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All these weight loss drugs... surely we are heading towards disaster?

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shellswirl · 21/05/2024 09:44

So as we all know there are various weight loss drugs that have become very popular in recent months.

It seems like the whole of Hollywood is using it.

Even regular people are spending huge amounts of money on it from online pharmacies.

I get that these drugs might be useful for certain people with real medical conditions, but really a lot of people are using it as a quick fix to be thin.

With no consideration to side effects or future health. And without thinking about what happens when you stop it?

Surely the best way to lose weight involves no drugs. No fad diets. But exercising more, moving more, eating a balanced diet. Retraining your brain and finding food and exercise you enjoy.

I say this as an overweight person too! Surely there are other ways.

If every other person is taking these drugs won't there be a huge pool of people to monitor side effects etc?

Aibu to say the whole thing makes me feel very uneasy.

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kkloo · 22/05/2024 16:32

@shellswirl

If we changed education and food as a whole then yes healthy eating could be way more successful.

But we won't change, we won t learn... because money. This is going to make certain people very very rich.

If you know that it's not going to change (it won't) then why do you keep pushing for it and complaining about the drugs!?

Imagine if people took the tablet and just thought "nah sod the exercise" because they can get thin on the drugs.

I bet a proportion of people would.

Yeah of course there will be a proportion who would, just like there's a proportion of people who take diabetes medication and don't look after themselves or medication for high blood pressure or treatment after a heart attack and don't look after themselves.

Youdontevengohere · 22/05/2024 16:39

PatsyStonesBeehive · 22/05/2024 16:19

It's the billion dollar question. Food will always be the hardest addiction to crack, because unlike cigs/alcohol/ illegal drugs etc, you can't just remove it to stop temptation. We need food to live. Do we need all the shite that's offered up in supermarkets? Absolutely not. Should we very strictly regulate what's sold to us as "food"? Maybe. Perhaps follow Japan's example and weigh staff every Monday morning in front of everyone and then publicly shame them into weight loss? I don't know what needs done to fix it. But I do stand by what I said earlier about a lot of it being psychological.

So rather than take a medication that enables obese people to restrict their food intake and lose weight, we should shame them into losing weight instead?

kkloo · 22/05/2024 16:50

PatsyStonesBeehive · 22/05/2024 15:46

It's like putting a sticking plaster over a fracture. You can kid yourself that it's helping but when you take it off, nothing will have healed. You need to get to the the root cause of why you have disordered eating and what's made you obese in the first place. If you don't tackle the psychological before you tackle the physical, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Look at shows like My 600lb life. One of the first things the Dr does is to get the patients to speak to a psychologist. The ones who refuse to engage tend to be the ones who make zero progress on the weight loss program. Fitness trainer Jillian Michaels is also a big advocate of brain first, then body. She has also, like the OP, predicted a massive fallout from these drugs. Watch her video "the truth about Ozempic they aren't telling you." The side effects are terrifying!

There's a lot more to it than understanding the emotional reasons behind why they do it, like the hormonal changes in the body for example.

The mind is influenced by what's going on in the body. It's often the hormones that are making the person craving the food, it's not the childhood bullying they experienced. That might have been why they started comfort eating, but years or decades later that's not what is influencing the constant thoughts and cravings about food.

There have been many people who have went down the therapy route and actually did a lot of healing from their past trauma and healing from the time their comfort eating might have started and it hasn't helped the cravings.

And sometimes the emotional issues come after the weight gain, it's not always something that comes first.

Mrsredlipstick · 22/05/2024 17:02

@thesurrealist thank you for your input. I like a good academic to quash the neighsayers.

I have two Oxford degrees. Not exactly as thick as mince. I also have a nutrition qualification.
I have been nine stone overweight and pumped full of steriods to keep me working. 15 hour days added to the weight gains. I'm not essential work wise but I paid huge taxes for thirty years.

I have mobility issues and it would be nice to be a normal weight. I still have some pre weight gain clothes I want to wear.

I went onto Lloyds pharmacy. Com today and no way can you cheat the protocol.
A lot of the tutting is not obese people. Unless you have been there, you don't understand.
Lots of larger people get abused on mumsnet and it's seen as fair game.

PatsyStonesBeehive · 22/05/2024 17:07

Youdontevengohere · 22/05/2024 16:39

So rather than take a medication that enables obese people to restrict their food intake and lose weight, we should shame them into losing weight instead?

I was using an (extreme) example of what other countries do. I never said it was right, in fact I was being slightly facetious. I think it’s an awful way to treat people. I fully remember the dread of the school nurse coming to weight us in front of classmates, knowing I was heavier than everyone and would be mocked. Japan’s way is most certainly not the right way.

The 4 part documentary (I’m sure it was on channel 4) Around The World in 80 Weighs is where I learned about the above. It was actually very interesting to see how obesity is tackled in different countries. But….spoiler alert..:not one of them has the magic key to fixing it.

ETA: You can watch it here, if anyone is interested. https://www.channel4.com/programmes/around-the-world-in-80-weighs/on-demand/73978-001

queenparrot · 22/05/2024 17:07

You are right, not all the tutting is from obese people:

But even for those with obesity, not all weight loss is healthy. While shedding excess fat mass (and in particular, visceral fat mass) has a multitude of beneficial effects on health, shedding lean mass – which includes muscle and bone – is associated with poorer health trajectories and reduced lifespan.

Lean mass loss on GLP-1 receptor agonists (peterattiamd.com)

Scarletttulips · 22/05/2024 17:11

I went onto Lloyds pharmacy. Com today and no way can you cheat the protocol

You can of you get a private prescription and lie about you weight. Most of those going into the pharmacy for these prescriptions could not be described as over weight. They do it for the last 6lb or so, the hardest bit to shift.

They are taking away from people who really need it.

Poppysmom22 · 22/05/2024 17:18

User14March · 22/05/2024 15:19

For those on it, has your sleep quality improved?

Not yet but I expect it to as my boobs try to suffocate me

Moretti76 · 22/05/2024 17:20

Scarletttulips · 22/05/2024 17:11

I went onto Lloyds pharmacy. Com today and no way can you cheat the protocol

You can of you get a private prescription and lie about you weight. Most of those going into the pharmacy for these prescriptions could not be described as over weight. They do it for the last 6lb or so, the hardest bit to shift.

They are taking away from people who really need it.

Sorry but what are you talking about? We’re all taking private prescriptions- the rules and protocols still apply. If they are taking them from non registered private providers they are stupid and playing with their own health- they could be taking anything eg. Insulin

NoAprilFool · 22/05/2024 17:24

Moretti76 · 22/05/2024 15:50

I can only go by my experience- I had to send a time stamped photo of my body and weight showing on scales with feet on display. Photo ID to check I am who I say I am.

The provider also wrote to my GP and my GP has me recorded as obese and I’ve had consultations for it with regular weigh ins. I have engaged with a named GP by email and on the chat function whist taking the medications. They sent me emails and there is an online support function with information.

I can’t imagine how I’d fake my weight (not that I need to!) but accept some may be doing this on other providers (hopefully they get shut down by CQC if not following the regulations).

Thanks for sharing. Thats good to hear. My experience was different. No photos. No id. I could have been anyone. This was a reputable high street pharmacy.

AnitaLoos · 22/05/2024 17:24

queenparrot · 22/05/2024 17:07

You are right, not all the tutting is from obese people:

But even for those with obesity, not all weight loss is healthy. While shedding excess fat mass (and in particular, visceral fat mass) has a multitude of beneficial effects on health, shedding lean mass – which includes muscle and bone – is associated with poorer health trajectories and reduced lifespan.

Lean mass loss on GLP-1 receptor agonists (peterattiamd.com)

Then it’s a bit of luck that the latest evidence shows that weight loss medications improve body composition with people ending up with a higher proportion of lean mass and a lower proportion of fat, so a healthier, leaner body overall. Counterintuitively obese people often have more lean mass than lean people. However the muscle is poor quality so it doesn’t make them healthier. https://easo.org/eco2023-newsletter-day-three-new-analysis-shows-improved-body-composition-with-tirzepatide-is-consistent-across-adult-age-groups-with-overweight-or-obesity/

ECO2023 NEWSLETTER: DAY THREE - New analysis shows improved body composition with tirzepatide is consistent across adult age groups with overweight or obesity - EASO

Oral abstract AD09.02 – 1000-1030H Liffey Hall 2, Friday A new analysis of SURMOUNT-1, the first Phase 3 study of tirzepatide in adults for chronic weight management shows that tirzepatide improves body composition across a range of adult age groups. T...

https://easo.org/eco2023-newsletter-day-three-new-analysis-shows-improved-body-composition-with-tirzepatide-is-consistent-across-adult-age-groups-with-overweight-or-obesity/

BeretRaspberry · 22/05/2024 17:36

JosiePosey · 22/05/2024 13:42

Has it not worked or have they not tried properly?

If they ate a healthy diet in a calorie deficit consistently and long enough, they would lose weight.

No one stays fat eating veg & protein.

Like I’ve posted before, but I’ll do so again, THIS is what happens when you lose weight.

p

Why dieting doesn't usually work | Sandra Aamodt

In the US, 80% of girls have been on a diet by the time they're 10 years old. In this honest, raw talk, neuroscientist Sandra Aamodt uses her personal story ...

https://youtu.be/jn0Ygp7pMbA?si=eLfslTDtakTjTOTj

kkloo · 22/05/2024 17:37

PatsyStonesBeehive · 22/05/2024 17:07

I was using an (extreme) example of what other countries do. I never said it was right, in fact I was being slightly facetious. I think it’s an awful way to treat people. I fully remember the dread of the school nurse coming to weight us in front of classmates, knowing I was heavier than everyone and would be mocked. Japan’s way is most certainly not the right way.

The 4 part documentary (I’m sure it was on channel 4) Around The World in 80 Weighs is where I learned about the above. It was actually very interesting to see how obesity is tackled in different countries. But….spoiler alert..:not one of them has the magic key to fixing it.

ETA: You can watch it here, if anyone is interested. https://www.channel4.com/programmes/around-the-world-in-80-weighs/on-demand/73978-001

Edited

That's because less of it is psychological than you think it is.

Most bodies that have gained a lot weight are essentially damaged, the person has constant cravings for food because of the hormones and their body is primed to store fat easily.

Also the obesity figures from Japan seem to be misleading, they might not have many over a BMI of 30, but they have a high amount with a BMI over 25, and a BMI of 25 in Japanese people is considered to have the same health risks as a BMI of 30 in other countries. They are prone to obesity related problems at a lower BMI.

NoAprilFool · 22/05/2024 17:40

tennistimetomorrow · 22/05/2024 16:26

This is not the case for Boots or Asda. Full body photos are required as well as photos of the person standing on bathroom scales.

It’s boots I went through - no photos were asked for. This was in March this year

wasieverreallyhere · 22/05/2024 17:46

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 09:44

So as we all know there are various weight loss drugs that have become very popular in recent months.

It seems like the whole of Hollywood is using it.

Even regular people are spending huge amounts of money on it from online pharmacies.

I get that these drugs might be useful for certain people with real medical conditions, but really a lot of people are using it as a quick fix to be thin.

With no consideration to side effects or future health. And without thinking about what happens when you stop it?

Surely the best way to lose weight involves no drugs. No fad diets. But exercising more, moving more, eating a balanced diet. Retraining your brain and finding food and exercise you enjoy.

I say this as an overweight person too! Surely there are other ways.

If every other person is taking these drugs won't there be a huge pool of people to monitor side effects etc?

Aibu to say the whole thing makes me feel very uneasy.

I'm trying one of them menapause weight can't exersize as much due to chronic pain I am classed as obese

Moretti76 · 22/05/2024 17:49

NoAprilFool · 22/05/2024 17:40

It’s boots I went through - no photos were asked for. This was in March this year

But Boots requires you to pick up in store, so they can visually check then

0sm0nthus · 22/05/2024 17:58

AnitaLoos · 22/05/2024 15:32

People usually have proportionally more lean tissue compared to fat after medicated weight loss ie a better body composition. They lose more fat than lean tissue (which includes water btw). Tirzepatide, which hits two hormones not just GLP-1, is even more effective for fat loss with fat accounting for 3/4 of mass lost. All weight loss causes some lean tissue loss. Interestingly simple dieting often causes a loss of fat free tissue of around 35%. Obese people often have more muscle than normal weight people just from carrying all that extra weight but the muscle may be ‘poor quality’ so it might be that reduction in muscle mass just reflects a the typical body composition of a healthy weight person and the muscle retained is better quality. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5421125/

I was confused by your mention of 'poor quality muscle' and then I read the article and saw that you have confused 'poor muscle quality' for 'poor quality muscle'.
Or are you talking about something else?

queensonia · 22/05/2024 17:59

ToBeOrNotToBee · 21/05/2024 10:11

My mother died aged 31 from obesity related conditions. Up to her late 30s she was healthy. Then weight crept on, things started failing and she developed diabetes which was uncontrollable.
Aged 30, I put on 3 stones in a year. I was eating 1360 calories a day maximum. I tried to cycle like I would previously but had no energy at all. Migraines were a daily occupancy. My hair started falling out, I got muscle wastage and I felt like I was dieing.
My GP was useless but eventually I got referred to an endocrinologist. They were very unhelpful until I mentioned my mother. By this point I was 32 and very obese. Eyebrows were raised and they took me seriously. They done a whole hormone profile and saw that my ovaries had given up, my cortisol was through the roof, my testerone double the highest range for a female, and I had insulin resistance. I was on the precipice of developing diabetes and going just like my mum. There's still no official diagnosis, 2 years on but I take a cocktail of drugs to manage things. HRT, metformin, various vitamins and supplements and I have found out I'm also protein deficient so my body doesn't seem to absorb as much from food as a normal person. It's a recipe for disaster essentially.
I lost 2 stone of the 5 I gained making lifestyle changes and the medication working. But I am still obese. I cannot lose the belly, fat upper arms and I want to feel healthy. I want to feel attractive. I don't want to be fat or be reminded that I am so much like my mother and am a ticking time bomb.
So I started mounjaro, out of my own pocket. I'm on my 3rd week and have lost 2.7kg in that time. The belly is disappearing. My cravings for sugar and waking up starving every day has gone.
I'm aware it's not a cure. I'm aware that I will need to stop it one day. But right now it's helping my form good habits and forcing me to rethink my lifestyle and diet whilst giving me the breathing space to do so.
I'm hoping it will stop lessen my risk of developing diabetes and maybe even let my body start it's own natural cycles again, giving me my fertility back.
Why is this something to be concerned about?

ToBeOrNotToBee

My mother died aged 31 from obesity related conditions. Up to her late 30s she was healthy. Then weight crept on, things started failing and she developed diabetes which was uncontrollable

so she died at 30 but was healthy after that? Sorry for your loss.

Devonbabs · 22/05/2024 18:18

queensonia · 22/05/2024 17:59

ToBeOrNotToBee

My mother died aged 31 from obesity related conditions. Up to her late 30s she was healthy. Then weight crept on, things started failing and she developed diabetes which was uncontrollable

so she died at 30 but was healthy after that? Sorry for your loss.

One of these numbers is obviously a typo.

MustWeDoThis · 22/05/2024 18:21

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:21

I wonder if the true answer for a lot of people is in the food we eat. There is so much processed muck. We've been conditioned to eat it. Go to the supermarket and there's thousands of things wrapped in plastic, in boxes with weird ingredients.

100 years ago food was simple. Grains, meat, fruit, veg...

If I was "president of the world" I would tackle the food industry. And educate kids better. I wound also invest more money in sports. The uk has bloody awful track record for investing in sports compared to counties like the USA and australia.

These medications are not the answer in my mind.

Medications have their place for sure but in my mind they are for things we don't have a solution for already. And in this case there are other viable solutions.

You're entitled to an opinion, but it doesn't make it right.

Where's your primary evidence? What scientific research backed by references and citations have you done? Where is your thesis and hypothesis? Or have you just seen something, been disallowed it, and now throwing your toys out of the pram?

Not one person on this thread has the right to say who does and does not work for a person's specific dietary requirements.

Weight loss medication doesn't stop you from putting the wrong food in your mouth- It lessens your appetite, rewires your psych, makes you think differently.

To lose weight on the medication you still need to eat healthily and move more - The medication is a massive help in doing this.

I am sorry if things aren't working out for you, but pulling other people down with threads like this? It's just a reflection on you.

Ihateboris · 22/05/2024 18:28

I'm just jealous as fuck that I can't afford the weight loss jabs, and instead have to work out everyday and eat a low carb diet.

Devonbabs · 22/05/2024 18:29

MustWeDoThis · 22/05/2024 18:21

You're entitled to an opinion, but it doesn't make it right.

Where's your primary evidence? What scientific research backed by references and citations have you done? Where is your thesis and hypothesis? Or have you just seen something, been disallowed it, and now throwing your toys out of the pram?

Not one person on this thread has the right to say who does and does not work for a person's specific dietary requirements.

Weight loss medication doesn't stop you from putting the wrong food in your mouth- It lessens your appetite, rewires your psych, makes you think differently.

To lose weight on the medication you still need to eat healthily and move more - The medication is a massive help in doing this.

I am sorry if things aren't working out for you, but pulling other people down with threads like this? It's just a reflection on you.

What I find particularly problematic is the poster saying one of the problems is the UK doesn’t invest heavily in sport like say the USA and this is part of the issue. I assume the poster bizarrely thinks the USA doesn’t have an obesity issue!!!

Education- all overweight people know what healthy food it. The question arises why this Knowledge isn’t leading to weight loss. There are probably as many answers to this as there are overweight people. Surely this poster should welcome having as many options as we can to help people lose weight. It appears that medication can help many people. Why not let people use this?

SofaThrow · 22/05/2024 18:30

I think it's becoming a far-right conspiracy staple to wring your hands and deride weight loss injections, though. It's on the list with covid vaccines and face masks

Utterly batshit.

Riversideandrelax · 22/05/2024 18:32

Youdontevengohere · 22/05/2024 15:43

So people arent as outraged by it because it doesn’t work as well? Which seems to prove the point that thin people just don’t want fat people to be thin. It means they lose their superiority.

That may well be the case!

BeretRaspberry · 22/05/2024 18:40

tennistimetomorrow · 22/05/2024 16:12

If I could ask a personal question - is this the first time that you've lost weight or have you managed it before and then put it all back on ? That has been my experience and the same for most overweight women I know. We all know how to lose weight but it just isn't sustainable, for a myriad of reasons. These medications make it sustainable to be in a calorie deficit. If I have to continue to pay to be on this medication for life, it will be worth it for a healthy body.

I’ve asked that but not had an answer. I’ll eat my hat if it’s not the first few times.

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