again, you have no idea.
As i said, my 17yo DS has ASD/ADHD/Dyspraxia, were you to sit in our house and listen to him talk to me about something interesting, you'd probably consider his conversation somewhat normal, he can laugh, talk about intelligent things, joke with me, and be a typical teenager.. however...
He doesn't talk to strangers, he goes mute. He can't prep his own food, he can't be left unsupervised outside the house because noise, crowds, unfamiliar places trigger meltdowns. he needs help to bath, to dress, to put his shoes on (can't tie laces)
He has to be reminded to eat, to take his ADHD meds, to go to the bathroom, he doesn't sleep, his room is a sensory haven of music and lights. He rarely leaves the house unless its for school/college (Special needs education)
This is not 'milder' autism just because he is verbal, it affects EVERY aspect of his daily life and he will NEVER be independent.
'milder' is how it impacts the people around him who interact with him, it isn't anything to do with how it impacts him, which is profoundly.