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Waitrose incident.

698 replies

SensitiveSallySue · 23/06/2024 13:56

I am not sure if I am being sensitive or if I should complain.

Every Sunday morning I go out for a coffee and read my book, then do the weekly shop without the children. I like to be back before midday so I can spend the rest of the time with my children, including 9 month old baby. We have every supermarket local to us, Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, M&S, Asda, Tesco, and I always use the ‘scan and shop’ to make the shopping as quick and easy as possible. I’ve never had an issue until today in Waitrose. I’ve only used it a couple of times in Waitrose and never for a big shop.

After scanning my entire shop, strategically packing it so it’s easy to unload at home, I went to pay. When I beeped the scanner, it flagged up as needing to be checked. I thought that was fair enough, it happens sometimes, and I haven’t done a weekly shop in Waitrose before using the ‘scan and shop’ option. The worker came over and said she needed to rescan 30/58 items. I thought that was ridiculous, in every other shop they scan a random selection of a few items, not over half your shop. It seemed pointless to me to have even used the option in the first place, but I didn’t say anything and the worker started to empty shopping bags full to rescan items. This was taking ages, but I just stood patiently waiting for her to finish.

Then, she came across one that I apparently hadn’t scanned. I know I did, but it was a yellow sticker packet so I can only assume that it hadn’t registered properly. She repeatedly asked me if I had scanned it, and I repeatedly told her I had but it clearly hadn’t registered.

She told me she would need to rescan my entire shopping trolley, then took me over to a till, and I stood on the end whilst she unpacked every single one of my bags and scanned every item individually. It was completely unsubtle, in front of all of the other customers, and obvious that they were rescanning the entire shop in case I was attempting to steal things. I felt like an idiot and a thief. To make matters worse, I am a small business owner working with children, and had already bumped into several of my clients in the shop. I was absolutely mortified thinking that they may think I am a thief.

I was thoroughly embarrassed and teary eyed, and hastily shoved everything back into bags whilst the Waitrose worker apologised. Half of my shopping is crushed as I was shoving things back into the bags indiscriminately. I promptly paid and left but it has really upset me. By that point, I’d spent around 20 minutes having everything rescanned.

AIBU to think that if Waitrose are going to have a system that is open to abuse, they need to have a solution that doesn’t involve treating customers like thieves? I have never had an experience like this in any other store and whilst I realise they have to protect themselves from theft, surely this is not the correct way to go about. It’s not the Waitrose workers fault, it just seems like a very poor system and they shouldn’t offer ‘scan and shop’ if this is the way they treat customers.

OP posts:
BobbyBiscuits · 23/06/2024 15:53

It took twenty minutes for them to rescan it all? I don't see why it should take that long. But noone thought you were stealing. And why you chose to crush your shopping in a fit of pique seems a bit childish. But complain to head office if you feel the need. I can't see how they did anything wrong though. You said the staff member apologised. I'm sure she didn't adore having to rescan it but these things happen.

ginasevern · 23/06/2024 15:53

This is why I would never use the scan thingy for a large'ish shop. I've seen the humiliating and protracted process of checking bags happen to other customers.

It is an upsetting experience and so obviously visible to all and sundry.

ChrisPPancake · 23/06/2024 15:54

ChedderGorgeous · 23/06/2024 15:46

Pull that stunt 83 000 times and you are close to £100k of stolen produce. Next things next, you are on the ferry boat to Northen Ireland to then enter the EU by the back door. Johnny foreigner wants his reduced bisto on tap and you have granules of brown gold to turn his tap on. Three years later you are sipping gravy on a superyaught on the med toasting the falty scanner at Sainsbury’s, Morecombe.

Grin
Topseyt123 · 23/06/2024 15:55

SensitiveSallySue · 23/06/2024 14:31

@Dominoeffecter I won’t be going back to Waitrose so there’s no issues there. 😂

You won't avoid it all that way.

All the major supermarkets offering scan and pack or other self service systems do random rescan as a safety measure. Why wouldn't they?

Misthios · 23/06/2024 15:55

I don't use the manned tills because I usually do my shopping on a weekday morning when it's quiet and there is only ever one open, and there's still usually a queue. 19 times out of 20 the self-scan works perfectly.

Forhecksake · 23/06/2024 15:56

Tinkerbot · 23/06/2024 14:57

OMG I can’t believe people think this crap and inefficient system is the way for supermarkets to treat their customers.

Whilst messing about with OP about a bargain item that the scanning system probably fucked up other customers walk through the exit stealing bags of groceries.

Just crap treatment imv

This is true. The store saved the cost of a yellow sticker item, but lost OP's custom.

Maybe they catch people trying to smuggle through lots of expensive goods? I've never seen that, though. I have seen parents with toddlers and rucksacks fill them up in cctv blind spots

BallaiLuimni · 23/06/2024 15:57

Misthios · 23/06/2024 15:55

I don't use the manned tills because I usually do my shopping on a weekday morning when it's quiet and there is only ever one open, and there's still usually a queue. 19 times out of 20 the self-scan works perfectly.

What's the failure rate on the staffed tills. Is it as high as 1 in 20?

Nextdoor55 · 23/06/2024 15:58

My advice to you, would be go to Aldi because they wouldn't have made such a fuss. Clearly Waitrose staff are anal and don't have enough to do

JudgeJ · 23/06/2024 15:58

Misthios · 23/06/2024 15:38

A certain percentage are checked randomly. I had a real issue in Asda the other day whereby the handset was on a go slow and i'd scan something, nothing would happen, so i'd do it again and then the handset would put two through. So I was constantly removing items from the basket, I just knew that it'd select me for a check when I got to the till, which it did.

No big deal. Certainly nothing to get teary over.

The other day in Morrisons the self serve machine didn't like my strawberries, took it out of the bag and rescanned it a few times until it was happy. Got home and noticed it had charged me twice for them.
Another time I was chased in Asda as I left because apparently my card purchase on the self serve tills hadn't gone through properly, as the assistant said Bloody machines!

boredm · 23/06/2024 16:00

I was accused of theft in a clothes shop. They wanted to look through my bags and I just said no and left, and I won't be spending money there again

ExpressCheckout · 23/06/2024 16:00

Pointless being teary-eyed in Waitrose, it's geared for sharp-elbowed, well-heeled middle class customers and as such they are insensitive to feelings.

Tears and/or other expressions of shame might work at Asda or Tesco, and possibly (depending on the store) Sainsbury’s or M&S. Flowers

Berlinlover · 23/06/2024 16:00

Great username OP.

shearwater2 · 23/06/2024 16:01

Rescans are routine. I used to get one about once every six months, but used to dread it as it is so ridiculously inconvenient. A week's shop for five of us is enormous. Now we just have the shopping delivered and our Saturday mornings are far more pleasant.

If I were you OP, I'd get the shopping delivered and still go and sit in a cafe with a book while your DH and kids put it away.

armyofants · 23/06/2024 16:03

a system that is open to abuse

Abuse? You sound insane.

BallaiLuimni · 23/06/2024 16:04

One thing that's overlooked is how shit the whole situation is for staff. Rather than just pleasantly scanning through people's shopping, their job is to stop people, inconvenience them, check through their shopping and potentially have to deal with an unpleasant situation. It turns them from people who are there to help to people who are policing a shit system. I'd hate to be in their shoes.

mindutopia · 23/06/2024 16:05

This is a perfectly normal thing. It’s happened to me several times over the years when the kids have shoved something in the bags that didn’t get scanned. They do it to everyone, it’s not personal. I think you’re getting unnecessarily worked up about your own mistake.

Barney16 · 23/06/2024 16:05

If I saw someone having their shopping unpacked and put through a till I would assume they hadn't had a discount code applied through the self serve checkout. I have been behind people twice who have been very cross that their discounts haven't been applied and it's needed a checkout with a cashier to sort it out. So do not despair 😊

northernerinthesouth2000 · 23/06/2024 16:06

Berlinlover · 23/06/2024 16:00

Great username OP.

I've only just noticed the username...and now I am wondering if this is a big wind up?

WickedSerious · 23/06/2024 16:06

Cattery · 23/06/2024 14:07

I knew there was a reason I don’t use the scanning bollocks

I don't use the pretend you work here checkouts either.

Morechocmorechoc · 23/06/2024 16:08

We had this I was infuriated. Waitrose staff members gave a chocolate each to the kids that they put in the trolley which wasn't scanned obviously as they were given it. Then happened again the next time and the worker said because it flagged last time our next 3 shops would be checked. I will never use their stupid self scan ever again. 2 young screaming kids with a large shopping trolley full having to be done twice. Absurd.

BobnLen · 23/06/2024 16:08

Maybe stick to the normal checkout next time

ToxicChristmas · 23/06/2024 16:09

Honestly, don't worry about it at all. I got marched back to the self scan in Sainsbury's once as the security guard thought I'd stolen a pack of bird seed and a coke (the only things I'd got). I just hadn't printed the receipt. He asked me to show him which machine I'd gone through (in front of a shop full of people) and I did and also showed him my phone which had pinged up with the online payment. All fine. I wasn't remotely embarrassed as I'm not a thief. He was doing his job, I showed him proof and left. I've been back since many times. Nobody gives a shit OP. Everyone is busy living their own lives with their own worries. I wouldn't even register someone having their shopping rescanned.

PrimoPiatti · 23/06/2024 16:10

Waitress and John Lewis are not what they used to be. Recent piece in the retail press here: https://www.retailgazette.co.uk/blog/2024/06/john-lewis-waitrose-shoplifting/
On a personal level JL recently messed up the delivery of a new bed, their responses have been appalling, and the CEO has not acknowledged one email. I have sent a few. We used to spend a lot with the partnership, no more.

John Lewis and Waitrose blame 'greed not need' on surging shoplifting

John Lewis and Waitrose: 'Greed not need' is driving shoplifting surge - Retail Gazette

John Lewis and Watrose have said “greed not need” is driving record levels of shoplifting

https://www.retailgazette.co.uk/blog/2024/06/john-lewis-waitrose-shoplifting

NasiDagang · 23/06/2024 16:11

BallaiLuimni · 23/06/2024 15:46

I'd expect them to manage the situation by having a service that isn't utterly shit.

You have nailed it, people are just putting up with shitty customer service from supermarkets.