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Kid's being allowed to go to school late in the morning

229 replies

OoodlesofNoodles · 14/07/2024 19:05

Local schools to me are allowing children to go in at 10am tomorrow.

What do we all think about this? I'm on the fence, schools are shouting about absence/lateness/taking them out for holidays but on the other hand the kids may not see this again for a long time. My sisters kids are upset because both parents can't start work late so they have to go to school at usual time, it's unfair to put parents on the spot with this as well.

YABU - It's fine for schools to do this.
YANBU - I don't agree with it.

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Toddlerteaplease · 14/07/2024 21:04

It's ridiculous.

OhHelloMiss · 14/07/2024 21:04

The Olympic? Always a letdown..

Toddlerteaplease · 14/07/2024 21:05

I'm a nurse. My colleagues have to be here at 7am regardless!

WimbyAce · 14/07/2024 21:07

I just don't think there's a need for it. If parents allow kids to stay up then fair enough but it's not ridiculously late. They should still be able to get into school on time.
Some years ago there was a storm and it took us all day to get home on the train, must have finally got home about 2230. I was heavily pregnant and my daughter was 5. We both made it into work and school on time the next day.

Bluebirdover · 14/07/2024 21:07

Toddlerteaplease · 14/07/2024 21:05

I'm a nurse. My colleagues have to be here at 7am regardless!

I work in an office environment, I don't.

I also don't need to work Christmas Day or New Years Eve night.

Different jobs mean different commitments.

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Houseplanter · 14/07/2024 21:09

Utterly ridiculous. What kind of message are we sending people? It's ok to shirk because of nothing more than a game?!

ricecrispiecakes · 14/07/2024 21:09

Bluebirdover · 14/07/2024 21:07

I work in an office environment, I don't.

I also don't need to work Christmas Day or New Years Eve night.

Different jobs mean different commitments.

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Well, exactly.

You know when you become a nurse/teacher/policeman that that means working certain hours and having little flexibility with your hours. C'est la vie.

Bluebirdover · 14/07/2024 21:09

@Itisjustmyopinion particularly the skateboarding!

Windingdown48 · 14/07/2024 21:10

My ds is watching he will still be up and to school for normal time.

RheaRend · 14/07/2024 21:10

The whole point is to prevent the children being off all day and taking it as a sick day - allowing them an hour extra in bed so they still come in and work after that.

Sheelanogig · 14/07/2024 21:12

It will be over by 10pm (doubt there's a need for extra time). Don't see the need for a 10am school start.

Glitterblue · 14/07/2024 21:13

Ploughmans · 14/07/2024 19:39

It’s not a big deal. The head at our school will be in at normal time and doing an assembly/ supervising in the hall until 10. Children can come in any time from normal start time until 10 - as can the teachers. I’m sorry but it’s pathetic getting so worked up about this.

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I agree, it’s pathetic getting worked up. It doesn’t need to be a big deal - it’s optional, it’s literally just a case of not getting into trouble if they’re in by a certain time, but for those whose parents have to be in work, the school will be open. I don’t know what the big deal is, or why so many people are muttering about having something to say next time they’re in trouble for their kid being late!

ricecrispiecakes · 14/07/2024 21:15

It's an issue because it's football and MN hates football.

Munter · 14/07/2024 21:15

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That's not the fault of the sport.

Eadfrith · 14/07/2024 21:18

It sounds like they are expecting this anyway so are making it a formal thing to make up for irresponsible parents hangovers…

Bluebirdover · 14/07/2024 21:22

@Munter much like Christmas..

What's the option?

If school starts on time, will it solve the issue?

DrCoconut · 14/07/2024 21:24

🤣🤣🤣 at all this history in the making nonsense over a football game. I remember staying up on a school night watching people crossing the Berlin Wall and I still got up on time the next day. I get it, people like football but it's just a game and will be played again in a couple of years time. Healthy kids won't fall to bits because of a not all that late night. Get them to school!

Munter · 14/07/2024 21:27

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Bluebirdover · 14/07/2024 21:27

DrCoconut · 14/07/2024 21:24

🤣🤣🤣 at all this history in the making nonsense over a football game. I remember staying up on a school night watching people crossing the Berlin Wall and I still got up on time the next day. I get it, people like football but it's just a game and will be played again in a couple of years time. Healthy kids won't fall to bits because of a not all that late night. Get them to school!

And their education won't suffer because of an hour late attendance.

neverbeenskiing · 14/07/2024 21:29

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No, because they would rather have vulnerable children in late than not at all.

CoffeeInTheClouds · 14/07/2024 21:32

I'm not really bothered about an hour off school during the last week of term.

What does bother me is the email I received from school claiming that this was an 'exceptional circumstance'. Utter nonsense!

Parents are being criminalised for taking their children on holiday, not managing to get school refusers in, visiting sick relatives abroad etc. but a football match is an exceptional circumstance!!???

Bluebirdover · 14/07/2024 21:34

CoffeeInTheClouds · 14/07/2024 21:32

I'm not really bothered about an hour off school during the last week of term.

What does bother me is the email I received from school claiming that this was an 'exceptional circumstance'. Utter nonsense!

Parents are being criminalised for taking their children on holiday, not managing to get school refusers in, visiting sick relatives abroad etc. but a football match is an exceptional circumstance!!???

Are your examples only one hour in two years.....

Or a much greater amount of time off?

Hardly a comparison really.

Greenlittecat · 14/07/2024 21:34

Goaaaaaal

DrCoconut · 14/07/2024 21:34

@WimbyAce absolutely. I fancy going to a particular gig later this year and taking my DC to stay with their cousin while I'm there. We'd travel back late on the Sunday or even early Monday. I bet school wouldn't authorise a 10am start. They'd say suck it up and get in.

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