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To have grudging respect for how Trump styled it out

555 replies

Ladyslip · 14/07/2024 18:15

I mean someone tried to murder him, he came very close to having died. He went through a terrifying experience and came out saying fight and raising his fist in defiance. I think he’s an odious man but despite that, I have to concede a nod to that.

Let’s face it, if this had happened to Obama and he’d responded in the same way we’d all be like ‘woah, he the man!’

Note. This is not a genuine AIBU. I’m confident in my position on this but know so many people have so polarized themselves that they would rather eat their own eyeballs than find any small compliment or recognition for someone they hate.

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outdamnedspots · 14/07/2024 21:43

DanielGault · 14/07/2024 18:22

He was too thick to process what was happening. As usual. How anyone can have an iota of admiration for him I do not know.

This.

CreateUserNames · 14/07/2024 21:43

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:14

Well I was 17, 14 years ago.

And I stand by what I said.

New Labour introduced uni tuition fees, took us into Oraq and started the privatisation of the NHS.

And then there are the Cons

Honestly? I voted Brexit to see what would happen.

Perhaps if my single mother hadn't been so penalised by Labour for being so, I'd might be a Labour voters now.

Alas.

Britain was a bit unlucky with brexit too. Covid happened and the country had gone sit poorer since then.

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:43

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 21:40

Yeah my mother never went to college and had to pay a £400+ month rent on her own.

so was she working ? so able to claim working tax credits or whatever they were called ? Or did she earn too much, so wasn't entitled to claim benefits ? Believe me it was better after Labour came in than before, before, we single Mothers ( not single Fathers, or absent Fathers, never them ! ) were the reason for all the ill's of society under the Conservatives !

She was working full time. I barely ever saw her.

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 14/07/2024 21:44

It all made him look very physically robust as well - comparing unfavourably to the increasingly frail Biden.

cardibach · 14/07/2024 21:45

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:33

Yeah my mother never went to college and had to pay a £400+ month rent on her own.

Labour sucked her dry.

How is that Labour’s fault? You’re going to have to explain exactly what was down to them if you want us to believe this.

cardibach · 14/07/2024 21:46

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:38

East Midlands. This was 15-20 years ago.

Like I followed up with, there were 4 of us.

She worked damn hard and it only got harder.

I dislike Labour and Conservatives.

I voted Brexit for a reason - London needed to share the wealth.

How was Brexit going to cause that to happen? You know the EU made grants to the regions, don’t you? Surely you do?

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:47

cardibach · 14/07/2024 21:46

How was Brexit going to cause that to happen? You know the EU made grants to the regions, don’t you? Surely you do?

All I know is that life got increasingly worse.

I don't regret voting how I did.

When I see my middle class in laws now, in the South East, I do geyt angry about the wealth distribution in the UK.

cardibach · 14/07/2024 21:49

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:47

All I know is that life got increasingly worse.

I don't regret voting how I did.

When I see my middle class in laws now, in the South East, I do geyt angry about the wealth distribution in the UK.

Yes, it’s shit. The EU helped even it out a bit with grants to the regions.
I still don’t get how Labour sucked your mother dry.

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 21:49

@SpudleyLass She will have got 4 x child benefit unlike now, that alone would have paid at least half the rent ! I am not trying to diminish what you and your Mum went through, I can honestly say that I wouldn't have been able to contemplate college with four children, although some on my course with helpful families did, everyone's situation is different and I take it your Dad wasn't any help either ?

Munter · 14/07/2024 21:50

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Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 21:52

@Munter I suppose its called listening to different people's experiences , it's a bit of a new concept that I doubt will taken up by any politician Wink

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:53

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 21:49

@SpudleyLass She will have got 4 x child benefit unlike now, that alone would have paid at least half the rent ! I am not trying to diminish what you and your Mum went through, I can honestly say that I wouldn't have been able to contemplate college with four children, although some on my course with helpful families did, everyone's situation is different and I take it your Dad wasn't any help either ?

Labour made every excuse to increase taxes- I remember even now.

And no, she did nor get 4x child benefit as my sister at that point was knocking on adulthood then so was my.older brother.

I literally starved some days.

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 21:58

Labour made every excuse to increase taxes- I remember even now.

Still a lot lower than under the recently departed Conservatives ?

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 22:01

I have to say you must have been a child genius as I don't remember how much tax my parents payed back in 1976, I mean I could look it up now, but that doesn't mean the average 4yr old will have any concept of it Smile

SpidersAreShitheads · 14/07/2024 22:02

SpudleyLass · 14/07/2024 21:47

All I know is that life got increasingly worse.

I don't regret voting how I did.

When I see my middle class in laws now, in the South East, I do geyt angry about the wealth distribution in the UK.

And I get angry when I see ridiculous reasons for voting Brexit which have had real life consequences for this country.

No one disagrees that wealth needs to be more evenly distributed round the country.

It is utterly mind boggling that you thought Brexit would achieve this. It literally put more control into the hands of the very people that want to keep it for themselves and their cronies.

People have the right to vote for who they want. But it is so very, very frustrating to read wild accusations that aren’t backed up and to see how devastating changes have been made to our country due to voting based on bizarre beliefs.

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 22:22

Back to Trump, I am glad he wasn't seriously injured or killed during the attempt on his life, I dread to think what the outcome would have been for the US if that had happened.
I sort of understand where the OP is coming from, if you put a PR hat on and look at it purely from that point of view, I think that is where Trumps power lies, not in being a good person, that doesn't matter really, what does matter is how he is perceived by the people who might vote for him, that's all that really counts, isn't it ? A cross in a box ?
Farage might be a dismal excuse for a human being in my opinion, but I also see how good he is at saying the 'right' thing to the right audience, at the right time, he pushes peoples buttons, Trump is the US version of him on steroids, it doesn't have to make sense to make sense !

infor · 14/07/2024 22:54

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 21:18

@infor thank you , I can't help feeling that those in suits and sunglasses ( is that what SS stands for Wink) must have been inwardly FFS'ing like mad in their minds trying to get him to safety !
I wonder was the building that the SS sniper person was on included in the Rally perimeter ? I don't profess to have any knowledge about firearms, have plucked a few birds badly and that's it , but the building the shooter was on seemed quite close by from a being able to hit someone from a distance kind of way ? Is that what you mean by confusion over responsibility ?

The secret service draw a boundary, inside the line is their responsibility, outside it is the (supposedly) safer area that falls to the local police.
The shooter seems to have been acting alone (no escape route or obvious back up). It's suggested that he was a Democrat who had registered as a Republican to get access and be informed of Trump's local events.
Had he been inside one of the sheds firing through an opening (reminiscent of John Allen Muhammad and Lee Boyd Malvo who picked off victims through a hole in the back of their car twenty years ago) it could have been far worse.
Sniffer dogs and drones should have been deployed, but I suspect the view from within the FBI and DHS is that only a far-right redneck would try to shoot a candidate - and they're on his side.

Dymaxion · 14/07/2024 23:02

Had he been inside one of the sheds firing through an opening (reminiscent of John Allen Muhammad and Lee Boyd Malvo who picked off victims through a hole in the back of their car twenty years ago) it could have been far worse.

I remember that ! I don't think he would have got the shot without the height though ? I think it might be one of those hindsight is a marvellous thing type scenario's , or the locals might have thought the sniper on the roof covered the roofs of the sheds to the sides, I am sure it will all come out in the investigation.

Nanaof1 · 14/07/2024 23:04

cupcaske123 · 14/07/2024 18:32

The middle east doesn't miss him.

Iran misses him deeply!

infor · 14/07/2024 23:04

cardibach · 14/07/2024 21:46

How was Brexit going to cause that to happen? You know the EU made grants to the regions, don’t you? Surely you do?

David Dimbleby did a wonderful series of programmes on R4 just before Brexit. He spoke to people in poorer parts of the UK. He raised the issue of EU infrastructure: roads, bridges, leisure centres etc.
The general feeling was that the transport links tended to reduce the local jobs as bigger firms could undercut local businesses, while houses became more attractive as second-homes if folks from richer parts of the country could get there quicker.
A very articulate business owner from Merthyr Tydfil described a new leisure centre that locals couldn't afford to use being provided, while she couldn't access help to employ people in new jobs because of State Aid regulations that are routinely flouted in major EU states.

Munter · 14/07/2024 23:08

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Nanaof1 · 14/07/2024 23:08

The best response ever for an assassination attempt will always be President Reagan.

When his wife walked into the ER, where they were working to save his life, he looked at Nancy and said, "Honey, I forgot to duck".

Owl55 · 14/07/2024 23:12

He’s a 78 year old and reacted as most people who had been shot at would , he was prob in shock too. It did seem ironic that he supports gun ownership so strongly and he was lucky not to have been killed by a gun.

Nanaof1 · 14/07/2024 23:13

Ponoka7 · 14/07/2024 18:39

There could have been multiple shooters. Just as he was getting in the car, popping his head up could have cost security personnel their lives. The woman in front of him looked in her 20's, he didn't have the right to put them at further risk. How do you think 'fight,fight,fight' is going to be interpreted? They'll be turning up with guns at the rallies, given they are always holding beers, let's see how this goes. Biden is being blamed across SM because he said that Trump should be put in a bullseye and there are calls for revenge.

But the left will "explain" Biden's remark away as NBD, just as they did with Pelosi's.

Now, if the parties were reversed, heads would roll and the jails would already be full.

I guess it's only inciting violence when the other party does it.

Nanaof1 · 14/07/2024 23:26

Bakersdozens · 14/07/2024 18:44

incidentally, it was a supporter that shot him, according to the BBC - a republican

Actually, being a Republican does NOT automatically make you a Trump supporter. Not sure where that stupidity comes from but it's being parroted about as if it were gospel.

Secondly, this was published in a NBC report today:
"Pennsylvania voter records listed a Thomas Matthew Crooks with the same address and birth date as a registered Republican. But Crooks appeared to have made a $15 donation to a liberal PAC on inauguration day in 2021, according to Federal Election Commission records."

Shooter donated to liberal PAC

As I have said, many people will register the opposite of what they believe. This is done so they can vote for the least favorable candidate on the side they don't support. Then, in the general election, they vote for their true party. Independents will often declare one way or another so they can vote in the primaries. Not sure why this is so difficult for some to understand. I guess you can lead some people to water, but you can't make them think. It's just NOT rocket science.

Trump rally shooter identified as 20-year-old Pennsylvania man

The FBI identified the shooter, who is dead, as Thomas Matthew Crooks of Bethel Park, Pennsylvania. A motive was not clear.

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/politics-news/trump-rally-shooter-identified-rcna161757