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It's a Plane Etiquette one!! Was I AIBU?

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Belladonna90 · 29/04/2024 19:19

Night flight back from the US.
Cabin crew do meal service at around 4am (UK time) around 11pm (US). I'm hoping not to go to bed when I land (so can beat the jet lag and not stay in US time!). In economy class and have the blanket over my head so I can sleep (need the 'room' to be as dark as possible'). I had my seat reclined in the belief that chicken or beef would not be served at this time. How wrong I was! Cabin Crew passes me with meal trolley (happily doesn't disturb me to ask whether I want a meal...at that time absolutely not!). However, when she is asking the passenger behind me she reclines my seat back up which startled the life out of me as I was jostled back up!! I was so annoyed as I was fast asleep. I can understand for a safety related issue if she needed to do that for example for landing but for a service related issue it seemed completely rude of her. Was I wrong to challenge her and ask why she did that?? She told me for service all seats must be in the upright position....

OP posts:
Maelil01 · 09/05/2024 23:16

Can someone explain to me how you “recline a seat upwards”?

Maelil01 · 09/05/2024 23:18

Belladonna90 · 29/04/2024 22:19

It's a combination really....
I think instead of jostling my seat up I would of found it more respectful if she had asked or tapped me so I wouldn't of gotten such a fright (my partner was beside me and she asked him was I eating, he said no and then she proceeded to ask the person behind me and then jostled my seat up). For me it is also the fact that it is so late in the night and at least 3 hours after take off. It is to be expected people want to sleep. I never knew that on a night flight eating had a higher priority than sleeping....we were both paying passengers . A lot of posters have lambasted me for saying I should of booked business class instead of economy (good luck trying to get a business seat on a JFK service at short notice!). It's surely the luck of the draw in economy in terms of comfort...and the lady behind me had to expect on a night flight people will want to sleep and their chairs will be reclined.

Would have
Could have
Should have

Its not that hard!

Tourmalines · 10/05/2024 22:19

Maelil01 · 09/05/2024 23:16

Can someone explain to me how you “recline a seat upwards”?

Sorry , no , I can’t 🤣🤣

nineseasaway · 11/05/2024 12:50

Maelil01 · 09/05/2024 23:18

Would have
Could have
Should have

Its not that hard!

Makes me want to stop reading!

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