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Schools insistence on uniform rules are behind the times

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spanieleyes22 · 17/05/2024 21:26

I know I will be slated for saying this but just reading a thread from a poster who is disappointed that there is not a more formal dress code at work and so many people saying everyone is more casual in offices all over the place and suits are more worn by older people in the city. Yet schools seem to put so much faith in whether a boy keeps his shirt tucked in or how short a girls skirt is. God forbid they dye their hair or have more than 1 stud earring. Isn't it time for schools to loosen up wrt dress code? In the Scandinavian countries there is no uniform. Does this mean their teenagers are wild and don't learn anything. Why are we so hung up on not allowing teenagers to express themselves.

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sellyourcar · 22/05/2024 10:05

TheKeatingFive · 22/05/2024 09:54

I don’t know anyone who wears a uniform for work. I know people do, but l dispute the fact that they are a big part of life.

Agreed. I can't think of anyone in my close acquaintance who wears a uniform to work

I see many people in uniform daily.

School groundsman, checkout operators, nursery workers, GPs and nurses, delivery drivers, gardeners, the list is endless

TheKeatingFive · 22/05/2024 10:06

sellyourcar · 22/05/2024 10:05

I see many people in uniform daily.

School groundsman, checkout operators, nursery workers, GPs and nurses, delivery drivers, gardeners, the list is endless

GPs don't wear uniforms

sellyourcar · 22/05/2024 10:08

In some surgeries they do.

GiantCheeseMonster · 22/05/2024 10:09

sellyourcar · 22/05/2024 10:05

I see many people in uniform daily.

School groundsman, checkout operators, nursery workers, GPs and nurses, delivery drivers, gardeners, the list is endless

And do any of them wear stiff polyester blazers, trousers and ties? Are there regulations about what colour they can dye their hair?

DanielGault · 22/05/2024 10:10

sellyourcar · 22/05/2024 10:05

I see many people in uniform daily.

School groundsman, checkout operators, nursery workers, GPs and nurses, delivery drivers, gardeners, the list is endless

Lots of them wear uniforms because they don't want to wreck their own clothes. School doesn't wreck your clothes.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 22/05/2024 10:12

Gp’s don’t wear uniforms. Neither do my Evri and Yodel couriers.

The guy l got to do my garden didn’t wear one either. The list isn’t endless.

Teachers and lecturers don’t, neither do solicitors or civil servants. Ds is a journalist, he doesn’t, Dh works in medical services he doesn’t. The receptionists at my gp didn’t have them on when l went yesterday and neither do the receptionists at the dentist.

The wait staff in restaurants don’t wear them, neither do baristas. Its service jobs that wear them.

PuttingDownRoots · 22/05/2024 10:22

I'm pretty sure the only reason manages to put his army uniform on in the mornings is because of all those years of practice...

Not because he's been able to put clothes on since toddlerhood. Putting uniform on isn't exactly a difficult task...

Blondieblueeyes · 22/05/2024 17:19

DanielGault · 21/05/2024 22:31

Isn't that it though, you loved what you were wearing? Lots of kids don't love uniforms, why should they be forced into wearing them. They should wear what they're comfortable in, within reason.

I loved it because of not having to think what to wear every day, and everyone pretty much looked the same. I can't say that I would have chosen to wear a shirt and tie age 7 but by the time I got to sixth form where will still had to wear a formal shirt/tie/blazer uniform I'd got used to it. My children also wear uniform for school but have the choice of their own clothes out of school time. I tell them it's just like having 'workwear'.

Blondieblueeyes · 22/05/2024 17:22

Toddlerteaplease · 21/05/2024 22:37

@Blondieblueeyes I have dresses for the summer. My trust allows us to wear shorts with tunics. It makes my teeth itch. It looks dreadful and so unprofessional. I'm dying to start wearing the silver belt buckle I was given when I qualified, quite fancy a cape and a starched head dress as well.

I've never heard of shorts with tunics before, only badly fitting trousers hence wearing the dress, plus I'm not really a trousers person. What do you wear on your legs with shorts??

Parker231 · 22/05/2024 17:22

Blondieblueeyes · 22/05/2024 17:19

I loved it because of not having to think what to wear every day, and everyone pretty much looked the same. I can't say that I would have chosen to wear a shirt and tie age 7 but by the time I got to sixth form where will still had to wear a formal shirt/tie/blazer uniform I'd got used to it. My children also wear uniform for school but have the choice of their own clothes out of school time. I tell them it's just like having 'workwear'.

Is it really that complicated to get dressed in jeans and a hoodie or shorts and a T-shirt in the warmer weather?

Blondieblueeyes · 22/05/2024 17:26

DappledThings · 19/05/2024 21:44

Well never. But if I switched jobs to one where a tie and blazer was the uniform I'd be pretty happy about it.

But then I've never been one for the argument that school uniform is to prepare children for the world of work. I don't think it has anything to do with what adults wear. I just think it looks nice on school children.

My sister is a hotel manager and has to wear a tie/jacket/skirt uniform, and she likes it. It looks very smart in my opinion.

Blondieblueeyes · 22/05/2024 17:40

@Parker231 not for some children, but others might have either very few clothes in which case the jeans/hoodie get worn for school/after school/weekends and consequently start to look very worn. Or they might be the 'wrong sort' of jeans/hoodie and lead to bullying. I have never had a problem with a separate set of clothes for school and others for home.

Parker231 · 22/05/2024 18:45

Blondieblueeyes · 22/05/2024 17:40

@Parker231 not for some children, but others might have either very few clothes in which case the jeans/hoodie get worn for school/after school/weekends and consequently start to look very worn. Or they might be the 'wrong sort' of jeans/hoodie and lead to bullying. I have never had a problem with a separate set of clothes for school and others for home.

It’s much cheaper at non uniform - just one type of clothes and no separate school and home clothes

Bullying wasn’t an issue (and no wasting time on policing the wearing of blazers, ties tied etc) and branded clothes were the exception rather than the norm. No one was interested in what you wore.

Auburngal · 23/05/2024 16:59

As it bucketed down all yesterday, my friend's DD2 shoes were wet from walking a mile to/from school in them. They were still wet this morning. She wore her elder sister's shoes which she wears during her PT work at a Tesco Express - not working. They are slightly on the trainer side of shoes. She got a telling off from her head of year.

Friend's DD2 does not own another pair of black shoes - she wears all sorts of colours outside school.

I doubt this wasn't the only case like this yesterday/today

whatkatydid2014 · 13/09/2024 08:10

Treesinmygarden · 18/05/2024 00:07

They really haven't. Schools have had similar uniform policies since God was a wee boy. I'm ancient and my school uniform was the same, as was my mother's before me, at the same school.

What kind of colour of coat would you find acceptable? Do you think they should all wear white ffs?

The schools do focus on teaching the kids. Since time immemorial.

My daughter’s school doesn’t have a policy for coats. Many of the kids wear ones with reflective material in panels or that are made entirely of material that lights up brightly if hit by headlights (they look silvery in daylight)

Sorrelia · 13/09/2024 08:23

I come from a country with no uniform and now have DC about to enter schools in the UK, so I will embark on my own uniform journey :)
Agree with all the comments but to offer the perspective of someone who grew up in a posh area without uniform; it was not pleasant. My mum (rightly so) didn't want to buy me the latest branded clothes every girl was wearing in my school and as a result, in secondary, I felt sooo uncomfortable in my skin going to school every morning. Way to add weight to teenage angst!
So I'm very much in favour of uniforms. It's a great leveller and to the outside eye, looks really smart and cute! To a foreigner eye at least :D

NeedToChangeName · 13/09/2024 08:36

We're in Scotland, where uniforms are encouraged but not legally enforceable

Our DC's school has a pragmatic approach - white shirt, any black skirt or trousers (can be jeans or leggings) and black and / or white shoes (black trainers and converse are allowed). Blazers for sale, but tend to be worn only by S1 and prefects. Only compulsory item is school tie, cost £5

Kids have a bit of flexibility to express themselves, but mostly conform to this relaxed dress code

Zanatdy · 13/09/2024 08:41

Yeah my son had to wear a full suit at sixth form but I had to buy him a new set of smart casual (chino’s and short sleeve shirts) for his internship in the city. DD has started at same sixth form and they have relaxed the rules a bit in practice (no blazer enforced now) but in writing it still requires a suit and blazer for girls. Things are definitely less formal now, but I don’t think secondary schools need to relax uniforms.

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