Relationship 3 years , would have staked my life in DP being honest but found out yesterday the texts between him and another woman have gone from flirty to arranging a meet up secretly with intent . Would you consider this cheating ? At the very least it is lying and has come completely out of the blue ....we agreed we were the happiest we have ever been just now ( first relationship for both of us after divorce and has just moved in together )The texts were found out and not volunteered , and the meet up irl did not happen.
AIBU to end it ?
No not U - it's a betrayal of trust and it's too hard to regain that if at all therefore we are doomed.
Yes being U - it's a mistake and nothing happened regardless of intent. Don't throw 3 years of good away and the chance of a good future over something that was a moment of madness on his part.
Help me make a decision please ? Xxx