding her newborn and shouting at the guard for not wanting to show her receipt

Definitely!

iamtheblcksheep · 25/07/2024 16:14

I got a very large voucher, flowers and chocolates when some spotty kid in tescos tried to say I hadn’t paid for a T-shirt they’d left the tag on. I got very loud rather quickly. He was made to apologise but I didn’t like his tone.

Goldenbear · 25/07/2024 16:18

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 14:38

Well unfortunately so much is stolen from supermarkets they either have to do this or they will have to put up their prices.
Want to pay £10 for a loaf of bread? I doubt it.
You would not believe how much retailers lose in theft.

Edited

We’ll employ people n tills again then and stop being so greedy is what it arguably the response to that! Was shoplifting as bad when supermarkets had more tills open.

Sainsburys hardly has anyone on self service tills- I was at one in my lunch break and gave up as the customer service person was scanning a customers elf scanning stuff for her, ignoring everyone else as obviously she can’t be in-two places at once but I haven’t got time for the faffing!

Wendycoping · 25/07/2024 16:19

TinyGingerCat · 25/07/2024 15:05

Depends where you live I think. Nothing like this round my way (dull as fuck rural middle) but I had to get a security guard to wrestle the gigantic plastic box off a block of cheddar in Birmingham. You chose OP - nightlife, deliveroo, uber, public transport plus extra security in the supermarket, or none of this and a slow quiet slide towards death (I love where I live btw but I am so jealous of people who get take aways delivered).

Ha ha this made me laugh

Bang on.

Goldenbear · 25/07/2024 16:19

Goldenbear · 25/07/2024 16:18

We’ll employ people n tills again then and stop being so greedy is what it arguably the response to that! Was shoplifting as bad when supermarkets had more tills open.

Sainsburys hardly has anyone on self service tills- I was at one in my lunch break and gave up as the customer service person was scanning a customers elf scanning stuff for her, ignoring everyone else as obviously she can’t be in-two places at once but I haven’t got time for the faffing!

Sorry terrible grammar and spelling throughout this.

Beryls · 25/07/2024 16:23

I think theft has gone up so much because of the self scan and automated tills. There's so many staff monitoring these things that it takes more off the shop floor.

I always use the normal tills anyway in the supermarket but when I was last in ALDI I saw a man with a backpack loading it up with meats and cheese without a care in the world in front of everyone. No member of staff anywhere near the isles so went to the till to let them know, he was long gone by the time the security guard came out from the back.

Now if I had used a self check out/self scan and been stopped that day and inspected I reckon I'd have been pissed off.

I get they have to do it, but most thieves aren't buying and scanning their weekly shop, they're in and out with holdalls and backpacks within a minute.

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 16:29

@Goldenbear I started working in retail in the 90s.
No self service tills.
Yes shoplifting was bad even back then.
It's been bad since the Romans had market stalls.

janeintheframe · 25/07/2024 16:31

I get they have to do it, but most thieves aren't buying and scanning their weekly shop, they're in and out with holdalls and backpacks within a minute

I think there is a lot of people opportunistic thieving. Scanning most of their shopping, slipping through an few items. Claiming it was a scanning error when caught. And that’s why they do random checks, as they know people are doing it. The random checks designed to be a detterant rather than they think they will catch everyone.

OptimismvsRealism · 25/07/2024 16:36

Shops are obliged to obey rules in relation to how they treat customers. Shops aren't "private property" - they're businesses open to the public and thus required to treat people in certain ways.

Yes sadly the only way to get around it at the moment is to vote with your feet and make sure you don't contribute a penny to the salaries of the managers who think these policies are genius but for some reason shoplifting keeps going up and up almost like they're not genius at all 🤷

OP posts:
Goldenbear · 25/07/2024 16:36

Needmorelego · 25/07/2024 16:29

@Goldenbear I started working in retail in the 90s.
No self service tills.
Yes shoplifting was bad even back then.
It's been bad since the Romans had market stalls.

But it is loads worse in the current age, even on our local news it had an article on this today and it is up 50%! I worked in retail in the mid 90s both supermarkets and fashion shops and I don’t remember it being as bad as this and the end of the day it is down to greed as it about the bottom line and more money for the share holders - good customer service used to be a thing but now it is taken for granted that customers will do the work for them. Of course people are going to exploit that weakness with self service if they are that way inclined, the supermarkets want the best of both worlds, the customers doing the work but having the same profits - of course that is going to be problematic!

Goldenbear · 25/07/2024 16:40

janeintheframe · 25/07/2024 16:31

I get they have to do it, but most thieves aren't buying and scanning their weekly shop, they're in and out with holdalls and backpacks within a minute

I think there is a lot of people opportunistic thieving. Scanning most of their shopping, slipping through an few items. Claiming it was a scanning error when caught. And that’s why they do random checks, as they know people are doing it. The random checks designed to be a detterant rather than they think they will catch everyone.

bit that kind of rationale is not good customer service as the default is everyone is guilty! This is what people are objecting to, the premise that you are guilty of shoplifting despite never having shop lifted

janeintheframe · 25/07/2024 16:42

Goldenbear · 25/07/2024 16:40

bit that kind of rationale is not good customer service as the default is everyone is guilty! This is what people are objecting to, the premise that you are guilty of shoplifting despite never having shop lifted

I don’t understand the objection. We all know people are stealing; I’m more than happy to have a random check, as I don’t steal and people stealing adds costs to all of us. So as far as I’m concerned they can crack on.

if it was my business you can be damn sure I’d be checking and not letting people rob me blind.