Always happy to tell my ghost stories 😊
My first full apparition was when I was around 10 or 11.
This is in the 70s. My parents were divorced, my SD was new on the scene and we lived with my Nana. For about three summers it became a thing that my parents would pack me and my Nana off to stay with my cousins in Scotland at the beginning of the school holidays. My Aunt (Mum's sister) had recently remarried a chap with a well paid job and they had bought a big slightly dilapidated house outside Edinburgh in a village. In residence were his three children - two late teen girls and his son who was the same sort of age bracket as me and my two blood cousins, a girl and a boy. We were all aged between 9 - 12.
The house did come with a ghost story which fascinated us no end. The locals claimed that in Victorian times the Master if the house had an affair with the maid (of course) and then murdered her and bricked her up in the dining room cupboard.
The walls of this house were very thick,and each room had a built in cupboard that was quite deep and had a solid back....except in the dining-room which had a cupboard half the depth with a wooden back covered in old wall-paper. Obviously the grown ups scoffed and ridiculed our fascination with the story and refused to investigate the mysterious cupboard.
So the sleeping arrangements were that my two male cousins had a big bedroom together, and I was in with my female cousin in a dressing room off this bedroom that could only be accessed through it.
My blood cousin was away for some reason, which was handy as when I developed a raging stomach bug - probably food poisoning - my female cousin was put in to the big room with my other cousin while I was isolated in the dressing room on the bottom of the bunk beds just in case it was something contagious.
All the rooms had big sash windows, and wooden shutters which were too rickety to use, and as the house was being renovated, there weren't any curtains which wasn't a problem as the location wasn't overlooked and was pretty rural.
I clearly remember waking up because someone was tucking me in. I felt the mattress lift slightly as someone tucked the blankets in tightly, I felt my pillows being adjusted, and was then affectionately patted. Now fully awake, I turned my head as I was facing the wall, in time to see a figure going through the door. There was moonlight and I was able to see pale hair and the shape of a woman. I assumed it was my Nana, who had white hair, thought no more of it and went back to sleep.
The next morning when Nana came in to check on me I said "I woke up when you came in last night," and she denied she'd been in. My Aunt, who was dark haired, also denied coming in, and so did my older teenage cousins. Obviously it wasn't likely to have been my younger cousins. Part of the rationale for no-one coming in during the night was that the floorboards and doors were creaky and no-one wanted to disturb sleeping children (plus an element of benign neglect as it was the 70s lol).
Everyone was adamant it was a hallucination brought on by my stomach upset but I swear I was fully awake and it was physical sensations that woke me. Even in later years the family stuck to their position that no-one had been in during the night.
So I was tucked in by a very benign ghost apparently..... and perhaps the pale hair was actually the mob cap of a sadly murdered maid.....