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To think pronatalists are on to something?

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Carebearsonmybed · 25/05/2024 09:28

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/may/25/american-pronatalists-malcolm-and-simone-collins?CMP=ShareiOSAppp_Other

I don't agree with everything this couple say or do but I do think we are approaching a demographic timebomb when the global human population starts to drop in 50 years time.

Most women probably expect to have more DCs at 20 than they end up having by 45. What can we do to get the UK birth rate to replacement rate of c 2.5 so we don't have a crisis of elderly people without enough workers to pay for or provide care and subsidence?

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TheTartfulLodger · 25/05/2024 12:17

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 09:59

Good god, no it wouldn’t. You’d rather just another desolate planet like all the others in the solar system?

Humans aren't that significant. The most diverse planet in the solar system is hardly going to be desolate without us.

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 12:21

Humans aren't that significant. The most diverse planet in the solar system is hardly going to be desolate without us

Earth has already gone through several mass extinction events. So even if humans were gone, all the natural life you see today will not exist long into the future. So why bother to preserve something that will have no chance to last anyway?

(tbf I do enjoy nature and want to stop unnecessary destruction. But not at the cost of human thriving)

Pollipops1 · 25/05/2024 12:21

The demographic shift is one reason for higher inflation & why we are highly unlikely to see very low interest rates again.

Arlott · 25/05/2024 12:24

DramaLlamaBangBang · 25/05/2024 11:55

We need a short-term fix to care for the current large elderly population. The generations behind them are smaller. When they are elderly there will not be as many of them. The answer is not to create another baby boom and push the problem onto another generation in 80 years time.

The generations behind them won’t be smaller if we keep importing people in quick fixes though, will it.

Pollipops1 · 25/05/2024 12:26

“According to Eurostat, the old-age dependency ratio in the EU was 33% in 2022, meaning there were just over three working-age adults (15-64) for every person aged 65 or more. By January 2050, state spending on healthcare and pensions is likely to grow, as the ratio looks set to hit 56.7%.”

considering the ratio was 1 to 5 in the 60s the above is not sustainable. Yes there are policies & innovation that can help but governments get away with ignoring it because most of the population don’t want to acknowledge any of the associated issues.

Tel12 · 25/05/2024 12:29

How does excessive breeding fit in with the climate issue? Surely the best thing to contribute to the reduction of carbon emissions is to reduce the numbers of children? Unless of course you are a billionaire then it's ok to have 11 children and jet around the world. While we need to recycle toilet rolls.

DramaLlamaBangBang · 25/05/2024 12:32

Arlott · 25/05/2024 12:24

The generations behind them won’t be smaller if we keep importing people in quick fixes though, will it.

Yes it will be, because immigrant communities usually end up matching the host community re birthrate in a generation. Even with higher birthrates amongst migrant communities our birthrate is 1.9 or something. Also, if we hadn't underfunded all our public services so much, we would be able to run a proper border force system, where we manage immigration to match need. Fewer old people, fewer people needed to look after them ( I know that's simplistic, but I think it's better than a ponzi scheme of telling women to have more babies)

Pollipops1 · 25/05/2024 12:37

How does excessive breeding fit in with the climate issue? Surely the best thing to contribute to the reduction of carbon emissions is to reduce the numbers of children?

Numbers of children are reduced though. Unless you mean in parts of Africa, those dc will have a far smaller carbon footprint vs you for example.

IncompleteSenten · 25/05/2024 12:39

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 09:59

Good god, no it wouldn’t. You’d rather just another desolate planet like all the others in the solar system?

Well it wouldn't be desolate like all the others in the solar system would it?

There's plenty of life on earth. When the human race dies out the rest will still be here. The planet will be far from desolate.

RecurringDecimal · 25/05/2024 12:47

Well the best solution would be to make it more attractive for people to have children

  • affordable housing for families
  • absent parents forced to pay up
  • affordable childcare to include:
  • subsidised wrap around care and holiday clubs
  • favourable tax treatment of all child care including au pairs and nannies as not everyone works nursery friendly hours
  • less red tape for childminders. They need to be safe and stimulating environments. They don't need to endlessly document the eyfs.
  • child benefits back for families with up to four children. Some people want none or one so others will need to have three or four

Then we could also just accept a bit of a gradual population decline might not be a bad thing. But at the moment its a very rapid drop in birth rate and due mainly, I think to unaffordable housing and childcare.

However I think that the solution many governments will hit upon won't be improving things so more women want to have children. It will be taking away access to contraception and abortion so that they have no choice. I think this process is already underway in the US and also in Russia.

Hagbard · 25/05/2024 12:49

I suppose everyone has the right to their views, but aligning with a movement which promotes eugenics, technocracy, transhumanism and tradwives seems extreme. Not sure if they utilise surrogates, as most in their circle do (Elon Musk is a prime example)

Big Great Replacement vibes. Replacement mentioned a lot in the OP I see 🤔

Gilead indeed

inamarina · 25/05/2024 12:52

TimeForTeaAndG · 25/05/2024 09:45

We could...have a common travel area to allow neighbouring country populations to come and work...oh wait, we had that...

There's 8 billion people in the world so really we don't have a population shortage problem, we have a "everyone's too bloody worried about letting outsiders in" problem.

Which neighbouring countries have a growing population (birth rate)? As far as I’m aware they’re facing the same demographic issues as the UK.

therealcookiemonster · 25/05/2024 12:53

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 09:59

Good god, no it wouldn’t. You’d rather just another desolate planet like all the others in the solar system?

why would the planet be desolate? it would just rewild. all other species would thrive. it would be amazing. it is our presence that will eventually make it desolate!

the other planets are not desolate because there are no humans (and there is no proof that NONE of them have life) its because of the environmental conditions.

DunkinBensDonuts · 25/05/2024 12:53

There's plenty of life on earth. When the human race dies out the rest will still be here. The planet will be far from desolate

Mass extinction events are common, Earth has gone through several already. The rest will only survive until the next one.

Pollipops1 · 25/05/2024 12:56

@Hagbard i think the couple in the article aren’t super pro surrogacy

fitzwilliamdarcy · 25/05/2024 12:59

I’m not crazy about pro-natalist policies as an infertile woman. My workplace is extremely family friendly, which essentially means that anyone without kids gets absolutely shafted.

The thread about improving wrap-around care has posters suggesting that childless people should be the ones working the split shifts running the sessions, making peanuts, as the parents are all too busy with their corporate jobs.

I don’t disagree that if politicians want more babies then they have to fix the obstacles to that, but I strongly suspect that women who can’t or won’t breed wouldn’t fare well in a society where those changes were made. Not everyone can have flexibility, it always comes at someone’s expense.

bookworm14 · 25/05/2024 13:06

I don’t think we should be taking any advice from these people, about pronatalism or anything else, when they openly admit to hitting their tiny children in the face. I may only have one child, but I’m pretty sure she’s going to grow up happier and better adjusted than this couple’s massive army of abused kids.

Ratisshortforratthew · 25/05/2024 13:10

The best policies any government could introduce to encourage more reproduction would be socialist ones. Caps on rents and house prices, limits on how much property one can own, subsidised/free childcare, higher wages as well as higher tax, shorter working hours and flexibility, and a cultural/societal shift for men to be equal, involved parents and for that to be a basic expectation. That would improve living standards for everyone.

That said, I’m not invested in the continuation of the human race and I don’t think it’s essential. I’m not saying we should all go and jump off a cliff but many other species become extinct (many by human intervention) so why shouldn’t we? Unless governments, billionaires and corporations drastically reduce their emissions and environmentally destructive practices the future planet won’t be a nice one to live on for your kids.

Carebearsonmybed · 25/05/2024 13:11

Larger families tend to have lower carbon footprints per person than couple/small families. Eg cars, holidays, food. Economy of scale.

Without humans the earth would look very different. All domesticated animals would die out. Dogs, cats, small pets, cows, pigs, sheep, most horses.

The UK would return to being mostly forest.

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Thelnebriati · 25/05/2024 13:12

Quality not quantity.

User1979289 · 25/05/2024 13:15

It is a stupid cult - no better than the stupid religious cults that preach this nonsense. And the core beliefs are racist.
“the aims of pronatalists overlap with those of racist conspiracists who believe in the “great replacement theory” – the conviction that people of white European heritage are being demographically taken over by non-whites who have children at a faster rate.”

Hagbard · 25/05/2024 13:19

That surprises me Pollipops1. I wonder if Collins will carry all ten pregnancies herself.

They're associated with a group who flirt with Nazism and "umbrella consent" sex parties, where the women attending sign a waiver to consent.

These far-right views seem to be gaining traction, certainly amongst the techbros of silicone valley.

BingoMarieHeeler · 25/05/2024 13:20

The problem is inequality and distribution of wealth (lack thereof) globally.

makeanddo · 25/05/2024 13:28

I scanned that article but my takeaway is that Simone is vulnerable and in an abusive relationship. She is autistic, has an eating disorder and has to have IVF to conceive. He hits his children for what seemed to be an accident.

Frightening 😟

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