To ask you why you had children?

[fluffyjacketpotato]

What made you think you'd be a good parent?
And what made you want to have a child?

I guess I just always thought I'd have them. Got to 38 and boyfriend said 'not long term' so broke up and joined and introduction agency (this is before internet dating was so big). Met my husband and third date he asked me if I wanted kids! He already had two so I nervously said yes and he said he wanted more 🥰. We had two.

Exactly.
Wait until they are divorced and arguing over the child etc.
Wait until he won't paybthe maintenance etc or any number of things we hear about.
Won't be so United then?