I've had too many to mention over the years
One was my grandad,he brought me up and we worshiped each other
At the end of his life,he was laid,in a nappy,wired up to pain relief,half the height he should have been and the dementia had taken his mind completely
I'm told he was laid there,using his hands to 'push' something or someone away-he kept shaking his head and muttering 'no,not yet'
I saw him and said goodbye-he died the following morning
I do hope it was my granny (who I never met) had come to get him,but he felt he couldn't as he hadn't seen me
A very dear friend of mine died of cancer
The day of her funeral,I was getting ready and my ex rang
I'm on the phone,chatting away and stood up to grab a drink out of the fridge
I shut the door-and their she was
She smiled at me and vanished
I was once standing in my kitchen,looking out of the window and daydreaming
Suddenly,a white Staffie with brown markings shot from one side of my garden,across it and vanished
I ran outside-no dog
About a week later,my ds rang to say he was getting a rescue dog-I begging him not to as it is a lot of responsibility
He ignored me and got the dog
About a month later,he came to see us, bringing the dog-and the dog was the one I'd seen run across my garden
Just last week,I was bursting for a wee
Our loo is at the top of our stairs,so I ran up them (best I could with my legs crossed)
Just as I got halfway up the stairs,I saw a pair of legs,with the trousers round the ankles,sat on my loo
I stopped and they vanished-we looked up the history of our house and it was built as a council house,an older man and his wife bought it,they died and left it to their granddaughter who sold it to us
Either he'd come back for a wee or I was that desperate I was imagining things!