I'm sure that most women were utterly preoccupied trying to make ends meet, keep themselves and their children housed, fed, healthy and safe during the period of the womens's suffrage movement. No widespread entitlement to any existence level benefits in those days.
Thank goodness therefore, for the suffragists that did have the energy, or perhaps just the luxury of education, time and resources, to be able to put their heads above the parapet, and repeatedly did so on behalf of others of their sex.
IMHO it's insulting to infer that women should be too busy thinking of bigger day to day issues/struggles to consider the erosion of their needs based rights. I'm sure many women had their thoughts thus directed by the males in their lives during the time of women's suffrage too.
You do realise that men prioritising themselves and their own requirements is one reason why many women with children struggle to make ends meet, especially following the breakdown of a relationship ? Transwomen's rights are rights given to men be treated as women, biological women's needs being eroded to give 0.1% of men what they want. Do you not see any correlation here ?
Transwomen, as you say, are 0.1% of the population, so why is it important to potentially reduce the safety and freedom of 51% of the population in order to win the trans vote ? Could it be because men are more vociferous and forceful at getting what they want in life regardless of the cost to others (others generally being weaker men or women and children) ?