You are basing your assessment of whether a man can be a 'successful' trans woman on whether he looks like a pornified stereotype of 'femininity'.
This is highly offensive, but most of all, it's just nonsense.
Many women have absolutely nothing in common with these porn star examples of 'successful transwomen'.
What does a woman with short hair, jeans, and a scruffy men's hoody have in common with a highly made up, surgically altered man who says he's a woman?
And what on earth do miners have to do with absolutely anything at all?