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I genuinely want pro-VAT people to answer these two questions

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Seenandheard · 23/07/2024 17:46

(1) Do you realise that a private school child saves the tax payer/government thousands of pounds per year by not taking up a space in state school? Not to mention the space in the classroom/competition for places? (Do you care about this point or gloss over it in your minds?!)

(2) Do ypu realise that taxing education is illegal in the EU?

Yes or no to both points, please.

I do not want reams of uninformed angry opinions. I don't want this to turn into a multi page thread/bun fight. I just want to understand whether people realise these two points, really, truly understand them. Because it seems to me that there is a mentality of "they're getting a tax break" (WRONG) or "they're taking something away from my child" (WRONG) or "they can afford it so they can spread their wealth a bit" (I'm not going into the fact that my family spend more on taxes than Nordic countries, who have a far, far higher standard of living. We give so much, get almost nothing in return- but apparently we need to give more. More. More.)

I think my deep rooted anger here is to do with people's attitudes and uninformed opinions more than the policy itself. I need to know if people are aware of the facts.

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CammyChameleon · 24/07/2024 23:46

It's just hard to care when there are so many people with real financial problems.

  1. Most fee-paying parents will continue to pay fees, as they're rich and it's important for them to send their kid to a fee-paying school, so I doubt the impact on states schools will be that bad.

  2. We're not in the EU, so who cares? I'm not pro-brexit, but "EU says so" doesn't apply here anymore, so there's no point putting their views on a pedestal.

Jumpingthruhoops · 24/07/2024 23:51

Standupcitizen · 24/07/2024 19:35

Not a good enough reason. Try again.

Try again? 😏 Get over yourself!

Jumpingthruhoops · 24/07/2024 23:55

Lalalalalalalalalalal · 24/07/2024 20:09

Hmm define ‘financial difficulties’. I don’t think many people facing genuine financial difficulties are privately educating their children…

If they've been able to afford private school fees up to now and suddenly can't because of this tax hike, that will put them into financial hardship. Obviously. 😏

Sunshineandpool · 24/07/2024 23:55

Shaketherombooga · 23/07/2024 18:11

Yeah, that’s another F-ing thing that needs to be looked at. still, one thing at a time. That’s a very loose definition of ‘charity’ to say the least.
Just another tax dodge to avoid paying businesses rates.

Exactly.

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:03

Jumpingthruhoops · 24/07/2024 23:55

If they've been able to afford private school fees up to now and suddenly can't because of this tax hike, that will put them into financial hardship. Obviously. 😏

But if they pull their children out, they’ll have an extra £3k per child per month to play with. The fact they have spaffed money they apparently can’t afford up a wall doesn’t mean they are poor.

Would you say that somebody who just bought a Porsche was in financial hardship because it gets through a lot of petrol and costs a fortune to insure?

CammyChameleon · 25/07/2024 00:03

Jumpingthruhoops · 24/07/2024 23:55

If they've been able to afford private school fees up to now and suddenly can't because of this tax hike, that will put them into financial hardship. Obviously. 😏

Lol no, financial hardship is choosing between heating and eating, struggling to afford charity shop clothes, borrowing £20 off a neighbour for cheap groceries until payday etc.

Not being able to afford a luxury that few have is not "financial hardship". If struggling to afford school fees is financial hardship, so is struggling to afford a new in ground swimming pool or a £1 mil+ house.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 25/07/2024 00:05

soundslikeDaffodil · 24/07/2024 23:40

VAT is neither a wealth tax nor a luxury tax. It is notoriously regressive

Dear me.
The categories of progressive, flat and regressive taxes is a seperate classification from income, wealth, luxury etc.

The VAT proposed by Labour is actually a flat tax as it is going to be applied to all private educational businesses for Yrs1-13 instead of only being applied to the economy level private educational businesses for Yrs1-13. VAT across the board for all consumers regardless of their income makes it a flat tax.

A regressive tax structure is what we have now, where only the consumers from lower income brackets pay tax on economy private education, but the consumers from the upper income brackets pay no tax on first class private education.

Economy= tutoring services (pay as you go by subject)
First Class= private schools (full package)

Sunshineandpool · 25/07/2024 00:09

Tgjjl · 23/07/2024 18:13

I would add a third question:

  1. Accepting that state schools need more money, do you realise that there are other sources to raise this from? Why is it OK to tax the only people who are 100% guaranteed not to benefit from the tax (ie those with kids at private school). For example, why would you not support an "emergency school tax" on foreign holidays which could potentially raise even more money.

Anyway - OP - the answer to all 3 questions is the same - if it does not impact people personally, then they have no shits to give. And Labour know that it impacts 7% of those with school age kids and that most people therefore won't give a shit. That's why they won't put an emergency tax on foreign holidays, for example. Because it would impact millions more and that would have meant fewer votes.

But likewise, when a policy comes in that doesn't impact me, I won't have any shits to give, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. Why should I give a shit about anyone in society? They are happy for morally wrong stuff to happen to me, so I'll be happy for morally wrong stuff to happen to them.

I put my SEN kid through private school. No family holiday for the past 5 years. I think this policy is an utter disgrace and hope that private schools reclaim millions and millions of pounds of VAT on capex and that no money is raised. Starmer and Reeves are thieves - this particular tax is 100% guaranteed not to benefit those who pay it.

That's not how VAT works. Everything has to pay it. You don't get let off for not having DC, for example.

And the fact is parents with kids are private don't give a damn about state schools.

I don't believe in private schools because of the principle. Many people are the same. It's not becaus I don't care about rich people.

And I'm sorry you've had no holiday. I'm sure you realise many of us are in the same boat, still can't afford Private and can't afford to heat our houses either.

Sunshineandpool · 25/07/2024 00:12

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:03

But if they pull their children out, they’ll have an extra £3k per child per month to play with. The fact they have spaffed money they apparently can’t afford up a wall doesn’t mean they are poor.

Would you say that somebody who just bought a Porsche was in financial hardship because it gets through a lot of petrol and costs a fortune to insure?

But don't forget they've not been able to afford private school fees and a holiday. So really, they're pretty much on the breadline!

1dayatatime · 25/07/2024 00:13

@SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice

"A regressive tax structure is what we have now, where only the consumers from lower income brackets pay tax on economy private education, but the consumers from the upper income brackets pay no tax on first class private education. "

Actually the majority of one to one private tutoring is cash in hand so no VAT and no income tax. Even the larger tutoring schools are usually below the £85k threshold.

Jumpingthruhoops · 25/07/2024 00:14

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 21:09

You make an excellent point. People are too tied up in envy to care.

The VAT won’t impact me at all, because I can easily afford it. I’ll keep buying my children all the advantages and privileges I can afford, and that includes private school. I also use private healthcare. I am not from the UK and as a foreigner I have felt I shouldn’t take from the system because I can afford to pay my way and others need the free services more than I do. However, I never thought I’d see so much hatred towards people who do put in rather than taking out.

It is the people struggling to send their children to private school who will be impacted. And that is what is so unfair. Surely the best option for society is to make private school more accessible, not less?

Exactly this! Especially:

I never thought I’d see so much hatred towards people who do put in rather than taking out.

Agree. The level of hostility and sheer nastiness towards those who are (currently!) able to afford private school for their children is unreal. Like it's a bad thing!?

You know what they say: 'Life is about choices. If you don't like your life, make better choices!' 🤷‍♀️

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:15

Sunshineandpool · 25/07/2024 00:12

But don't forget they've not been able to afford private school fees and a holiday. So really, they're pretty much on the breadline!

Or they might have had a holiday, but probably only one overseas, and the others this year were all in the UK! Which obviously don’t count. And the one overseas is probably still short-haul, poor lambs.

Sunshineandpool · 25/07/2024 00:19

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:15

Or they might have had a holiday, but probably only one overseas, and the others this year were all in the UK! Which obviously don’t count. And the one overseas is probably still short-haul, poor lambs.

Oh yes, I forgot about that rule. All holidays within the UK are not actual holidays!

1dayatatime · 25/07/2024 00:19

@absquatulize

"By the sounds of it Tarquin is a significant burden"

Well children can be as much or as little a burden as your personal parenting style dictates.

For example you can take time out of your evening to help them with their homework or just leave them to it. You can take time to teach them the times table or just put them in front of the TV. You can spend money on tutoring books or spend it on yourself. You can spend time and money talking them to university open days or just let them get on with it.

It is entirely up to each parent to decide depending on their outlook on education, available time and available money.

Ridiculousme · 25/07/2024 00:20

They might have to have given up their SKY TV package….oh, the shame

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:20

You know what they say: 'Life is about choices. If you don't like your life, make better choices!

Like not sending your child to private school when you know you can’t actually afford it, and then starting numerous threads on here about how unsympathetic everyone is? That kind of better choices?

Send your child to private school or don’t, I don’t care either way. It’s the constant whinging and insistence that the only reason nobody else is really interested is because we are secretly deeply jealous that I’m finding irritating.

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:20

Ridiculousme · 25/07/2024 00:20

They might have to have given up their SKY TV package….oh, the shame

Steady on! 🤣

Another76543 · 25/07/2024 00:20

@SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice

No, it is a luxury tax,
Wealth taxes tax assets.
😄

This is what happens when you pay someone to do your taxes for you, you become completely uneducated as to the different types of taxes.

If you believe that VAT is a luxury tax (it isn't), how do you explain the fact that cake and caviar are VAT free and yet toilet paper is standard rated? I'm not sure most sensible people would argue that loo roll is more luxurious than caviar.

Jumpingthruhoops · 25/07/2024 00:21

Onetwothreefourfiveonce · 24/07/2024 21:21

Same…. These posters can argue all they want until they are blue in the face… our children will still go to those lovely lovely schools, we will still continue our lovely lives and it won’t make any difference. Unsure why private school parents are giving them the airtime on here and asking their opinions as it’s irrelevant to them and to us. I don’t ask them where my next fancy holiday should be and they don’t ask us personal things about their lives.

They are 💯 correct that they don’t care and aren’t interested - I don’t want them to be or Asking them to be!

I do question thought wether, they’ve had hard lives to lead them to how angry they come across - chips on shoulders must come from somewhere 🤷‍♀️

Edited

This! Smacks of: 'My life's shit, so yours should be too!' It's SOOOO boring 😫

Sunshineandpool · 25/07/2024 00:22

Jumpingthruhoops · 25/07/2024 00:14

Exactly this! Especially:

I never thought I’d see so much hatred towards people who do put in rather than taking out.

Agree. The level of hostility and sheer nastiness towards those who are (currently!) able to afford private school for their children is unreal. Like it's a bad thing!?

You know what they say: 'Life is about choices. If you don't like your life, make better choices!' 🤷‍♀️

Personally I'm not hostile against users of private education, although I don't agree with it.

I do feel hostile against this winging about how difficult it is for rich people because as is always trotted out - we couldn't even afford a holiday this year!

And honestly life is also about luck. And if you don't realise that...well, it says it all.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 25/07/2024 00:24

1dayatatime · 25/07/2024 00:13

@SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice

"A regressive tax structure is what we have now, where only the consumers from lower income brackets pay tax on economy private education, but the consumers from the upper income brackets pay no tax on first class private education. "

Actually the majority of one to one private tutoring is cash in hand so no VAT and no income tax. Even the larger tutoring schools are usually below the £85k threshold.

No, the larger tutoring businesses are usually liable for VAT:

Tutoring fees are only exempt from VAT if the fees are paid

  • “For private tuition”
AND
  • “In a subject ordinarily taught in a school or university”
AND
  • “The tuition is delivered by an individual teacher acting independently of an employer.”

The entire number of cash in hand sole trader tutors in the U.K. is dwarfed by just one of the larger tutoring businesses- Tutor Doctor whose revenues are around £672m annually.

Sunshineandpool · 25/07/2024 00:26

Jumpingthruhoops · 25/07/2024 00:21

This! Smacks of: 'My life's shit, so yours should be too!' It's SOOOO boring 😫

If you don't agree with private schools not having to pay VAT it means your life is shit?? I suppose it depends what you mean by a 'shit life' but presumably one that doesn't revolve around money?

Jumpingthruhoops · 25/07/2024 00:31

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:20

You know what they say: 'Life is about choices. If you don't like your life, make better choices!

Like not sending your child to private school when you know you can’t actually afford it, and then starting numerous threads on here about how unsympathetic everyone is? That kind of better choices?

Send your child to private school or don’t, I don’t care either way. It’s the constant whinging and insistence that the only reason nobody else is really interested is because we are secretly deeply jealous that I’m finding irritating.

Well, no not really.

Those parents made the 'choice' to send their kids to private school, presumably already having worked out how they could fund that choice.
They didn't 'choose' to be slapped with a bill for 20% more.

What would you call the hostility towards fee paying parents if it isn't jealousy? I'll wait...

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 25/07/2024 00:33

Another76543 · 25/07/2024 00:20

@SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice

No, it is a luxury tax,
Wealth taxes tax assets.
😄

This is what happens when you pay someone to do your taxes for you, you become completely uneducated as to the different types of taxes.

If you believe that VAT is a luxury tax (it isn't), how do you explain the fact that cake and caviar are VAT free and yet toilet paper is standard rated? I'm not sure most sensible people would argue that loo roll is more luxurious than caviar.

Standard rate VAT is for luxuries & nonessentials.
Reduced rate and zero rate VAT are for essentials.

Cake and caviar are zero rated because they are food.
Loo roll used to be a luxury, but in todays world it is more of an essential thus thre campaign to get it moved to zero rated.

The classification as to what is a luxury/nonessential or not is imperfect, but suffice to say that the purpose of standard rate VAT was to tax luxuries & nonessentials.

Saschka · 25/07/2024 00:35

Jumpingthruhoops · 25/07/2024 00:31

Well, no not really.

Those parents made the 'choice' to send their kids to private school, presumably already having worked out how they could fund that choice.
They didn't 'choose' to be slapped with a bill for 20% more.

What would you call the hostility towards fee paying parents if it isn't jealousy? I'll wait...

Irritation at yet another thread about it?

I have no issue with private school parents in general, my son plays tennis and rugby with children from various south London preps and I get on fine with the parents. But they don’t spend all morning banging on about how tight their diamond slippers are, due to their own financial decisions.

As I’m sure you’re aware, private school fees have gone up by far more than 20% over the past 5 years. If that sort of rise is unaffordable for you, you weren’t going to manage to put your kids through to 6th form anyway.

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