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to ask your thoughts on this? Fatal shooting during burglary

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itsjustataste · 03/05/2024 23:34

Happened near me very recently and our community seems very torn with lots of people slinging insults at both sides. Lots of people shouting about playing stupid games, win stupid prizes etc... whilst others calling the shooter a murderer.

I find it very sad that someone so young has ultimately lost their life and has got mixed up in this sort of thing.

BUT that being said, I don't have any ill feeling toward the farmer either and cannot say that I wouldn't do the same if faced with 3 people breaking into my home, especially if I had my children in the house.

The other 2 suspects arrested for aggravated burglary meaning a weapon was involved and there had been a break in at the same home the night previously too.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

Marcus Smith

Whaley Bridge: Farmer held over burglary shooting death

The man is being detained on suspicion of murder following the shooting, the BBC understands.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

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TerryFuckwit · 04/05/2024 12:48

Bookworm1111 · 04/05/2024 12:34

So where does it stop if we start allowing the shooting dead of burglars? Cutting the hands off shoplifters? Stringing up drink drivers?

"Cutting the hands off shoplifters?"

Definitely, if it's a repeat offence.

As for drink drivers, they should be banned from driving for life. If they're caught driving again they should be imprisoned.

Parsley1234 · 04/05/2024 12:48

@darksideofthestudio are the kids travellers ? How can you justify your kid breaking into a house armed ? You can’t more and more places are having private security firms places like Eaton Square common place and who can blame them we are not safe as civilians the law is weak and criminals know it

Blondiebeachbabe · 04/05/2024 12:49

Gwenhwyfar · 04/05/2024 12:39

There is hardly any information in the article.
Was the farmer defending himself? Seems unlikely if he's to be tried for attempted murder?
Did the burglars threaten the family? Were they there to harm the family or only to steal from them?

The punishment for stealing is not death.
People can defend themselves or others if personally attacked, but not kill others because they're taking their belongings.

Did the burglars threaten the family? Were they there to harm the family or only to steal from them?

If only there was time for the farmer to ask them these questions and then ruminate on what to do. To weigh up the pro's and con's, in a thoroughly sensible manner. Perhaps go over all the options, just like someone on Who Wants To Be a Millionaire.

Or - is it possible, that at 1am, in the dark, when you find 3 men fin your house with weapons, with your children sleeping in the next room, that you make a life or death decision and shoot, before they have the chance to knock you out?

MississippiAF · 04/05/2024 12:50

Curlyreine · 04/05/2024 12:38

Most burglars are opportunists and petty theives.

Armed burglars who return to a place they previously attempted to burgle are clearly in another category.

Let's not lump them all together.

They’re all scum. I’ll happily lump them all together

Bookworm1111 · 04/05/2024 12:51

SpecialOPs · 04/05/2024 12:42

Apparently these 3 men had weapons themselves. They were not just ‘burglars’, who generally rob empty homes, but home invaders who may well have made the owner fear for his own life. This is nothing to do with protecting his property.

Was he supposed to just let them attack him and/or murder him? There have been many cases of people murdered in their own home by ‘burglars’.

"Apparently" being the word. You don't know what weapons they had. You don't know where on the property they were when he shot them. Any homeowner has the right to defend themselves, but you can't shoot people dead in any circumstance and not expect consequences.

Knitgoodwoman · 04/05/2024 12:51

Someone tried to break into our house a few years ago and I was surprised just how terrified I was. I am with the farmer, it’s incredibly scary and I’d do anything to protect my kids.

TerryFuckwit · 04/05/2024 12:52

OneTC · 04/05/2024 12:41

I agree the police let normal people down daily

But the death penalty isn't ever the correct option.

Like I said I feel zero sympathy for the dead bloke, but you shoot someone and get caught, you're gonna have some explaining to do

"but you shoot someone and get caught, you're gonna have some explaining to do"

"Why did you shoot the man?"
"Because he was trying to burgle my property."
"Okay, sir. Goodnight."

Simple.

Gwenhwyfar · 04/05/2024 12:52

"If only there was time for the farmer to ask them these questions and then ruminate on what to do. "

Well, where were the in the house for a start? If downstairs with the family sleeping upstairs, I would think they were only after possessions, which the vast majority of burglars are.

turkeymuffin · 04/05/2024 12:53

PoochiesPinkEars · 04/05/2024 00:02

The poor farmer being put in an impossible position. I hope he doesn't go to jail for this. The dress on him and his family must be incredible.
The guys who attacked him/his home/farm/family whatever created this whole mess and I've no sympathy for them. Their family are grieving I'm sure but they should recognise the farmer didn't ask for any of this.
Tragic but I hope the farmer is dealt with leniently.

People often turn their guilt into anger.

His family & friends must know a 19yo armed burglar was a total loser and society is better without him. If they don't know that they must be as bad as him. If they do know that they feel guilty they raised him / loved him.

TerryFuckwit · 04/05/2024 12:53

MississippiAF · 04/05/2024 12:50

They’re all scum. I’ll happily lump them all together

Spot on.

Blondiebeachbabe · 04/05/2024 12:55

Gwenhwyfar · 04/05/2024 12:52

"If only there was time for the farmer to ask them these questions and then ruminate on what to do. "

Well, where were the in the house for a start? If downstairs with the family sleeping upstairs, I would think they were only after possessions, which the vast majority of burglars are.

What do you think the weapons were for?

Teateaandmoretea · 04/05/2024 12:55

Well he’s been bailed which gives a strong hint as to which way it will go. They don’t bail murderers.

ruffjustiss · 04/05/2024 12:56

Curlyreine · 04/05/2024 12:38

Most burglars are opportunists and petty theives.

Armed burglars who return to a place they previously attempted to burgle are clearly in another category.

Let's not lump them all together.

How many opportunists and petty thieves does it take to destroy the quality of life of a vulnerable person?
The weak and elderly having to modify their way of life because the police have given up is not the sign of a thriving civilised society.

CurlewKate · 04/05/2024 12:56

@Teentaxidriver "Besides, if nothing else, why should we waste money keeping such people alive? Surely they forfeited any rights by torturing, raping and murdering children?"

I absolutely disagree with you.

But I thought we were talking about burglars?

quickchange1 · 04/05/2024 12:57

Don't think you need combine harvesters on an alleged weed farm 🤔

Do we know they entered the house? Or was it an outbuilding? Do we know if they threatened him with the weapons or did he shoot immediately? Do we know what he was protecting. Did he give them chance tonlut their weapons down?

No. There are going to be 2 sides to this story. If he has shot them as they're running away with a pre loaded shot gun, then it is murder.

Teateaandmoretea · 04/05/2024 12:57

The thing is a teenager is dead - they have to get to the facts which is the reason for the arrest. If it was the result of an aggravated burglary though I really have no sympathy. Farmers all have guns, I’d fully expect to be shot if I turned up tooled up and making threats at a farm.

Teateaandmoretea · 04/05/2024 12:59

quickchange1 · 04/05/2024 12:57

Don't think you need combine harvesters on an alleged weed farm 🤔

Do we know they entered the house? Or was it an outbuilding? Do we know if they threatened him with the weapons or did he shoot immediately? Do we know what he was protecting. Did he give them chance tonlut their weapons down?

No. There are going to be 2 sides to this story. If he has shot them as they're running away with a pre loaded shot gun, then it is murder.

No it isn’t necessarily murder at all. It would up to a jury to decide. Tony Martin’s gun also was illegal, which didn’t help his case.

MyRobotFriend · 04/05/2024 12:59

quickchange1 · 04/05/2024 08:02

iamtheblcksheep

People do give a shit though!! The rhetoric the farmer is some innocent Farmer Giles character is possibly crap! If he's protecting his huge weed grow and his takings from the proceeds of crime, some people may describe him as ‘scum’ too. They're all, possibly, involved in nefarious and dubious activities alongside their ‘day jobs’ and this is the sad outcome for them all.

What the fuck are you talking about.

WhenTheRedRedRobinComesBobBobBobbingAlong · 04/05/2024 13:04

I can’t believe how many people on here are on the ‘poor little’ burglars side!!

Definitely TeamFarmer here!

Play with fire, get your fingers burned!

Teateaandmoretea · 04/05/2024 13:04

I’d have thought that if it was a weed factory they would be detaining the farmer for that. They will have searched the joint. Where do people get this crap from? He has been bailed. No drugs charges.

He may well not be a lovely farmer Giles type he may be an arsehole who knows (some farmers are ime) but it doesn’t make him a murderer.

ConsuelaHammock · 04/05/2024 13:05

My sympathy is solely with the farmer and his poor family.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 04/05/2024 13:06

turkeymuffin · 04/05/2024 12:53

People often turn their guilt into anger.

His family & friends must know a 19yo armed burglar was a total loser and society is better without him. If they don't know that they must be as bad as him. If they do know that they feel guilty they raised him / loved him.

Spot on with the principle, but let's remember that we can't yet know which applies to this particular family

They could be a bunch of scumbags who'll blame everyone else or might be genuinely decent people who are traumatised themselves at what their son turned into - as said, we simply don't know

SnakesAndArrows · 04/05/2024 13:06

WhenTheRedRedRobinComesBobBobBobbingAlong · 04/05/2024 13:04

I can’t believe how many people on here are on the ‘poor little’ burglars side!!

Definitely TeamFarmer here!

Play with fire, get your fingers burned!

Who exactly is on “poor little burglar’s side”?

Dacadactyl · 04/05/2024 13:07

Don't go robbing people and you won't get shot.

Sad that a young lad died, but at the end of the day, if you go out on the rob you've gotta expect some people might just fight back and ultimately kill you.

MintTwirl · 04/05/2024 13:08

Teateaandmoretea · 04/05/2024 13:04

I’d have thought that if it was a weed factory they would be detaining the farmer for that. They will have searched the joint. Where do people get this crap from? He has been bailed. No drugs charges.

He may well not be a lovely farmer Giles type he may be an arsehole who knows (some farmers are ime) but it doesn’t make him a murderer.

Also if he is running some kind of weed farm then why would he have called the police out for the previous burglary the day before?

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