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All these weight loss drugs... surely we are heading towards disaster?

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shellswirl · 21/05/2024 09:44

So as we all know there are various weight loss drugs that have become very popular in recent months.

It seems like the whole of Hollywood is using it.

Even regular people are spending huge amounts of money on it from online pharmacies.

I get that these drugs might be useful for certain people with real medical conditions, but really a lot of people are using it as a quick fix to be thin.

With no consideration to side effects or future health. And without thinking about what happens when you stop it?

Surely the best way to lose weight involves no drugs. No fad diets. But exercising more, moving more, eating a balanced diet. Retraining your brain and finding food and exercise you enjoy.

I say this as an overweight person too! Surely there are other ways.

If every other person is taking these drugs won't there be a huge pool of people to monitor side effects etc?

Aibu to say the whole thing makes me feel very uneasy.

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Yellowhammer09 · 21/05/2024 10:24

I went into my local Tesco Express recently, and I'd estimate that 60% of shelf space is dedicated to junk food. It's horrendous.

We only have one other shop in town, but it's incredibly expensive, and the next nearest supermarket is a 22 minute drive away.

Pacificisolated · 21/05/2024 10:25

But despite the enormous social pressure and personal desire to be slim, it’s extremely rare for someone who is obese to actually lose the weight. Statistically most obese people are still obese year after year. Clearly it is incredibly hard to lose weight and the reality is these people will just become more and more unhealthy before they become disabled or die prematurely.

LiterallyOnFire · 21/05/2024 10:25

peachgreen · 21/05/2024 10:22

I took Saxenda for three months in 2022. It helped break the cycle of yoyo dieting, binging and purging that I’d been on since I was 11. It cancelled out all food noise and genuinely changed my appetite completely. I started eating one meal a day and was able to continue doing that after I came off it. I have since lost 6.5 stone and still going. It changed my life and I have absolutely no regrets about taking it. Without it I would have been morbidly obese for the rest of my life.

Wow that's fantastic. I'm guessing still really hard work?

starringinyourbaddreams · 21/05/2024 10:25

Gazelda · 21/05/2024 10:20

Jesus.

The world is filled with fat shamers. You can't open a newspaper without seeing Obesity Crisis! headlines.

Some people are using well-tested medication to help them to better their health. And they're still being shamed.

I'm embarrassed to be obese. I wish I wasn't. I wish I could improve my health and well-being without medication. But I can't. I've tried. I've tried really hard.

I'm researching these meds to see if they'd be suitable for me. It's not an easy decision. If I do go ahead, I'll likely keep it secret because of the shame.

Do it, it’ll change your life!

WishIMite · 21/05/2024 10:26

I keep wondering what it will do to the wider environment: won't it seep into sewage/water?

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:26

I'm not shaming anyone. I'm overweight myself but that said taking drugs makes me nervous when there is another option out there with zero side effects.

If I can I'd rather limit the processed food and make exercise a larger part of my life,

There are not just two options for me I would hope;

Be fat forever
Or
Take this medicine

I've not given up hope on education, exercise, reevaluating diet etc can work

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EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 21/05/2024 10:28

If they save lives I can only view that as a positive.

BoobyDazzler · 21/05/2024 10:28

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:21

I wonder if the true answer for a lot of people is in the food we eat. There is so much processed muck. We've been conditioned to eat it. Go to the supermarket and there's thousands of things wrapped in plastic, in boxes with weird ingredients.

100 years ago food was simple. Grains, meat, fruit, veg...

If I was "president of the world" I would tackle the food industry. And educate kids better. I wound also invest more money in sports. The uk has bloody awful track record for investing in sports compared to counties like the USA and australia.

These medications are not the answer in my mind.

Medications have their place for sure but in my mind they are for things we don't have a solution for already. And in this case there are other viable solutions.

100 years ago people worked from dawn to dusk, got everywhere they went under their own steam, had no central heating and ate a much healthier diet.

Most of us today live a much more comfortable, easy lifestyle. We’re all conditioned to eat too much and do too little.

MonsteraMama · 21/05/2024 10:28

Surely the best way to lose weight involves no drugs. No fad diets. But exercising more, moving more, eating a balanced diet. Retraining your brain and finding food and exercise you enjoy.

No shit Sherlock. I think most fat people are aware of that, the issue is it's fucking hard to do those things sometimes and some people really, really struggle with it. Guess what semaglutide does? It retrains your brain. Literally liquid willpower.

I've lost 6 stone with semaglutide after years of trying to do all of the above and failing. Admitting I was suffering with disordered eating and not just being greedy made it much easier to realise that drugs were the best way for me. They're the best way for most people who have spent years trying and failing to lose weight the "proper" way. I've watched yo-yo dieting friends finally hit their goals and stick to them - it's not just about being thin it's about being healthy, and these drugs are a tool towards that.

I've been off the drug for a year now and kept the weight off too. It's now easy for me to maintain a healthy diet and exercise regularly because everything has shifted in me. My risk of heart disease, diabetes, and other obesity related illness has plummeted, my mental health has vastly improved, I'm no longer using NHS mental health services so someone else now can. My chances of costing the NHS a fortune in future have decreased hugely and it's only cost me about a grand. Absolutely worth it.

If it makes you "uneasy" just don't take them. Stick to diet and exercise and willpower alone, more power to you if you can do it. These aren't untested drugs, we know the side effects, most of us just consider it a worthwhile sacrifice.

TabithaTimeTurner · 21/05/2024 10:29

OligoN · 21/05/2024 10:24

You are not being unreasonable at all.

What I find disturbing is the amount of money being diverted/invested by companies (like my employer) to manufacture weight loss drugs which is being taken away from research into diseases which are not primarily caused by society.
At some level I actually find it obscene.

This is the thing, there’s so much money to be made in obesity.
They make money by selling us the shite food which makes us fat then pharmaceuticals make money selling us the drugs to make us thin.

They want you fat!! 💰 💰 💰

peachgreen · 21/05/2024 10:30

LiterallyOnFire · 21/05/2024 10:25

Wow that's fantastic. I'm guessing still really hard work?

Hmm… yes, in that I cook from scratch every day to make sure I get enough protein and good fats and avoid carbs. But things like saying no to cake or whatever are a million trillion times easier than before I took Saxenda. When I dieted before that sort of thing was so, so hard. Now it’s pretty easy.

I did regain a stone and a half last year when I slipped back into more “normal” eating habits – I still wasn’t overeating really but I went back to having lunch, having bread etc and my body just can’t handle that, I don’t know if it’s from years of dieting or because I have PCOS or what, but I have learned that I cannot eat carbs or eat more than 1200 calories a day without gaining weight. But I lost that stone and a half again once I went back to OMAD.

LiterallyOnFire · 21/05/2024 10:31

If I can I'd rather limit the processed food and make exercise a larger part of my life,

Even I know that you still have to do all of the exercise and make good food choices when you're on this medicines, but it sounds like they give you some extra willpower or a metabolic filip of some sort (or both?)

I've been paying attention to see what the "against" argument is in case I get to the point where I need help myself, but most objections seem quite nebulous or else weirdly moralistic.

Why is it "better" to fix a problem without help? And if that improves impossible surely the wise person always takes the help?

Also, what is this "disaster" you're worried about OP?

There never seem to details from the naysayers, just catastrophic hyperbole.

takemeawayagain · 21/05/2024 10:31

peachgreen · 21/05/2024 10:22

I took Saxenda for three months in 2022. It helped break the cycle of yoyo dieting, binging and purging that I’d been on since I was 11. It cancelled out all food noise and genuinely changed my appetite completely. I started eating one meal a day and was able to continue doing that after I came off it. I have since lost 6.5 stone and still going. It changed my life and I have absolutely no regrets about taking it. Without it I would have been morbidly obese for the rest of my life.

But why are you only eating one meal a day? That is disordered eating like any other and is not considered to be safe. I think it's really worrying that people take these drugs and go from one extreme to another.

Moier · 21/05/2024 10:31

@Usernameisnotavailable0
My daughter is prescribed them for diabetes and I'm seeing my specialist next week for the same.
We have tried other diabetic medication.. our BMI was also very high .. so it was decided this is the best medication for us. Kill two birds with one stone.

AlpineMuesli · 21/05/2024 10:31

Why worry about a disaster before it's happened?

peachgreen · 21/05/2024 10:32

I've not given up hope on education, exercise, reevaluating diet etc can work

But statistics overwhelmingly show that those things don’t work.

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:33

@TabithaTimeTurner

Yes I think that is what makes me uneasy.

Everyone knows the processed food and stupid diets are a cause of this crisis. Yet because of financial reasons we can't tackle that... instead they sell us drugs to "fix" it.

Why can't we fix the cause... I guess money is the answer

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KimberleyClark · 21/05/2024 10:33

Surely they are meant for People who are very/morbidly obese and not those who need to lose a stone or two or who don’t need to lose weight but want to stay slim. Using them for the latter is abusing them. The same as obtaining drugs for underactive thyroid when you don’t need them is.

LiterallyOnFire · 21/05/2024 10:33

Hmm… yes, in that I cook from scratch every day to make sure I get enough protein and good fats and avoid carbs. But things like saying no to cake or whatever are a million trillion times easier than before I took Saxenda. When I dieted before that sort of thing was so, so hard. Now it’s pretty easy.

I did regain a stone and a half last year when I slipped back into more “normal” eating habits – I still wasn’t overeating really but I went back to having lunch, having bread etc and my body just can’t handle that, I don’t know if it’s from years of dieting or because I have PCOS or what, but I have learned that I cannot eat carbs or eat more than 1200 calories a day without gaining weight. But I lost that stone and a half again once I went back to OMAD.

Thanks for taking the time to explain.

It sounds like a correction to the metabolic effects of a modern diet, if anything. But I suppose until you take it, you can't really understand. Fascinating, though and I'm sure it's a good thing.

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:35

@KimberleyClark

Completely agree. If my dr prescribed it for diabetes/heart issues, sure that's fine but some celeb using it to drop to a size 8 from a 10 seems really really wrong on so many levels

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LiterallyOnFire · 21/05/2024 10:35

KimberleyClark · 21/05/2024 10:33

Surely they are meant for People who are very/morbidly obese and not those who need to lose a stone or two or who don’t need to lose weight but want to stay slim. Using them for the latter is abusing them. The same as obtaining drugs for underactive thyroid when you don’t need them is.

So it's the prescribing guidelines/enforcement that need tightening then?

FiveGuyPastry · 21/05/2024 10:35

I wouldn’t touch them with a barge pole, but each to their own and I can see they may be particularly useful if someone’s life is at significant risk.

I’m overweight but have lost 4 stones over the last 3 years through upping my activity levels and changing the type of food I eat, and the way I eat it. I’m never hungry and don’t think I’m missing out on anything.

peachgreen · 21/05/2024 10:35

takemeawayagain · 21/05/2024 10:31

But why are you only eating one meal a day? That is disordered eating like any other and is not considered to be safe. I think it's really worrying that people take these drugs and go from one extreme to another.

I’m only eating one meal a day because it’s the only way I can lose weight and keep it off. It’s as simple as that. That meal is carefully balanced to make sure I’m getting everything I need. Studies have shown that fasting is beneficial and it certainly has been for me.

I’m not a slave to it – if I’m genuinely hungry I’ll have some fruit and yoghurt or whatever – but honestly, I don’t need to eat more now. I listen to my body and eat when I’m hungry. Mostly that’s once a day.

peachgreen · 21/05/2024 10:37

It sounds like a correction to the metabolic effects of a modern diet, if anything.

yes I think there is definitely something to this. I was an overweight child and have been dieting on and off since I was 11. I went from a size 14 to a 22 in 6 months after surgery on my ovaries. I have no doubt that I fucked my metabolism through my own stupidity!

VyeBrator · 21/05/2024 10:37

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:33

@TabithaTimeTurner

Yes I think that is what makes me uneasy.

Everyone knows the processed food and stupid diets are a cause of this crisis. Yet because of financial reasons we can't tackle that... instead they sell us drugs to "fix" it.

Why can't we fix the cause... I guess money is the answer

People are the answer, not money.

We're living in an 'I want it now' society.

People want cheap food, fast and in plentiful portions and they'll want to lose weight fast too, with as little effort as possible.

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