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Auriol Grey's manslaughter sentence overturned for killing cyclist. Correct decision?

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Locutus2000 · 08/05/2024 14:17

Reported in multiple outlets - BBC.

Mixed feelings - it was a complex case with no winners on any side.

Auriol Grey

Pedestrian Auriol Grey has Huntingdon cyclist death conviction overturned

A woman whose actions led to the death of a pensioner cycling on a pavement wins a court appeal.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cambridgeshire-68975335

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Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 08/05/2024 21:42

WolfFoxHare · 08/05/2024 21:17

Can you provide a link to a reputable website that describes her previous ‘violent outbursts’? I haven’t read anything that describes these.

It was something I read at the time. It's also irrelevant now because her behaviour did cause the death of Celia Ward, trauma to Celia Wards family and as well as the Driver of the car, her family and the breakdown of her marriage. Auriol should be required to have supervision when outside of the house.

DoreenonTill8 · 08/05/2024 21:42

@Cailleach1 that's not the same, AG pushed CW into the path of a car because she wanted to, not because of infrastructure.

SharpLily · 08/05/2024 21:43

Realduchymarmalade · 08/05/2024 21:38

Her total lack of remorse and the fact that she left her dying in the road and went off to do her shopping is monstrous but the posters on here describing her as a poor, vulnerable victim and saying their sympathies are with her, that they were horrified on her behalf are nauseating and perverse in the extreme.

I'm not perverse. I have simply heard contradictory information and am sensible enough to realise that I wasn't there, I don't personally know the people involved and therefore I don't know enough truth about what really happened to be glorying in the idea of sending an apparently brain damaged woman to jail for years.

AngeloMysterioso · 08/05/2024 21:43

DoreenonTill8 · 08/05/2024 21:26

I'm sure Celia's family and Carla will be so happy AGs learned a lesson that it's not ok to kill people.

Well, she hasn’t though, has she. The opposite in fact. She’s learned that she can shove cyclists in front of cars and get away with it because reasons.

FourLeggedBuckers · 08/05/2024 21:43

AngeloMysterioso · 08/05/2024 21:39

The reason horse riders are told to slow down when passing pedestrians is because horses can get spooked. Bicycles, being incapable of independent thought, cannot.

The suggestion that every cyclist should slow down to a crawl or stop and get off their bike altogether every time they pass a pedestrian is absurd.

Actually slowing a horse down often makes the chance of it behaving unpredictability higher rather than lower. The reason horse riders slow down around pedestrians has a lot more to do with the fact it is intimidating for the pedestrian when horses pass them at speed. That also applies to cyclists.

AutismProf · 08/05/2024 21:44

Realduchymarmalade · 08/05/2024 21:07

I find it sickening that autism is being used as an excuse. The autism is incidental. You can be autistic and also a nasty piece of work who feels entitled to regularly subject people to violent and aggressive outbursts.

The autism is absolutely not incidental and if you think that then you know nothing about autism.

It explains why she was determined to correct a person on a bike that she believed to be in the wrong, and it explains why she left afterwards and carried on with her shopping.

People who don't understand autism really shouldn't have an opinion here. The law courts accept it would have made a difference in this case if diagnosed before the event. That doesn't mean I am autistic so I can get a machete and attack every cyclist I see; but that isn't what happened here.

Cailleach1 · 08/05/2024 21:44

Has nobody actually got a time stamp for the moment the physical contact between the pedestrian and the cyclist occurs?

Towerofsong · 08/05/2024 21:44

LauderSyme · 08/05/2024 15:20

I think in reality and morally, Auriol did cause Celia's death. Auriol moved across the pavement towards the cyclist rather than staying on her existing trajectory on foot. She could even have moved towards the railings to allow Celia more space.

She swore then gestured when the two were dangerously close to each other.
Auriol obviously has vulnerabilities that might explain (but not excuse imo) her behaviour.

But, as has now been decided, as a matter of law she cannot be held accountable for the death, because legally her actions did not meet the criteria for the crime she was convicted of.

Exactly. From the video there is absolutely nothing that indicates AG was afraid or nervous of the cyclist. She did not take any avoiding action, she continued down the middle of the footpath and actually moved slightly into the path of the cyclist. She looked aggressive, not afraid and intimidated as another poster claimed.

Mytholmroyd · 08/05/2024 21:44

@AngeloMysterioso I disagree - they should behave responsibly in shared spaces and pedestrians on foot are the more vulnerable party. They cannot be absolved of responsibility for paying attention to what is going on around them.and riding with due care and attention. They are not a special case.

Kalevala · 08/05/2024 21:45

At least the public know her face now, so they can keep their distance, reducing the chance of future violence.

DoreenonTill8 · 08/05/2024 21:47

AutismProf · 08/05/2024 21:44

The autism is absolutely not incidental and if you think that then you know nothing about autism.

It explains why she was determined to correct a person on a bike that she believed to be in the wrong, and it explains why she left afterwards and carried on with her shopping.

People who don't understand autism really shouldn't have an opinion here. The law courts accept it would have made a difference in this case if diagnosed before the event. That doesn't mean I am autistic so I can get a machete and attack every cyclist I see; but that isn't what happened here.

But that sounds like you ARE saying that what she did is OK, because it was OK to her?

mrsdineen2 · 08/05/2024 21:47

You do have to wonder how she sleeps at night.

Mytholmroyd · 08/05/2024 21:47

FourLeggedBuckers · 08/05/2024 21:43

Actually slowing a horse down often makes the chance of it behaving unpredictability higher rather than lower. The reason horse riders slow down around pedestrians has a lot more to do with the fact it is intimidating for the pedestrian when horses pass them at speed. That also applies to cyclists.

Exactly. This idea that cyclists should never be expected to slow down is absurd. Car drivers are expected to drive at a speed which is safe for the conditions. Why are cyclists exempt?

Realduchymarmalade · 08/05/2024 21:48

It’s desperately unfair the cctv doesn’t show the full story of her outburst but no one could watch it and not realise she deliberately went head on at the cyclist intending to force her into the road into fast traffic. Devastating to think of how terrified Celia must’ve been in her last moments.

VerasChips · 08/05/2024 21:48

sandyhappypeople · 08/05/2024 21:41

It's not what you 'think' though, it's what you can 'prove' that's what's important when it comes to the facts.

This case aside, you could literally murder someone and if there is no evidence or proof beyond reasonable doubt, then you will remain scot free, it doesn't mean you didn't do it.

Her aggressive actions that day led to Celia Ward's death.

It's not what you 'think' though, it's what you can 'prove' that's what's important when it comes to the facts

That’s correct.

Kalevala · 08/05/2024 21:48

AutismProf · 08/05/2024 21:44

The autism is absolutely not incidental and if you think that then you know nothing about autism.

It explains why she was determined to correct a person on a bike that she believed to be in the wrong, and it explains why she left afterwards and carried on with her shopping.

People who don't understand autism really shouldn't have an opinion here. The law courts accept it would have made a difference in this case if diagnosed before the event. That doesn't mean I am autistic so I can get a machete and attack every cyclist I see; but that isn't what happened here.

I'm autistic. You don't 'correct' someone through violence.

XenoBitch · 08/05/2024 21:49

Realduchymarmalade · 08/05/2024 21:48

It’s desperately unfair the cctv doesn’t show the full story of her outburst but no one could watch it and not realise she deliberately went head on at the cyclist intending to force her into the road into fast traffic. Devastating to think of how terrified Celia must’ve been in her last moments.

I am pretty sure I read that the CCTV does show AG pushing the lady, but it it obviously not available to the public as it is so distressing.

The jury will have seen the whole lot.

SharpLily · 08/05/2024 21:50

Cailleach1 · 08/05/2024 21:44

Has nobody actually got a time stamp for the moment the physical contact between the pedestrian and the cyclist occurs?

Edited

Unlikely given that two trials seem to have been unable to establish any physical contact as incontrovertible fact, based upon the video.

XenoBitch · 08/05/2024 21:52

Kalevala · 08/05/2024 21:48

I'm autistic. You don't 'correct' someone through violence.

I understand, but some autistic people are so entrenched in their rules, and insisting others abide by them, that they can get violent. I have mentioned in a previous post about a friend who gets into an absolute rage about people not following "the rules", and one time it was with a cyclist and I immediately thought of the AG case and wondered if it was going to be another one.

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 08/05/2024 21:52

AutismProf · 08/05/2024 21:44

The autism is absolutely not incidental and if you think that then you know nothing about autism.

It explains why she was determined to correct a person on a bike that she believed to be in the wrong, and it explains why she left afterwards and carried on with her shopping.

People who don't understand autism really shouldn't have an opinion here. The law courts accept it would have made a difference in this case if diagnosed before the event. That doesn't mean I am autistic so I can get a machete and attack every cyclist I see; but that isn't what happened here.

Autism presents differently from individual to individual. How it presents in Auriol is relevant to determining how safe other people are around her and how much supervision she should have outside of her home. Auriol's sense of right and wrong does not trump other peoples rights to safety.

0gfhty · 08/05/2024 21:53

If you are cycling on a shared path that means cycling very slowly to the point you can stop if there's a sudden hazard. This is boringly slow. Such as a child not looking behind then and moving over to the other side of the path, or even an adult! Does everyone look behind them when veering to the other side of the path perhaps to avoid another pedestrian? I dont think so. From the video screen shot of the incident on sky news the path is far far too small to be a shared path and the cyclist should have had the sense to dismount or wait until the pedestrian had passed. I'm surprised that any town planner deemed this section of the path as shared.

AutismProf · 08/05/2024 21:55

DoreenonTill8 · 08/05/2024 21:47

But that sounds like you ARE saying that what she did is OK, because it was OK to her?

No that is not what I am saying. Her behaviour can be understood as less culpable if you understand she is an autistic person who has no insight and has had no support because she has been undiagnosed for 49 years. She is behaving like a person with severe difficulties in flexible thinking and social understanding, which is what she is. These are core differences in autism.

This is what I see rather than her being an evil person who deliberately pushed an elderly woman into traffic, who should have anticipated the potential consequences of her actions and been more balanced in understanding the shared space on the pavement for pedestrians and cyclists. She was incapable of doing this because of her autism and learning difficulties, with tragic effect for Celia Ward.

I am saying this woman was undiagnosed and insufficiently supported when it's obvious to anyone who knows anything about autism or learning disabilities that she has them both. She has fallen between the cracks of support and diagnosis and this tragedy has resulted.

DoreenonTill8 · 08/05/2024 21:56

XenoBitch · 08/05/2024 21:52

I understand, but some autistic people are so entrenched in their rules, and insisting others abide by them, that they can get violent. I have mentioned in a previous post about a friend who gets into an absolute rage about people not following "the rules", and one time it was with a cyclist and I immediately thought of the AG case and wondered if it was going to be another one.

So how and who manages that? They are violent and like this case kill someone and it's 'oh well, they didn't follow x rules, oh well'.

AutismProf · 08/05/2024 21:56

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 08/05/2024 21:52

Autism presents differently from individual to individual. How it presents in Auriol is relevant to determining how safe other people are around her and how much supervision she should have outside of her home. Auriol's sense of right and wrong does not trump other peoples rights to safety.

Edited

You are absolutely right. She should have been diagnosed and she clearly needed more social support than she was getting.

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