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Do you call people out who push in queues etc?

312 replies

Heretheycomethebeautifulones · 25/06/2024 13:05

I can't stand it when people just push into long queues and usually say something. I know people will say 'just leave it', but this is how they keep getting away with it, by relying on nobody saying anything.

I know there are much worse things in life, but when you've been queueing a long time and you're tired and fed up, it's not nice.

This can apply to other things in life too.

I was queueing to board a plane last night after a long delay, a woman in her 20s decided she didn't fancy the long queue and just pushed in near the front. A woman must've seen me looking irritated so she tapped me on the shoulder and said 'Just leave her, she might not be all there'.

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Allfur · 25/06/2024 13:07

Yes, always

Heretheycomethebeautifulones · 25/06/2024 13:07

If it's airport security and they're about to miss their flight, I wouldn't mind them jumping at all if they asked, but boarding the plane is different.

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AGodawfulsmallaffair · 25/06/2024 13:08

I did once and had a rather embarrassing row in Poundland 😆 ( should have gone to Waitrose ).

Heretheycomethebeautifulones · 25/06/2024 13:08

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 25/06/2024 13:08

I did once and had a rather embarrassing row in Poundland 😆 ( should have gone to Waitrose ).

I'd love to hear more 🤣

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Beamur · 25/06/2024 13:09

I don't really care.

StrawberrySquash · 25/06/2024 13:11

Sometimes. Depends on the situation and if it's worth making a fuss.

I'd say most of the time people do it by accident though. I know I have. Plane woman sounds like she was just being a CF though.

crockofshite · 25/06/2024 13:11

Yes I called out a very haughty couple who shamelessly pushed in a long tourist entry queue, I'd been diligently waiting my turn for more than 30 mins. They pretended not to understand me, but I eventually shamed them to moving further back.

I'd do it again

Heretheycomethebeautifulones · 25/06/2024 13:12

I wish i cared less.
Some queues are not really queues, just a bunch of people scrambling together, but when there's a clear line it's different.

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midlifeattheoasis · 25/06/2024 13:14

I always do. It bloody infuriates me.

SilverBranchGoldenPears · 25/06/2024 13:14

Every. Damn. Time.

It’s bad behaviour and we should all call out bad behaviour.

PickupperPenguin · 25/06/2024 13:15

Yes, I told a man who pushed to the front of the queue in the post office that we were all queuing and he needed to wait like the rest of us. He shouted why did I think I was so special (the irony 😄) and stormed out.

I was only about 20-21 and wouldn’t have said boo to a goose normally, I’m not sure what came over me!

FaintlyMacabre · 25/06/2024 13:15

I did once but the woman was so mortified and apologetic (she hadn’t realised where the queue started) that I felt worse than if I hadn’t said anything!

Blandskog · 25/06/2024 13:17

I wouldn't say anything about people pushing into a plane queue. I'm always a bit baffled as to why people queue to get on a plane tbh.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 25/06/2024 13:18

Yes I do.

Not sure how to vote though because you didn’t say anything.

Is that the unreasonable bit, or just a general question?

Neodymium · 25/06/2024 13:23

I was waiting once at a food place, waiting in the correct place to order (as I get their food all the time). A man came over after me and stood at the opposite end where you collect orders from. I don’t know if he noticed me standing there or what but when the lady finally came out and served me first he made several loud passive aggressive comments about thinking I’m more important than others ect. I just ignored him but it was quite intimidating as he seemed to be seething with anger and I was scared he would follow me. I was 100% there before him, and he was waiting in the wrong space, but I can only think he must have thought he was in the correct place to order and that I wasn’t and that meant he should be served first. But even if I wasn’t I was still waiting there before him.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 25/06/2024 13:26

Yeah usually I do but I don't think I could be arsed waiting to get on a plane, I'd rather be standing and moving about before a flight so the shortest time sitting is better for me. The plane's not going to leave any quicker because she pushed in

summersofdoom · 25/06/2024 13:27

Depends

If it's an orderly queue, I might.

If it's because someone is faffing, delaying everyone else and 5 people would have had time to go through instead, I join the ones who push in and go around 😂

Heretheycomethebeautifulones · 25/06/2024 13:31

I mean when boarding a plane you kind of have to queue to scan your boarding pass/show your passport don't you?

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DoYouSmokePaul · 25/06/2024 13:32

It’s not difficult to point to the end of the queue and say “actually the queue starts there”.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 25/06/2024 13:33

Heretheycomethebeautifulones · 25/06/2024 13:08

I'd love to hear more 🤣

She was a bit of a bruiser and although I can stand my ground I regretted it instantly 😆

Enoughwiththisshit · 25/06/2024 13:34

FaintlyMacabre · 25/06/2024 13:15

I did once but the woman was so mortified and apologetic (she hadn’t realised where the queue started) that I felt worse than if I hadn’t said anything!

I've been that mortified woman. If it makes you feel better, I was grateful that someone said something rather than having a queue of people silently hating me!

greenpolarbear · 25/06/2024 13:35

PickupperPenguin · 25/06/2024 13:15

Yes, I told a man who pushed to the front of the queue in the post office that we were all queuing and he needed to wait like the rest of us. He shouted why did I think I was so special (the irony 😄) and stormed out.

I was only about 20-21 and wouldn’t have said boo to a goose normally, I’m not sure what came over me!

Ha I had a similar experience except he said, "There's always one" and I said, "Yes and it's you."

Hypertension190over90 · 25/06/2024 13:35

I had an old lady just boldly step in front of me in a queue knowing full well I’d not say anything as she was on a zimmer frame.

then her son joined in the queue behind her. I don’t think he had any idea his mother was just barging around in to people but then I suppose he must be a wanker to let his barely walking mother hole a space in the queue for him the first place

ilovepixie · 25/06/2024 13:36

I work in a shop and people queue jump all the time. Then if you say anything to them they complain your being rude!

Blouson · 25/06/2024 13:37

MYOB, you never know if theres a reason for it.