Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wish Sir Keir and his wife would not hold hands when working

758 replies

BeaQuiet · 10/07/2024 10:23

They've arrived in Washington DC on official business clutching hands like the Macrons, the Obamas and the Sussexes.

AiBU to find it a bit cringey?

And before anyone asks, yes I do have bigger things to worry about but I fancy a chat.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
22
newnamethanks · 11/07/2024 17:20

That's an anti-semitic lie irregularasclockwork. You'll find your Reform mates elsewhere on MN, Clacton branch.

TimeandMotion · 11/07/2024 17:21

TimeandMotion · 11/07/2024 17:09

We’re now splitting hairs about drip drip drip versus domino effect? Give me strength. He is not being talked down. “Cringey” is not the stuff of powerful political rhetoric.

@cardibach you’d be better off on the other thread where the OP speculated which minister would lose their job first and people piled in to call David Lammy “thick”.

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:25

TimeandMotion · 11/07/2024 17:09

We’re now splitting hairs about drip drip drip versus domino effect? Give me strength. He is not being talked down. “Cringey” is not the stuff of powerful political rhetoric.

Terrified is. And ‘like a little boy about to wet hinself’.

LakieLady · 11/07/2024 17:26

I think it's nice, they look very happy.

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:27

TimeandMotion · 11/07/2024 17:21

@cardibach you’d be better off on the other thread where the OP speculated which minister would lose their job first and people piled in to call David Lammy “thick”.

Edited

Oh, I’m there. Today is the gift that keeps giving, mad thread wise…

EasternStandard · 11/07/2024 17:28

TimeandMotion · 11/07/2024 17:09

We’re now splitting hairs about drip drip drip versus domino effect? Give me strength. He is not being talked down. “Cringey” is not the stuff of powerful political rhetoric.

I think people are overreacting a bit

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:31

EasternStandard · 11/07/2024 17:28

I think people are overreacting a bit

I agree. The people cringing and thinking Starmer looks ‘terrified’ and as though he’s ’about to wet himself’ and that he can’t cope alone because he holds his wife’s hand in situations with an established convention of spouses holding hands are definitely overreacting.

EasternStandard · 11/07/2024 17:32

I more meant the drip drip, delegitimising the gov etc

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:34

EasternStandard · 11/07/2024 17:32

I more meant the drip drip, delegitimising the gov etc

I know what you meant. I think the people I mention a)started it and b)are overreacting more.

Janiie · 11/07/2024 17:46

cardibach · 11/07/2024 16:54

But in which ones does he look terrified please? He looks self assured and comfortable to me - an£ the other leaders look comfortable with him.

Look we all see different things. You mustn't take it all so personally.

To me he looks out of his depth and that rictus grin very forced. You see a self assured politician 🤷‍♀️. We don't have to agree, it's fine to have opposing views y'know.

cherish123 · 11/07/2024 17:52

prettybird · 10/07/2024 22:25

Posted early by mistake Blush.

What sad role models she must have had. Sad

I'm not from a "touchy-feely-huggy" family - yet I still regularly saw my parents holding hands, even into their 60s (mum died at 72 after developing a head-injury induced dementia Sad) and even, Shock, kissing in front of us Grin The tenderness they had for each other was special (not saying they didn't argue - of course they did - but their marriage was solid Smile - a fantastic example to emulate).

Dh and I are married 26 years, together 31 years and still link arms when we go for our regular walks around the local pond to feed the swans and ducks.

Shock horror Wink

What an unkind thing to say. I had great role models and a happy marriage. My DH is quite tactile in the house. I just personally think it's as if it's done for effect. When I was younger and saw people hold hands, I often thought it was quite possessive. I walked home with a couple holding hands when I was about 20 and felt uncomfortable.

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:54

Janiie · 11/07/2024 17:46

Look we all see different things. You mustn't take it all so personally.

To me he looks out of his depth and that rictus grin very forced. You see a self assured politician 🤷‍♀️. We don't have to agree, it's fine to have opposing views y'know.

I think you’ll find you are in a minority. He looks totally fine. I don’t see a grin, never mind a rictus one. I see a smile. I don’t think anyone not rabidly anti Labour/Starmer would see what you see.

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:56

cherish123 · 11/07/2024 17:52

What an unkind thing to say. I had great role models and a happy marriage. My DH is quite tactile in the house. I just personally think it's as if it's done for effect. When I was younger and saw people hold hands, I often thought it was quite possessive. I walked home with a couple holding hands when I was about 20 and felt uncomfortable.

That’s really unusual. Most people don’t see it like that as far as I can see.

Janiie · 11/07/2024 18:00

cardibach · 11/07/2024 17:54

I think you’ll find you are in a minority. He looks totally fine. I don’t see a grin, never mind a rictus one. I see a smile. I don’t think anyone not rabidly anti Labour/Starmer would see what you see.

Ok yes you've said a few times now that you disagree wirh me, just stop quoting me perhaps and ignore me?

However. Image counts. These leaders have got to look the part and he does not. Think even Corbyn looked like he was made of stronger stuff than dear Keir.

cardibach · 11/07/2024 18:02

Janiie · 11/07/2024 18:00

Ok yes you've said a few times now that you disagree wirh me, just stop quoting me perhaps and ignore me?

However. Image counts. These leaders have got to look the part and he does not. Think even Corbyn looked like he was made of stronger stuff than dear Keir.

I’ll ignore you when you stop presenting arrant nonsense as fact…

Doubledenim305 · 11/07/2024 18:04

I'm much more concerned about starmer allowing our missiles to be shot into Russia😬

cardibach · 11/07/2024 18:05

Doubledenim305 · 11/07/2024 18:04

I'm much more concerned about starmer allowing our missiles to be shot into Russia😬

By a sovereign nation and in company with the missiles originating in the US?

tommyhoundmum · 11/07/2024 18:05

Lady Starmer will be there as there will be a ladies programme

SerendipityJane · 11/07/2024 18:06

Doubledenim305 · 11/07/2024 18:04

I'm much more concerned about starmer allowing our missiles to be shot into Russia😬

Not much point in having them otherwise.

Just a reminder to that little man Putin that he's fooling no one. If he doesn't like it, I am sure he'll deploy the Nige-01 missile system.

ilovegranny · 11/07/2024 18:07

Not at work. Not in church. Otherwise, personal choice and completely inoffensive.

Mimsyduck · 11/07/2024 18:14

I agree it’s unnecessary. I think it’s to make them appear wholesome and innocent when those that have their eyes open and not brainwashed by main stream media know they are anything but. It’s all about image less about facts

BustingBaoBun · 11/07/2024 18:14

i think Keir Starmer totally looks the part. Very Prime Ministerial. Unlike some of his predecessors... no need to mention names, it's obvious.

newnamethanks · 11/07/2024 18:17

Alternative facts, presumably.

AnnieSnap · 11/07/2024 18:19

Yes YABU 🙄

Oblomov24 · 11/07/2024 18:25

I like couples holding hands.