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To think pronatalists are on to something?

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Carebearsonmybed · 25/05/2024 09:28

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/may/25/american-pronatalists-malcolm-and-simone-collins?CMP=ShareiOSAppp_Other

I don't agree with everything this couple say or do but I do think we are approaching a demographic timebomb when the global human population starts to drop in 50 years time.

Most women probably expect to have more DCs at 20 than they end up having by 45. What can we do to get the UK birth rate to replacement rate of c 2.5 so we don't have a crisis of elderly people without enough workers to pay for or provide care and subsidence?

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KimberleyClark · 25/05/2024 13:57

fitzwilliamdarcy · 25/05/2024 12:59

I’m not crazy about pro-natalist policies as an infertile woman. My workplace is extremely family friendly, which essentially means that anyone without kids gets absolutely shafted.

The thread about improving wrap-around care has posters suggesting that childless people should be the ones working the split shifts running the sessions, making peanuts, as the parents are all too busy with their corporate jobs.

I don’t disagree that if politicians want more babies then they have to fix the obstacles to that, but I strongly suspect that women who can’t or won’t breed wouldn’t fare well in a society where those changes were made. Not everyone can have flexibility, it always comes at someone’s expense.

Absolutely this.

Crunchymum · 25/05/2024 13:59

Why do pronatalists give their kids weird fucking names?

therealcookiemonster · 25/05/2024 14:11

just finished reading the full article and someone really needs to take those poor kids off them. utterly horrific people

pikkumyy77 · 25/05/2024 14:16

Arlott · 25/05/2024 10:17

Immigration isn’t the answer, because time and again studies show that immigrants quickly match the native birth rate. Ie immigrants from cohntries like Nigeria to the uk quickly start to have 1 or 2 children. Then, you end up rapidly with the need to bring in even MORE people, who then have fewer children, and bring in even MORE. What then? If we are currently running at 700k immigrants a year, what would we end up with? 2 million a year? Not remotely feasible

But what is the problem with immigrants? They replace the non working population so evidently there is room.

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:33

HellonHeels · 25/05/2024 09:54

Agree

And then what? Another unpopulated planet amongst billions of others?

Hadalifeonce · 25/05/2024 14:35

DD (21). And lots of her friends are seriously questioning whether they will actually want children in the future.

HellonHeels · 25/05/2024 14:37

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:33

And then what? Another unpopulated planet amongst billions of others?

Er, yes? Well, the planet will be unpopulated by humans - we'll be extinct, just like many thousands of other species.

There'll still be animals, plants, insects etc.

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:41

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 25/05/2024 10:59

What on earth makes you think it’d be desolate? If we were all wiped out tomorrow by some epidemic, plants would take over. You’ve only got to look at how weeds manage to break through concrete in a short time. A large petrol station forecourt near us was left untouched for some time before redevelopment - within a couple of years you could hardly see the concrete for a forest of flourishing green plant life.

Why is humanity less important?

KimberleyClark · 25/05/2024 14:42

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:41

Why is humanity less important?

Why is it more important?

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:47

DramaLlamaBangBang · 25/05/2024 12:13

Yes I agree we may need a softer landing, but people are still having children. The huge baby boom of elderly people born in the 1940's and 50's won't be alive by the time today's babies are taxpayers. We need to look at short term solutions to help them, and look at how AI and technology is going to change the way we live and work. We don't need as many babies to look after the elderly born in the 70's and on, because the global birthrate since then has been more or less stable since then, and we may end up eith the problem of too many young prople eith no jobs due to advances in robotics and AI. Population growth has been almost exclusively caused by people living longer, not birthrates.lower birthrates means fewer prople throughout their lives, even if they live to 100.

Well if we get caught up in and of the current wars there will be a population boom to replace those lost, just as in WWII

DramaLlamaBangBang · 25/05/2024 14:49

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:47

Well if we get caught up in and of the current wars there will be a population boom to replace those lost, just as in WWII

Not necessarily. Contraception has been invented since then. Also there will be far fewer people of childbearing age

DramaLlamaBangBang · 25/05/2024 14:54

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 14:41

Why is humanity less important?

The survival of humanity is only important to humans.The survival of other species is only important to humans. We will go extinct, as will every other species on earth, to be replaced by another. Without humans animals aren't going to live in a natural utopia they will kill and eat each other until they too are extinct. The point of doing better for the planet is to make earth habitable for humans and the things we love, like animals and nature. We will he here, then ine day we won't. We are a blip compared to the dinosaurs.

SlothsNeverGetIll · 25/05/2024 14:57

But we only have to get through the next 10-20 years and we will see a demographic shift as the boomer generation is no more (I say this as someone with loved boomer parents).
We will then have a permanently smaller population, needing fewer people to service it.
Or am I wrong?

Feelsodrained · 25/05/2024 15:02

Why do you think extinction? Why would it be bad if it dropped to 4 billion?

pikkumyy77 · 25/05/2024 15:04

Whatever: I think we can all agree that using our second home, gifted to us by a millionaire, to acquire childcare in lieu of rent, hanging ipads around the necks of two year olds in lieu of parenting, and slapping them in the face in lieu of discipline, is probably not going to be a solution to the white baby birth crisis that the pronatalists claim to want. I mean sure two lovely loons, are reproducing (at a very high cost in dollars) through IVF and csection. But the babies they are producing are massively underresourced and uncared for. Add on to this home schooling by two people absolutely uninterested in children or ideas and I rather expect their children will end up wards of the state or nonfunctional in an economic or social sense.

Nanny0gg · 25/05/2024 15:06

Fascinating article and thread.

Thank you @Carebearsonmybed

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 15:06

But what is the problem with immigrants? They replace the non working population so evidently there is room

The problem is that the culture and character of your country will change — for good or bad. Europe once went through a huge population change about 3000 years ago.

The people who built Stonehenge don’t exist genetically in Britain anymore. They have vanished and you lot (I’m not British lol) have appropriated that cultural achievement. It’s tragic tbh

Begsthequestion · 25/05/2024 15:11

Immigration

and

Tax the rich

godmum56 · 25/05/2024 15:12

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 15:06

But what is the problem with immigrants? They replace the non working population so evidently there is room

The problem is that the culture and character of your country will change — for good or bad. Europe once went through a huge population change about 3000 years ago.

The people who built Stonehenge don’t exist genetically in Britain anymore. They have vanished and you lot (I’m not British lol) have appropriated that cultural achievement. It’s tragic tbh

really? I'd be intersted to know more about the stonehenge folks being lost. Have you got a link please?

noctilucentcloud · 25/05/2024 15:12

I've just read the article, poor kids, it doesn't feel as if they care for them at all, just getting to their end goal. It's also made me very glad that embryo selection is heavily regulated in the UK and we cannot select for supposed intelligence etc here. And we should not be able to, even if the couple in this article are advocating for it!

I can see the argument of how having a lower ratio of economically active folk to those needing care is an issue, but cannot agree on their logic or methods at all.

IncompleteSenten · 25/05/2024 15:14

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 12:53

There's plenty of life on earth. When the human race dies out the rest will still be here. The planet will be far from desolate

Mass extinction events are common, Earth has gone through several already. The rest will only survive until the next one.

And it will recover from that like it has done before.

In the grand scheme of things the human race is not important and it not being on the planet won't harm it in any way. It certainly won't make the earth "desolate like the rest of the solar system."

godmum56 · 25/05/2024 15:19

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 15:06

But what is the problem with immigrants? They replace the non working population so evidently there is room

The problem is that the culture and character of your country will change — for good or bad. Europe once went through a huge population change about 3000 years ago.

The people who built Stonehenge don’t exist genetically in Britain anymore. They have vanished and you lot (I’m not British lol) have appropriated that cultural achievement. It’s tragic tbh

oh I just found this.....apparently we haven't appropriated Stonehenge and we still carry some neolithic genes....also the "Beaker takeover" seems to have been a good thing!

Churchview · 25/05/2024 15:31

The photo of him kissing her by the tent gives me the willies.
In fact, the whole thing gives me the willies.
Too close to home to the old 'barefoot, pregnant and tied to the kitchen sink' shackles I thought we'd shaken off years ago.
If they want to fill their cold house with children and crap they bought on the internet from Russia whilst all the while telling other people how to go about their lives then that's their lookout - but it's a funny way to go about these sweet short, filled with choice, days on earth we have.

MotherFeministWoman · 25/05/2024 15:33

They both sound like very damaged people.

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