To think this is disgusting

[Bearface28]

Was in bed last night, DH visibly scratched his bum then put his hand under my nose. Immediately lost my shit and left the room. He thought he was being funny but I can't even look at him.

Aibu to think there's no coming back from this?

I'm finding it hard to believe that he's never done anything remotely similar. That doesn't stack up unless he was drunk maybe.

Sorry but this really made me laugh.

Yes, it's gross but he was clearly just mucking around. Just tell him he's a pig and not to do it again.

I’d also be furious, and it would give me the ick, but to be fair, this made me laugh.

The romance is dead

I'm wondering if it was the underside of his ball sack. As the owner of one, they can also get a bit pungent after a long day.

If the underside of your nackers smell like your arsehole, you need the doctor.

And I thought my OH was gross! Farts in the bedroom and the other day was taking a poo in the cloakroom loo with the door open. When I went downstairs to get something he said ‘you might want to close that’ 🤮 what a stench, gave him a lecture about mutual respect etc generally had a go at him… (of course this was unjustified 🙄) but over next few days he was being much more courteous.

NEVER has he ever done what OP described her parter has done I would not tolerate it. If it’s a new action, and considering the comment about being aroused if you did it to him, I have to agree he might be dabbling in porn relating to this erhm ‘area’. Or he’s just lost all respect for you. Whatever inspiration behind it, it’s not coming from a good place is it.

I hope he did wash his hands thoroughly after his ‘joke’ - that would be a non negotiable for me. I’d be furious and repulsed on a new level. Also I’d have the ick, he’d have a lot of making up to do!

And he’ll probably have the audacity to be fucked off when you refuse to ever have sex with him ever again.

So fucking disgusting.

He was testing you to find out if you share his new (and delightful!) poo fetish🤢. Grim.

That would give me the permanent ick. I'd think of it every time I looked at him forevermore and I'm being deadly serious I genuinely would.

Also, please tell me he washed his hand after doing this 🤢🤢🤢

I have been decorating today and the paint fumes made me feel sick. Reading this has now practically made me vomit.
What a disgusting pig of a man. I would never, ever have any respect for him after that. Absolute deal breaker. Ugh.

So...the ordinary, civilised, polite, great guy you've lived with for years, all of a sudden decided to do this bizarre and disgusting thing, having no form whatsoever for this sort of 'humour'? I find that odd in the extreme. If my DP acted so far out of character I'd be very concerned and wonder if it was passive aggression. Because imo you either think that sort of thing is funny, or you don't and never ever would. You don't usually move from one view to the other once you've passed childhood.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Absolutely disgusting and yet highly amusing at the same time!

Why is getting bacteria from your arsehole on your hands, before putting it in the face of your partner “highly amusing”?

And men run the world. What. The. Fuck.

@Bearface28

yuck. I'd have marched him into the bathroom to 'supervise' him washing his hands properly!!
then told him never to get into bed with me again until he'd had a shower & washed his arse, then hands, thoroughly, and if he ever did anything so vile again, the next thing he'd hear from me would be a letter from the solicitor.

and to keep his hands to himself as I don't want them anywhere near me.

id have struggled not to laugh at 'aroused' though.

You must be married to my ex boyfriend because I refuse to believe there's more than one buffoon that thinks this is a good idea.

How do 23% of people think this is ok?! It’s absolutely grim, his finger smelt of his ass hole… not just scratching his bum!

Has he farted and caught it in his hand and flung it on your face yet? If not, I imagine that's a little gem you can look forward to receiving in due course..🤮

Is he 14 years old as he's acting like it...

I may not own a ballsack but I'd say I've gotten more up close and personal with one than the average heterosexual male has - the two smells are very different. I'd know the difference and I assume the OP can tell as well.

Good effort though, balls would be marginally less heinous than arsehole I suppose.

Haha, I'm bi, so have been fairly up close myself, and will happily agree that its two very different smells.

I'm just struggling to imagine a world in which any man is going to think "I know what'll get my partners motor running! Poo smell!" so wondered if maybe she recoiled quickly enough to not get a good whiff.

So he doesn't even wipe his arse?
Dirty fucker. 🤢

Sorry but I find that sort of thing funny. My husband has done it to me more than once, and I must confess I've done the same 😆😆

It is pretty gross and absolutely heinous that he randomly subjected you to it when there is no history of this kind of behaviour between you too but nothing to lose a relationship over.

I think some of the comments about him not wiping his ass etc are a bit over the top. It can get a little wet and sweaty down there so I assume it that the scent of that as opposed to wagging a shit covered finger under your nose.

What exactly does he expect to gain from doing that? How will it make him ever look good?

Sorry but I am with the other posters who are finding this hilarious 🤣

It is absolutely vile and grim as, but I am led here chuckling away. Especially funny was the part where he says your bum odour fingers would get him 'aroused' 😂