Been on a few dates with a guy. Due to travels we've been chatting a long time but only been on a handful of dates. I haven't slept with him yet because I didn't feel ready. We get on great. No issues until....
On Friday night, I was in a bar with work colleagues when a random drunk man came and sat down next to me and put his hand on my knee and then, before I could move away, attempted to put it up my skirt.
I obviously moved away and spoke to the staff and he was thrown out the bar. No harm done but not the nicest experience.
I told the guy I've been dating about this and his response was "well you did look hot in that dress" (he'd seen a photo from that night) "...but I can't have some random drunk guy getting further with you than I have".
I'm not a sensitive person AT ALL and I honestly thought this was a vile response.
AIBU to think this is gross and a huge red flag?