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All these weight loss drugs... surely we are heading towards disaster?

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shellswirl · 21/05/2024 09:44

So as we all know there are various weight loss drugs that have become very popular in recent months.

It seems like the whole of Hollywood is using it.

Even regular people are spending huge amounts of money on it from online pharmacies.

I get that these drugs might be useful for certain people with real medical conditions, but really a lot of people are using it as a quick fix to be thin.

With no consideration to side effects or future health. And without thinking about what happens when you stop it?

Surely the best way to lose weight involves no drugs. No fad diets. But exercising more, moving more, eating a balanced diet. Retraining your brain and finding food and exercise you enjoy.

I say this as an overweight person too! Surely there are other ways.

If every other person is taking these drugs won't there be a huge pool of people to monitor side effects etc?

Aibu to say the whole thing makes me feel very uneasy.

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Userjal · 21/05/2024 12:57

ToBeOrNotToBee · 21/05/2024 10:11

My mother died aged 31 from obesity related conditions. Up to her late 30s she was healthy. Then weight crept on, things started failing and she developed diabetes which was uncontrollable.
Aged 30, I put on 3 stones in a year. I was eating 1360 calories a day maximum. I tried to cycle like I would previously but had no energy at all. Migraines were a daily occupancy. My hair started falling out, I got muscle wastage and I felt like I was dieing.
My GP was useless but eventually I got referred to an endocrinologist. They were very unhelpful until I mentioned my mother. By this point I was 32 and very obese. Eyebrows were raised and they took me seriously. They done a whole hormone profile and saw that my ovaries had given up, my cortisol was through the roof, my testerone double the highest range for a female, and I had insulin resistance. I was on the precipice of developing diabetes and going just like my mum. There's still no official diagnosis, 2 years on but I take a cocktail of drugs to manage things. HRT, metformin, various vitamins and supplements and I have found out I'm also protein deficient so my body doesn't seem to absorb as much from food as a normal person. It's a recipe for disaster essentially.
I lost 2 stone of the 5 I gained making lifestyle changes and the medication working. But I am still obese. I cannot lose the belly, fat upper arms and I want to feel healthy. I want to feel attractive. I don't want to be fat or be reminded that I am so much like my mother and am a ticking time bomb.
So I started mounjaro, out of my own pocket. I'm on my 3rd week and have lost 2.7kg in that time. The belly is disappearing. My cravings for sugar and waking up starving every day has gone.
I'm aware it's not a cure. I'm aware that I will need to stop it one day. But right now it's helping my form good habits and forcing me to rethink my lifestyle and diet whilst giving me the breathing space to do so.
I'm hoping it will stop lessen my risk of developing diabetes and maybe even let my body start it's own natural cycles again, giving me my fertility back.
Why is this something to be concerned about?

Have you been tested for Cushings disease, a friend of mine has it and your symptoms sound so similar to there’s. She self diagnosed using google prompting the dr to test for it

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 12:57

If when you stop taking it, the weight goes back on... then it perhaps isn't a miracle? Isn't rehabilitation, education, therapy, looking at social reasons for obesity a better long term solution?

A comparison would be me taking antidepressants. They were good for sure but had side effects I didn't like. And I really did need some CBT alongside to educate my brain, retrain my thinking etc. therapy was more successful long term for me.

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Foxblue · 21/05/2024 12:59

Where I'm confused is - setting aside all the people who suffer with thyroid issues etc, or hormonal issues like a PP.

People say 'diets don't work, that's why I need the injections' but then the injections mean you eat less and lose weight, and people have reported having lessened cravings for unhealthy food. So eating less and eating better, ie a diet, does in fact work?

I think, much like 'gentle parenting' has been misconstrued by people as 'never telling your kids off'
The phrase 'diets don't work' has been taken by people as very literal, when what it actually means is 'diet culture does not work'

But there are people out there saying 'diets don't work' then going on the injections and eating less and losing weight. So a diet does work? Am i missing something here or should people be more careful and say 'diet CULTURE' doesn't work.

Again, just to reiterate, I am not talking about people with medical conditions, I am talking about people with issues with hunger cues, portion sizes, emotionally triggered eating etc (I am in that camp)

I've tried googling and I'm none the wiser. am i just being super literal about this and everyone actually means 'diet culture' not 'diet'?

KimberleyClark · 21/05/2024 12:59

These drugs have their place but we mustn’t lose sight of the fact that losing weight can itself be addictive. I did WW about 10 years ago and went down to 8st 4lb and a size 6-8. In hindsight that was too much to lose. I’m 5ft 2 but not in any sense slight, medium/large frame, wide hips and shoulders, big boobs, big hands and feet (size 5.5). I’m now a stone heavier than I was when I started the WW. I have an underactive thyroid and I think doing the WW probably made it worse- the thyroid needs a moderate calorie intake to support its function. The weight I now hope to get down to is 9.5stone.

Phantasmagorically · 21/05/2024 13:00

If when you stop taking it, the weight goes back on... then it perhaps isn't a miracle?

well that was my point...

Poppysmom22 · 21/05/2024 13:01

Look you can think what you like but you do you. I have been on a diet since I was 15 I am sick of starving myself and being hungry. I’m on my second week of mounjaro and for the first time in my life I don’t think about food and eating from the moment I wake up. Somehow it also makes me WANT healthy food rather than crisps or junk. So I will take it for what it is a chance to reprogramme and hopefully make a life long change

Codlingmoths · 21/05/2024 13:06

LiterallyOnFire · 21/05/2024 10:08

Why "DRUGS"?

Why not just type "medications" like a calm, sane person?

Definitely. I bet it took willpower to just put that, and to not add DANGEROUS, ILLEGAL

JJathome · 21/05/2024 13:08

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 10:21

I wonder if the true answer for a lot of people is in the food we eat. There is so much processed muck. We've been conditioned to eat it. Go to the supermarket and there's thousands of things wrapped in plastic, in boxes with weird ingredients.

100 years ago food was simple. Grains, meat, fruit, veg...

If I was "president of the world" I would tackle the food industry. And educate kids better. I wound also invest more money in sports. The uk has bloody awful track record for investing in sports compared to counties like the USA and australia.

These medications are not the answer in my mind.

Medications have their place for sure but in my mind they are for things we don't have a solution for already. And in this case there are other viable solutions.

What are you talking about. It’s not just about healthy food, you cannot ban everything that contains fat or sugar, and portion size is a lot to do with it. If it was as easy as you say, no one would be overweight, inc yourself.

JJathome · 21/05/2024 13:09

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 12:46

I'm getting a bit fed up of people that have been prescribed this medicine because of diabetes or clinical obesity. This thread isn't for you. If your GP days get on this drug then great. There is a medical reason.

If you are buying it privately on some dodgy online pharmacy because you read some celeb got thin on it etc (and fucking up supplies for actual diabetics) then yes I think it's wrong. I think it's a shortcut and I don't think people care about side effects or long term implications.

If I went to my GP today as an overweight 40 year old with a couple of stone to drop. Would he prescribe it? If not... why?

Because of the cost. How do you not know this?

shearwater2 · 21/05/2024 13:10

It must seem such a mountain to climb when you are so much overweight- sometimes people need to actually lose weight to be able to lose more weight, IYSWIM, as it become easier to exercise and find clothes to wear to exercise in, you are able to move about more freely etc, and they start to feel better in general. That's where I think drugs, surgery etc come in, and I can see that appetite control can be so useful as well, as someone whose appetite vastly outweighs the calories I actually need, particularly what I need to lose weight.

I remember when I was three stone overweight and a size 18 I couldn't find many exercise clothes to fit, and that was in 2016 so not very long ago. I'm struggling with the last stone or so but I don't think these drugs are designed for me, but they may well help others.

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 13:10

@Poppysmom22 were you prescribed it?

If so then, you'd dr knows best.

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shellswirl · 21/05/2024 13:15

@JJathome is it cost though?

Surely it's not all about that? In some cases they weigh up various things. Cost vs benefit, side effects, alternative solutions. Who gets prescribed medicines on the nhs takes quite a bit more than just "this is too much money"

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queenparrot · 21/05/2024 13:16

I agree. They are not "well-tested" medications. They have no known safety data for use (especially as weightloss treatments) beyond a couple of years, or less. Most studies are shorter term. Long-term effects are basically unknown, and unpleasant, severe, life-changing and life-threatening side-effects and after-effects of use are emerging.

Oh, but the obesity crisis! You can lose weight taking class A drugs, but no-one suggests that's a good idea.

Poppysmom22 · 21/05/2024 13:16

Yes I was prescribed it by a doctor and I pay for it as it’s a private prescription treatment and is not available on the NHS, this is the same for anyone who uses it. It’s a prescription medication and cant be bought online without one. Much like my dogs working tablets.
There seems to be some assumption that people are going into this as a first choice when actually for me it is a last resort and was a considered thought out and researched decision. I’m sick of punishing myself with hunger and deprivation to try to undo 40years of bad eating psychology.

elfies · 21/05/2024 13:18

How about the people who were using this drug already , such as diabetics , who now find it is not available ,even though its prescribed .

Poppysmom22 · 21/05/2024 13:19

Mounjaro isn’t used by diabetics it’s specifically designed for weight loss and isn’t a co-opted diabetes treatment.

Phantasmagorically · 21/05/2024 13:20

I do think that fat people have to put up with a lot of moralising. Being fat is bad but not losing weight in the approved manner (Ozempic, weight loss surgery) is also bad and akin to cheating.

I agree that people need to work on the psychological reasons behind overeating, but I can understand that appeal of these ‘magical’ new drugs.

Poppysmom22 · 21/05/2024 13:20

if I stay obese in 5/6 years I will actually be diabetic so should I wait while then to act would that be more acceptable to you@elfies

BustyLee · 21/05/2024 13:21

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/05/2024 09:58

Seems they’re highly effective at preventing heart attacks, with or without weight loss.

Weight loss by exercising more and eating healthily is also very effective.

Crikeyalmighty · 21/05/2024 13:22

@PeachBlossom1234 well done lovely- x

TorroFerney · 21/05/2024 13:23

SabreIsMyFave · 21/05/2024 10:12

I don't think anyone believes that you will take one dose, and be 10 stone lighter the following week FFS. 🙄

But it's a sad situation we are in, when people have to take DRUGS to lose weight!

What's your stance on DRUGS for keeping blood pressure under control, DRUGS for Type 2 diabetes caused by diet, DRUGS (methadone ) to get people off Heroin? Do you disagree with all those as well?

Babadoobiedoo · 21/05/2024 13:23

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 12:57

If when you stop taking it, the weight goes back on... then it perhaps isn't a miracle? Isn't rehabilitation, education, therapy, looking at social reasons for obesity a better long term solution?

A comparison would be me taking antidepressants. They were good for sure but had side effects I didn't like. And I really did need some CBT alongside to educate my brain, retrain my thinking etc. therapy was more successful long term for me.

Why does it have to be one or the other? Why do you think one solution that worked for you will work for everyone else?

I have family members who invested a lot of time and money into CBT, but ultimately needed antidepressants to regain mental health.

some people might do well with a behavioural modification programme, but it is vanishingly rare for anyone to lose significant amounts of weight and sustain it longer term, which suggests to me that something else (or something in addition) is probably required for many people.

eggplant16 · 21/05/2024 13:23

KimberleyClark · 21/05/2024 12:59

These drugs have their place but we mustn’t lose sight of the fact that losing weight can itself be addictive. I did WW about 10 years ago and went down to 8st 4lb and a size 6-8. In hindsight that was too much to lose. I’m 5ft 2 but not in any sense slight, medium/large frame, wide hips and shoulders, big boobs, big hands and feet (size 5.5). I’m now a stone heavier than I was when I started the WW. I have an underactive thyroid and I think doing the WW probably made it worse- the thyroid needs a moderate calorie intake to support its function. The weight I now hope to get down to is 9.5stone.

I think clubs absolutely mess with your head and your metabolism. I wish to God my mother had not made me go when I was 18 and quite clearly trying to sort out my MH by stuffing in cakes.

Yes again , I am face with trying to chip away at weight gain.

Poppysmom22 · 21/05/2024 13:24

I really don’t understand the hate for people who are trying to make a positive change to their health. If I don’t do this now in 5/6 years I will be costing the NHS millions and probably will do so for the rest of my life. At the moment I’m costing them nothing.

shellswirl · 21/05/2024 13:24

Here's another thought. Maybe humans aren't all meant to be size 8.

I've been slim, I've been heavier. During my twin pregnancy I was told to put weight on as much as I could as it had better outcomes. Ive been fitter and less fit. Life is a journey.

I was enjoying a little break in this obsession with wanting to be thin. I'd noticed that social media influencers were focusing on real bodies (Georgie swallow as an example) and fitness (em clarkson). We had a shift towards eating less processed foods. Women had started lifting weights and toned, became the new thin.

And now... we are saying nah screw that, take this drug instead. Keep taking it forever to be thin.

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