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Discrepancy in attitude towards school fees and nursery fees

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Happysallie · 20/06/2024 21:33

I find it very curious in the various debates around school fees that:

  1. School fees at an avg of £1,250-1,500 pcm is the preserve of the rich due to the sums involved; but

  2. Nursery fees at an avg. of £1,250-1,500 pcm is… just an ordinary expense that parents should plan for

Every parent of a child under four is effectively paying the equivalent to a private education, probably at a far earlier stage in their careers / earning power.

No observation on private education right or wrong, just bizarre to see people spending £1,500 a month on private school as impossibly wealthy while most parents I know are scraping by, begging and borrowing, fund £2-3k a month in nursery fees.

This more an observation at the acceptance of insane nursery fees, than the cost of private education!

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MyNameIsFine · 02/08/2024 08:16

Happysallie · 20/06/2024 21:55

@Octavia64 nursery fees are completely unmanageable for most.

IMO we should be having less debate about whether or not you are rich to afford private schools, and more debates about the fact that everyone with a child under 4 is having to fund childcare for a similar (and often higher) price privately.

Because British people prefer to waste their time winging about people who have more than them rather than demanding better pay and conditions and better services?

EverythingAllatOnceAllTheTime · 02/08/2024 08:22

Happysallie · 20/06/2024 21:33

I find it very curious in the various debates around school fees that:

  1. School fees at an avg of £1,250-1,500 pcm is the preserve of the rich due to the sums involved; but

  2. Nursery fees at an avg. of £1,250-1,500 pcm is… just an ordinary expense that parents should plan for

Every parent of a child under four is effectively paying the equivalent to a private education, probably at a far earlier stage in their careers / earning power.

No observation on private education right or wrong, just bizarre to see people spending £1,500 a month on private school as impossibly wealthy while most parents I know are scraping by, begging and borrowing, fund £2-3k a month in nursery fees.

This more an observation at the acceptance of insane nursery fees, than the cost of private education!

There really should be VAT imposed on nursery fees.

Lets hope Labour get round to it shortly.

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