what are you talking about? Of course side effects and deaths from the vaccine are included in the data. Sadly there is a tiny risk, but it is a risk that is well worth it from my point of view.
You are many times more likely to die of covid, or be left disabled by covid, if you are unvaccinated.
I don't know where you are getting your statistics from, but any reliable data, including WHO data, and ONS, and OWID and other transparent peer reviewed, open, reliable sources about any vaccine ever will include information about side effects and deaths.
You are many times more likely to die of covid if you are unvaccinated. That is a simple fact, easily available to anybody who can count.
There are some clues in your post that you are statistically illiterate - sorry I hope that isn't too blunt.
For example, you say
what about all the people that have dropped dead from taking the vaccine that’s not in their data is it,
yes, as I have just explained, of course it is, it couldn't not be. No complete, peer reviewed, reliable data source would not include this - what is more worrying to me, is what data source you are relying on, as it is clearly either put together in total ignorance, or outright deceptive, if it is telling you that national/international/WHO/ONS/OWID etc sources are leaving out these deaths.
Why don't you check for yourself? You could see how unreliable your source of information is very quickly and easily - you can see that your source is lying about this.
You say That’s my opinion as if you genuinely think this a subjective matter that you can form an opinion on and that your opinion carries any weight. These are scientific facts, "opinion" is a totally invalid concept here. That is like going into a malaria area and saying "no, I won't use a mosquito net, because in my opinion mosquitoes don't carry malaria, and me and my kids are not using a net and don't have malaria so that makes sense"
You say me and my kids are unvaccinated from Covid and never been sick so make it make sense without any understanding that you are being protected by the fact that so many people around you have been vaccinated. Less covid is circulating, and what is around is milder, because of the vaccine you and your healthy children are safe ( for the moment) but obviously, being unvaccinated does leave them and you more vulnerable if you do catch it, and it is still around, and you might not always be as healthy and have such strong immune systems as you do now. As I said upthread, I used to have a cast iron immune system before cancer!
You and your children will all get covid at some time in your life, probably more than once ( unless the first time sadly finishes you off) and I really hope that by the time that happens, you have come to your senses and been vaccinated.