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Waitrose incident.

698 replies

SensitiveSallySue · 23/06/2024 13:56

I am not sure if I am being sensitive or if I should complain.

Every Sunday morning I go out for a coffee and read my book, then do the weekly shop without the children. I like to be back before midday so I can spend the rest of the time with my children, including 9 month old baby. We have every supermarket local to us, Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, M&S, Asda, Tesco, and I always use the ‘scan and shop’ to make the shopping as quick and easy as possible. I’ve never had an issue until today in Waitrose. I’ve only used it a couple of times in Waitrose and never for a big shop.

After scanning my entire shop, strategically packing it so it’s easy to unload at home, I went to pay. When I beeped the scanner, it flagged up as needing to be checked. I thought that was fair enough, it happens sometimes, and I haven’t done a weekly shop in Waitrose before using the ‘scan and shop’ option. The worker came over and said she needed to rescan 30/58 items. I thought that was ridiculous, in every other shop they scan a random selection of a few items, not over half your shop. It seemed pointless to me to have even used the option in the first place, but I didn’t say anything and the worker started to empty shopping bags full to rescan items. This was taking ages, but I just stood patiently waiting for her to finish.

Then, she came across one that I apparently hadn’t scanned. I know I did, but it was a yellow sticker packet so I can only assume that it hadn’t registered properly. She repeatedly asked me if I had scanned it, and I repeatedly told her I had but it clearly hadn’t registered.

She told me she would need to rescan my entire shopping trolley, then took me over to a till, and I stood on the end whilst she unpacked every single one of my bags and scanned every item individually. It was completely unsubtle, in front of all of the other customers, and obvious that they were rescanning the entire shop in case I was attempting to steal things. I felt like an idiot and a thief. To make matters worse, I am a small business owner working with children, and had already bumped into several of my clients in the shop. I was absolutely mortified thinking that they may think I am a thief.

I was thoroughly embarrassed and teary eyed, and hastily shoved everything back into bags whilst the Waitrose worker apologised. Half of my shopping is crushed as I was shoving things back into the bags indiscriminately. I promptly paid and left but it has really upset me. By that point, I’d spent around 20 minutes having everything rescanned.

AIBU to think that if Waitrose are going to have a system that is open to abuse, they need to have a solution that doesn’t involve treating customers like thieves? I have never had an experience like this in any other store and whilst I realise they have to protect themselves from theft, surely this is not the correct way to go about. It’s not the Waitrose workers fault, it just seems like a very poor system and they shouldn’t offer ‘scan and shop’ if this is the way they treat customers.

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CarbsAreNotMyFriend · 23/06/2024 14:54

This happened to me too, in Asda, I was mortified! They had to rescan everything then confirmed it was just the loaf of bread I had missed. I don't often use the scanner so accidentally just flung it in my basket. Genuine accident but I wish there was a way to weigh it before you pay so you can check if you've missed anything. It's put me off using it too OP, so I feel your pain!

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/06/2024 14:55

I just feel like this is another example of the enshittification of customer service in general. Customers have to do more work and put up with intrusive and embarrassing accusations every now and again. Shops get to have a smaller payroll and make more profit. Weird hearing people defending this. It’s like a lot of the British public has collective Stockhold syndrome.

Ariela · 23/06/2024 14:55

If you don't like the fact you can get randomly rescanned, and you may possibly have scanned a yellow ticketed item incorrectly (I once failed to scan a jar of Basil) then, like me with my basil, you can expect a full rescan. Or shop elsewhere. It's how it works.

BallaiLuimni · 23/06/2024 14:56

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/06/2024 14:55

I just feel like this is another example of the enshittification of customer service in general. Customers have to do more work and put up with intrusive and embarrassing accusations every now and again. Shops get to have a smaller payroll and make more profit. Weird hearing people defending this. It’s like a lot of the British public has collective Stockhold syndrome.

I agree. It's not too much to expect to go into a shop and have decent service, but people just seem to accept any sort of shit. I do wonder if it's part of the reason so many people are stressed and anxious - day to day life involves dealing with so much crap that eventually you just feel overwhelmed.

Growlybear83 · 23/06/2024 14:57

I think you over reacted hugely. I've had to have a complete rescan several times in Waitrose, and they don't really have any other option but to scan it in view of other people.

You see people having rescans all the time and I doubt if anyone thinks that the person is suspected of being a shoplifter. I had to have 30 items rescanned on Thursday, and whilst it's irritating, it's something you have to put up with when you use the self scanners. The woman who did the scanning told me that it's completely random, but that they had had to rescan almost 50% of large shops that day. I've always found that the staff in Waitrose are very polite, and repack things properly. Unfortunately if the staff find that an item in your bag hasn't been scanned, that will of course trigger a full rescan. If you had made sure that everything in your bags had scanned, you wouldn't have had to have the entire shop rescanned.

Tinkerbot · 23/06/2024 14:57

OMG I can’t believe people think this crap and inefficient system is the way for supermarkets to treat their customers.

Whilst messing about with OP about a bargain item that the scanning system probably fucked up other customers walk through the exit stealing bags of groceries.

Just crap treatment imv

tuvamoodyson · 23/06/2024 14:57

You were a suspected thief.

northernerinthesouth2000 · 23/06/2024 14:58

This is why I don't use these person free systems if at all possible. They are suppose to save you time, but in my opinion all they do is save the supermarkets money. I hate them. Hope you are feeling better.

Cattery · 23/06/2024 14:58

duc748 · 23/06/2024 14:54

Amen. I am not interested in scanning my own shopping, I do not wish to be gaslighted that it's quicker (it isn't), and wherever possible, I avoid supermarkets that use it or prefer it.

Quite. Also it’s supermarkets doing people out of jobs. I don’t work there so I’m not scanning my own shopping.

RosesAndHellebores · 23/06/2024 14:58

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/06/2024 14:55

I just feel like this is another example of the enshittification of customer service in general. Customers have to do more work and put up with intrusive and embarrassing accusations every now and again. Shops get to have a smaller payroll and make more profit. Weird hearing people defending this. It’s like a lot of the British public has collective Stockhold syndrome.

I am going to remember and reuse the phrase "enshittification of customer service".

Brilliant! Makes note to channel my inner Margot Leadbetter!

askmenow · 23/06/2024 14:59

RosesAndHellebores · 23/06/2024 14:50

Oh I understand OP. It's the way they do it.

I had a similar thing in Sainsbury. Chap said they needed to randomly check 6 items. Which he did and when he scanned a bottle of tonic looked up really slyly and said "well, this hasn't been scanned so you'll have to have everything put through the till".

I was then frog marched to a till and a manager was called as an escort. The bill after scanning was £89.10p. The bill at the till was £89.10p. I asked for a print out from the scanner as I clearly had not failed to scan an 89p bottle of tonic. I was told "that's not possible because the scanner clearance automatically".

When I asked why I had been pretty much accused of theft, the manager rolled her eyes and told me there was no point getting her up.

The attitude was shocking. A quick check of my nectar card would have indicated that I usually spent £800+ pcm.

The tonic clearly was scanned and the assistant's accusatory attitude was a) bang out of order b) wasted 20 minutes of my time and c) was insolent and unwarranted.

I eventually, after much correspondence, received an apology from the store manager. I have never shopped at Sainsbury again and never shall. They have permanently lost my business and that amounts to approximately £10,000 per annum. I had shopped with Sainsbury for 40 years and clearly my custom was not valued. Notwithstanding the fact that if I was going to steal something, what twitter would take the risk for 89p.

If supermarkets want the public to self scan and offer incentives to do so they need to treat people with a little more dignity.

I no longer self scan, I'd rather queue at the till. Waitrose are buggers for not having tills open but I always insist they open one.

Like the op, the incident really upset me.

Good on you 👏for insisting they open a till!
If more of us did this and demanded a decent customer service then Supermarkets would have to up their game.

gotthearse · 23/06/2024 15:00

You are being a bit of a dick about this, and crying about it is an overreaction and makes you sound high maintenance.

You keep coming back on here with "yes, but..."

I'm sorry you are not getting the validation you hoped for and I'm sorry you feel shit, but really? Give your head a wobble and get on with your day.

BallaiLuimni · 23/06/2024 15:01

gotthearse · 23/06/2024 15:00

You are being a bit of a dick about this, and crying about it is an overreaction and makes you sound high maintenance.

You keep coming back on here with "yes, but..."

I'm sorry you are not getting the validation you hoped for and I'm sorry you feel shit, but really? Give your head a wobble and get on with your day.

Wow what a nasty response.

bridgetreilly · 23/06/2024 15:01

You really need to get over this, OP. It’s such a non-incident. No one thinks you’re a thief, they think the scanning has messed up. Really nothing to be so upset and dramatic about.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/06/2024 15:01

RosesAndHellebores · 23/06/2024 14:58

I am going to remember and reuse the phrase "enshittification of customer service".

Brilliant! Makes note to channel my inner Margot Leadbetter!

Enshittification is quite the word, isn’t it?

It originally applied only to tech platforms, but I’m increasingly seeing it applied to a lot of other things - especially the kinds of things where technology was supposed to improve things and has ended up having the opposite effect. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enshittification

Enshittification - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enshittification

TheBerry · 23/06/2024 15:02

I think you are being a bit over sensitive.

It’s a slightly annoying inconvenience, but nothing to get upset over.

I’m sure nobody thought badly of you for having your shopping re-scanned.

askmenow · 23/06/2024 15:02

gotthearse · 23/06/2024 15:00

You are being a bit of a dick about this, and crying about it is an overreaction and makes you sound high maintenance.

You keep coming back on here with "yes, but..."

I'm sorry you are not getting the validation you hoped for and I'm sorry you feel shit, but really? Give your head a wobble and get on with your day.

Clearly a Supermarket shareholder...😂 Provide the service we customers pay for!!

maudelovesharold · 23/06/2024 15:03

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/06/2024 15:01

Enshittification is quite the word, isn’t it?

It originally applied only to tech platforms, but I’m increasingly seeing it applied to a lot of other things - especially the kinds of things where technology was supposed to improve things and has ended up having the opposite effect. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enshittification

I thought you’d made it up - didn’t realise it had its own Wikipedia entry!

TeaPleaseX · 23/06/2024 15:04

Jesus Christ. It happens it's done at random. Try doing your Christmas shopping for £450 and having the whole shop re scanned then having to pack it all again back in to 2 trolleys.

It's hardly something to get upset about! No one died 😂.

Growlybear83 · 23/06/2024 15:05

SensitiveSallySue · 23/06/2024 14:34

Surely a better solution is to ask the customer to queue at the traditional till for a rescan rather than taking you to the side and unpacking everything manually, one by one, not even allowing the customer to touch the shopping? On the off chance they are actually a loyal customer and not a thief!

I would be far more irritated if I had to join a checkout queue and wait even longer to pay for my shopping! I have no objection to the Waitrose staff unpacking my bags and understand why they have to do that. I've never had an issue with any of them not repacking my shopping again afterwards and I really don't understand why you were shoving your groceries into your bags and damaging things after the scan had been completed. They take you to a clear space where no-one else is being held up so you could have taken as long as you wanted to repack everything if the cashier didn't do it .

northernerinthesouth2000 · 23/06/2024 15:05

BallaiLuimni · 23/06/2024 15:01

Wow what a nasty response.

Agree she sounds more of a dick to me!

LouLou198 · 23/06/2024 15:06

This is the reason I no longer use scan and go, you have my sympathies!
I was picked at random to have a few items scanned. Turned out I hadn't scanned a £1 box of crackers. Same thing happened to me, whole shop unpacked and rescanned. Had 2 young dc with me, it made me run late for their swimming lessons and I was going thorough something really difficult at the time. I actually cried when I got back in the car - it was the last straw!

Roundroundthegarden · 23/06/2024 15:06

If they took you around the back, that would have looked even worse. Then for sure you would have looked like you were stealing.

alittlehopeisadangerousthing · 23/06/2024 15:06

OP ignore the insensitive posters. I understand how you felt. I'd have been exactly the same. Really shitty of them.

BrokenCamberEdge · 23/06/2024 15:06

This happened to me in Asda last week. A random check found 1 item not scanned - entirely possible as my 3 yr old was scanning even though I was checking each time. Cue a full rescan. The full rescan found zero items missing and ended up costing me less than my scan was showing!

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