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I genuinely want pro-VAT people to answer these two questions

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Seenandheard · 23/07/2024 17:46

(1) Do you realise that a private school child saves the tax payer/government thousands of pounds per year by not taking up a space in state school? Not to mention the space in the classroom/competition for places? (Do you care about this point or gloss over it in your minds?!)

(2) Do ypu realise that taxing education is illegal in the EU?

Yes or no to both points, please.

I do not want reams of uninformed angry opinions. I don't want this to turn into a multi page thread/bun fight. I just want to understand whether people realise these two points, really, truly understand them. Because it seems to me that there is a mentality of "they're getting a tax break" (WRONG) or "they're taking something away from my child" (WRONG) or "they can afford it so they can spread their wealth a bit" (I'm not going into the fact that my family spend more on taxes than Nordic countries, who have a far, far higher standard of living. We give so much, get almost nothing in return- but apparently we need to give more. More. More.)

I think my deep rooted anger here is to do with people's attitudes and uninformed opinions more than the policy itself. I need to know if people are aware of the facts.

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AbraAbraCadabra · 24/07/2024 21:38

I have no children in private school and my DS attended state school.

However I don't agree with the VAT being charged mainly because I don't think private schools generally will close because of it, but it will make them even MORE elitist and make social mobility even harder. I suspect this will create more of a gap between the earning classes and the wealthy than ever before.

If you really want to level the playing you need to ban private education. This just makes things worse imo.

HowardTJMoon · 24/07/2024 21:48

@Dibblydoodahdah the claim was that 80% of private school income goes on staffing. This is a claim that's been repeated several times now but I've yet to see any source for that claim. Do you have a source?

Dibblydoodahdah · 24/07/2024 21:50

absquatulize · 24/07/2024 21:34

So here is data for another school. Staffing costs 8.9million, total expenditure 17million.

You may be correct, I have only sampled two schools, but in the absence of other evidence,,,

Here’s one for a prep near me which is actually on the larger side and has better facilities than most of the local stand alone preps. Total income: £4.281 million. Staff costs: £2.902 million. It’s difficult to get published figures for most of the smaller preps as they don’t file full accounts…but they don’t have many assets to maintain. That’s why they won’t be able to claim much VAT back.

perfectstorm · 24/07/2024 21:50

Garlickest · 24/07/2024 21:07

State school pupils are allocated funding of under £4000 per year
that is all that the state saves by them going elsewhere.

I didn't know that but, given the average school fees are £20k per year, the average fee-paying parent will now be contributing £4,000 to the public coffers. That's convenient 😃

Average across the UK, 5-16, was £7690 per student last year.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 24/07/2024 21:56

Dibblydoodahdah · 24/07/2024 21:02

I don’t think you would be told to stop complaining and if you started a thread about this I’m sure you would get a lot of support. I’ve seen threads in the past about how some drugs for chronic conditions are exempt from prescription charges and others aren’t and the consensus is generally that it is unfair.

However, I also think your analogy is flawed because there are state schools with better facilities and educational outcomes that some
private schools. So what is your definition of “luxury”?

I've described the differences - and the private HA might look nicer, might give me advantages in certain situations, might make me feel good about being the sort of person who pays for their hearing aids, but it won't necessarily give me better hearing, because like innate intellectual ability, whatever has caused my hearing loss and tinnitus will still be there and nothing can change that. No hearing aid can fix hearing loss. A private school likewise won't necessarily give a better outcome than state, as the students' innate ability is the same either way.

Whatever hearing aid I might have - or have been persuaded is The Best Hearing Aid Money Can Buy by a very slick sales technique that also often dismisses the NHS supplied aids as being a bit rubbish, really or the opinions of others who can't imagine anything worse than going to an audiology appointment in a dingy, yellowing corner of a Victorian wing of the local hospital with a booth that looks like it was last seen in an episode of Blakes 7 when they could go into a posh clinic full of gleaming surfaces and posters/brochures of happy, white toothed, smiling people living their life to the full - I will still be able to access something that amplifies the particular frequencies I am not longer able to hear at normal volumes and deliver it into the receiver in my ear canal.

It's just my choice as to whether I take the free one available to me or if I wish to spend on the luxury version being sold to me that would be a bit nicer, a bit more convenient, easier to adapt to and would make me feel like I'm investing in my wellbeing, irrespective of whether I can actually hear more with it.

Could also be that the NHS one is exactly the same underneath the brand and model name sticker and a different colour, just like the NHS batteries are just the same as the size 13s sold privately that have the same voltage, but have a different name and maybe a different length tab cover - like the private school that has no better outcomes than the comprehensive.

Private schools are very good at marketing. They're very good at having facilities that look good. They're very good at persuading people who are considering them that they're vastly superior to the nasty old state schools. They're very happy to draw parents' attention to their alumni and the number of Russell Group/Oxford/Cambridge admissions/the international athletes, doctors, economists or musicians they've had attend there as children. Their sales pitch and marketing is how they draw customers in, just as how somebody at Specsavers or Boots or another place that sells hearing aids will use everything they can to convince somebody like me that it's worth giving them many thousands of pounds for something that isn't necessarily going to help me hear any better than the aid I can get for free.

Dibblydoodahdah · 24/07/2024 22:13

NeverDropYourMooncup · 24/07/2024 21:56

I've described the differences - and the private HA might look nicer, might give me advantages in certain situations, might make me feel good about being the sort of person who pays for their hearing aids, but it won't necessarily give me better hearing, because like innate intellectual ability, whatever has caused my hearing loss and tinnitus will still be there and nothing can change that. No hearing aid can fix hearing loss. A private school likewise won't necessarily give a better outcome than state, as the students' innate ability is the same either way.

Whatever hearing aid I might have - or have been persuaded is The Best Hearing Aid Money Can Buy by a very slick sales technique that also often dismisses the NHS supplied aids as being a bit rubbish, really or the opinions of others who can't imagine anything worse than going to an audiology appointment in a dingy, yellowing corner of a Victorian wing of the local hospital with a booth that looks like it was last seen in an episode of Blakes 7 when they could go into a posh clinic full of gleaming surfaces and posters/brochures of happy, white toothed, smiling people living their life to the full - I will still be able to access something that amplifies the particular frequencies I am not longer able to hear at normal volumes and deliver it into the receiver in my ear canal.

It's just my choice as to whether I take the free one available to me or if I wish to spend on the luxury version being sold to me that would be a bit nicer, a bit more convenient, easier to adapt to and would make me feel like I'm investing in my wellbeing, irrespective of whether I can actually hear more with it.

Could also be that the NHS one is exactly the same underneath the brand and model name sticker and a different colour, just like the NHS batteries are just the same as the size 13s sold privately that have the same voltage, but have a different name and maybe a different length tab cover - like the private school that has no better outcomes than the comprehensive.

Private schools are very good at marketing. They're very good at having facilities that look good. They're very good at persuading people who are considering them that they're vastly superior to the nasty old state schools. They're very happy to draw parents' attention to their alumni and the number of Russell Group/Oxford/Cambridge admissions/the international athletes, doctors, economists or musicians they've had attend there as children. Their sales pitch and marketing is how they draw customers in, just as how somebody at Specsavers or Boots or another place that sells hearing aids will use everything they can to convince somebody like me that it's worth giving them many thousands of pounds for something that isn't necessarily going to help me hear any better than the aid I can get for free.

Except that the private school may not always look nicer. I looked at plenty of preps that were in older, less well maintained buildings than the newly built state primary round the corner from my house. I recently looked at a private secondary for my youngest DC that doesn’t send any pupils to Oxbridge or Russell Group. In contrast, my oldest DC’s state school sends around 30 kids to Oxbridge every year and most of the rest go to Russell Group. A lot of private school parents just want their DC to be happy and in an evironment that doesn’t negatively impact their mental health and wellbeing.

Education is not a luxury and neither are hearing aids. They both shouldn't attract VAT.

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 22:22

Onetwothreefourfiveonce · 24/07/2024 21:21

Same…. These posters can argue all they want until they are blue in the face… our children will still go to those lovely lovely schools, we will still continue our lovely lives and it won’t make any difference. Unsure why private school parents are giving them the airtime on here and asking their opinions as it’s irrelevant to them and to us. I don’t ask them where my next fancy holiday should be and they don’t ask us personal things about their lives.

They are 💯 correct that they don’t care and aren’t interested - I don’t want them to be or Asking them to be!

I do question thought wether, they’ve had hard lives to lead them to how angry they come across - chips on shoulders must come from somewhere 🤷‍♀️

Edited

Yes, I agree. A lot of strong opinions for something that is really nothing to do with them and won’t impact them at all.

This brings me back to the crux of the issue - envy.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 24/07/2024 22:26

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 22:22

Yes, I agree. A lot of strong opinions for something that is really nothing to do with them and won’t impact them at all.

This brings me back to the crux of the issue - envy.

lol. I see a lot of usernames that benefit bash, so I suppose only ok to punch down?

Garlickest · 24/07/2024 22:27

perfectstorm · 24/07/2024 21:50

Average across the UK, 5-16, was £7690 per student last year.

Per term, innit?

Grammarnut · 24/07/2024 22:27

Private education is a choice you have. Just as you can choose to have private medical care - though if anything goes wrong you will still be treated by the NHS. Private schools are businesses and all businesses are liable for VAT. Because some schools were originally set up as charitable foundations (e.g. Eton) there has been a tax break, which applies to charities.
However, the new government has decided that charitable status does not apply to schools which are businesses and not contributing to the local weal. I think this is the politics of envy and will likely hit people who otherwise would vote Labour. I loathe the politics of envy and thus I do not support the removal of VAT exemption from private schools.
I have no solutions. I suspect I could have chosen the private route for my children (ex was very anti, though) but instead went the route of religious schools. When I see what has been going on in maintained schools I have every sympathy with people who pay for something where the kids at least do not jump on the tables and pretend to masturbate (I was a teacher, I have seen this happen). I breathed a sigh of relief when Gove (not someone I admire otherwise) forced maintained schools to teach reading using systematic synthetic phonics, and insisted on a knowledge-rich curriculum. I fear this government is going to backtrack on these progressive moves that have served our children well and children will be damaged.
Better than removing the VAT exemption was to have insisted that private schools share some facilities with state schools and engage in dialogue with them, maybe have pupil swaps, introduce state school pupils to the ethos of a private school and vice versa. They are not doing this. It will be a mess and will lose votes.
At least Labour will probably sustain the NHS.
My sympathy.
(NB I am a Bennite, Clause 4 Socialist, and a member of the Labour Party, in case anyone thinks I am a closet Tory.)

Allfur · 24/07/2024 22:28

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 22:22

Yes, I agree. A lot of strong opinions for something that is really nothing to do with them and won’t impact them at all.

This brings me back to the crux of the issue - envy.

Yeah, I envy the spelling and grammar skills I've seen on here.

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 22:29

absquatulize · 24/07/2024 21:24

Given that those who have less well off parents, or go into less well paid jobs already pay more in graduate tax than better off students do...

Exactly. And I will be paying university fees for my children up front - it’s less than school fees. This won’t be the case for state school kids. I honestly believe this is just the beginning and they will extend this tax to universities.

This is going to widen the gap and trust me, no one wants that. I don’t want to see bright and talented children miss out or be burdened with huge loans for life, plus VAT.

The education system needs change, but not this way. It seems like only the wealthy are being targeted, but it’s a diversion, and a stealthy way in the back door to tax everyone. Actually taxing the super rich would be more effective.

Starlightstarbright3 · 24/07/2024 22:32

Tbh … if I didn’t think vat should be paid on private education . The self absorbed posts I have read have convinced me it’s a great idea .

hth

Ridiculousme · 24/07/2024 22:35

Envy…absolutely. Envy that because of circumstance we can’t all give our kids an equal slice of cake. ‘We work hard’ they clamoured. So does the person doing your Amazon deliveries, valeting your car or cleaning your house. Private schools are run as a profitable concern, they are a luxury. The tax is due. I’m sorry buying your way into privilege got a bit more expensive. Many are struggling to feed their family or heat their home. Get over yourselves ffs.

Bushmillsbabe · 24/07/2024 22:37

Another76543 · 24/07/2024 21:26

@TheOriginalEmu

The best option for society is to scrap private schools and give everyone the same opportunities.

The best option is to stop the state system being a postcode lottery. The fact that some can access an excellent state school, but others are left to struggle with failing schools, is a disgrace. The best option is to concentrate on making the 93% of schools all equally great so that parents don't feel it necessary to spend a fortune on private schools. Concentrate on the 93%, not the 7%.

Absolutely agree that our focus should be on the 93% rather than the 7%. And that is my issue with the policy, it is very much focused on where the money is coming from (the 7%) rather than how specifically it is going to help the 93%. It's all very vague. Will it be spread equally through schools, will it be targeted at struggling schools? Will it be allocated per school or per pupil?

I personally hope some of the money is used to look at why some schools, with the same demographic intake, do so much better than others. There is an assumption that schools in more well off areas do better, but this isn't always true. The Michaela school is often mentioned as an example where a school in a very deprived area, with very limited facilities, acheives excellent results, I'm sure there are many many others.
It's like the NHS, higher funded than ever, and working worse than ever. Just throwing money at struggling schools isn't the answer, figuring out why they are struggling is.

StormingNorman · 24/07/2024 22:41

hastingsmax · 23/07/2024 17:56

ITS NOT OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO FIX THE SYSTEM.

I'm so tired of hearing this. My sharp elbows are mine!

The argument that private school parents are needed to fix the state system is at least funny. It exposes the subconscious inferiority complex that is driving this policy.

Feelingleftoutoften · 24/07/2024 22:52

lavenderlou · 23/07/2024 17:49

  1. Yes I realise but I am against the principle of private education and would prefer that everyone invested their efforts in the state system.

  2. Yes I'm aware. Finally a positive to leaving the EU. The majority of European societies do not have such an entrenched class system and inequality of wealth as the UK so I don't believe the difference between private and state schools there is so great.

This this this

Standupcitizen · 24/07/2024 23:10

Onetwothreefourfiveonce · 24/07/2024 21:21

Same…. These posters can argue all they want until they are blue in the face… our children will still go to those lovely lovely schools, we will still continue our lovely lives and it won’t make any difference. Unsure why private school parents are giving them the airtime on here and asking their opinions as it’s irrelevant to them and to us. I don’t ask them where my next fancy holiday should be and they don’t ask us personal things about their lives.

They are 💯 correct that they don’t care and aren’t interested - I don’t want them to be or Asking them to be!

I do question thought wether, they’ve had hard lives to lead them to how angry they come across - chips on shoulders must come from somewhere 🤷‍♀️

Edited

I thought you were all on the breadline and couldn't afford the tax. Do make up your minds.

ApplesOrangesBananas · 24/07/2024 23:11

Curryle3af · 24/07/2024 19:43

And you want people to feel sorry for rich parents paying £150k in school fees!🤣

Not asking anyone to feel sorry for anyone… just trying to state that it’s not always a minimal increase.

Bushmillsbabe · 24/07/2024 23:12

StormingNorman · 24/07/2024 22:41

The argument that private school parents are needed to fix the state system is at least funny. It exposes the subconscious inferiority complex that is driving this policy.

I don't think it's funny, I think its really sad that some state school parents and staff think that we can't sort our own sh1t out, so we 'need' private school parents with their money and sharp elbows to 'save us' poor wee helpless little things that we are. I do get your point, but just with a different feeling.

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 23:13

NeverDropYourMooncup · 24/07/2024 21:56

I've described the differences - and the private HA might look nicer, might give me advantages in certain situations, might make me feel good about being the sort of person who pays for their hearing aids, but it won't necessarily give me better hearing, because like innate intellectual ability, whatever has caused my hearing loss and tinnitus will still be there and nothing can change that. No hearing aid can fix hearing loss. A private school likewise won't necessarily give a better outcome than state, as the students' innate ability is the same either way.

Whatever hearing aid I might have - or have been persuaded is The Best Hearing Aid Money Can Buy by a very slick sales technique that also often dismisses the NHS supplied aids as being a bit rubbish, really or the opinions of others who can't imagine anything worse than going to an audiology appointment in a dingy, yellowing corner of a Victorian wing of the local hospital with a booth that looks like it was last seen in an episode of Blakes 7 when they could go into a posh clinic full of gleaming surfaces and posters/brochures of happy, white toothed, smiling people living their life to the full - I will still be able to access something that amplifies the particular frequencies I am not longer able to hear at normal volumes and deliver it into the receiver in my ear canal.

It's just my choice as to whether I take the free one available to me or if I wish to spend on the luxury version being sold to me that would be a bit nicer, a bit more convenient, easier to adapt to and would make me feel like I'm investing in my wellbeing, irrespective of whether I can actually hear more with it.

Could also be that the NHS one is exactly the same underneath the brand and model name sticker and a different colour, just like the NHS batteries are just the same as the size 13s sold privately that have the same voltage, but have a different name and maybe a different length tab cover - like the private school that has no better outcomes than the comprehensive.

Private schools are very good at marketing. They're very good at having facilities that look good. They're very good at persuading people who are considering them that they're vastly superior to the nasty old state schools. They're very happy to draw parents' attention to their alumni and the number of Russell Group/Oxford/Cambridge admissions/the international athletes, doctors, economists or musicians they've had attend there as children. Their sales pitch and marketing is how they draw customers in, just as how somebody at Specsavers or Boots or another place that sells hearing aids will use everything they can to convince somebody like me that it's worth giving them many thousands of pounds for something that isn't necessarily going to help me hear any better than the aid I can get for free.

What about the assessments children need to sit to get into private prep and high schools? Maybe that has something to do with the results? They teach at a faster pace and at a higher standard. For example, the children don’t follow state curriculum and are ahead of state schools by a year. We receive information on this at report time and reminders that the children are assessed against their peers, not across the country, and average results at the school do not equate to average across the state.

There is definite advantage to private school. It’s unfair, but it exists.

ApplesOrangesBananas · 24/07/2024 23:14

Marchitectmummy · 24/07/2024 19:46

This will really throw hatred my way I'm sure however we are one of those parents, London based and 5 children in private school. The cumulative affect of VAT on their fees together is potentially 1 of their fees.

I'm not looking for sympathy at all, we certainly are very privileged as a family...I'm here for the debate and orginally to educate and be educated but its all getting a bit nasty which is a shame.

You are right, every debate mentioning VAT on private school fees gets nasty.

That extra 20% could be the difference between having one children or two children if somebody is dead set on private school. Or in my case I’ll delay having my third.

absquatulize · 24/07/2024 23:15

ApplesOrangesBananas · 24/07/2024 23:14

You are right, every debate mentioning VAT on private school fees gets nasty.

That extra 20% could be the difference between having one children or two children if somebody is dead set on private school. Or in my case I’ll delay having my third.

Sounds like a strong argument for removing the two child cap for benefits, could we fund it by a wealth tax?

ApplesOrangesBananas · 24/07/2024 23:17

absquatulize · 24/07/2024 23:15

Sounds like a strong argument for removing the two child cap for benefits, could we fund it by a wealth tax?

Paying an additional 20% to send your children to private school is a wealth tax.

VickyPollard25 · 24/07/2024 23:18

Standupcitizen · 24/07/2024 23:10

I thought you were all on the breadline and couldn't afford the tax. Do make up your minds.

”All on the breadline”? Erm… no. I’m not sure where you got that. The point is that those struggling won’t be able to afford it and the gap between the haves and have nots will widen.

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