There are a variety of ways that pip can be used and it’s the flexibility that makes it work well.
Despite being as an unpaid carer ( except for £81 per week) I have to source the agency or PA to look after my son when I go away.
The job is badly paid but recruitment is easier if they do some fun trips with my son as well as doing cookery or playing chess or card games with him at home ( they do that as well) That involves a cost but their brief if for him to access the community - the community is outside the house. If they go shopping - there is a cost - he will purchase some items that he wants but have no need for most likely. If they go to a park - he gets the PA a coffee etc
Going out is the brief approved and required by our social services - as going out is the problem.
The success of this has been remarkable - usually my son would he huddled up at a SEN bowling group - now he rushes in to meet them. However if he does not do these things repeatedly it’s easily lost.
The contrast from how he was over Covid is huge. He had to have a suicide risk assessment at CAMHS as he was referred by his counsellor as he was deemed too high needs for that level and needed assessment. We were given the mental health team crisis numbers by the GP and self harm was a major issue. Over Covid he lost the ability to tolerate buses and took major steps back. So I gently get him back into them when not so busy but he still won’t tolerate and refuses crowded buses.
He had to have a suicide risk assessment but you begrudge him cinema trips you idiot.
The real cost of my son are MDT meetings when at one meeting there is a head master a SENCO a transition OT from the council a counsellor ( usually by letter) an Ed Psych a social worker etc etc - imagine the cost of all those people having to discuss where to put him and what to do with him next. Several people have to give up a day to preps for a whole morning meeting and also to be there. Pip is a tiny expenditure compared to the actual cost of his needs.
Social services know what they are doing and they known that having my as an unpaid carer, 15 hours of PA / agency care and a £35000 agency placement plus pip is cheaper than a full time supported living placement, the housing benefit costs and also almost full time PA cover to run everything. However you are too stupid to realise how much parents like me save the state and moan about pip and a cinema trip. It’s like complaining about a leaking tap when on the Titanic!
People moan about a cinema trip but m I am expected in my free time to train the Pa and also to do all their administration for free. So you are getting me pretty much for free doing the work for my adult son. I don’t have to - I could stop tomorrow. I have absolutely no legal duty.
Either way the PA has to be with him and take him out- that is an assessed need. That is a requirement from social services and frankly if I did not arrange that my son would be deemed as ‘neglected’ as I am not meeting a need.
The PA and going out is the bulk of the cost in your factored £100. But be it the cinema or to the shops he needs the PA and the likelihood is that at some point there might be an Uber involved.
Have you any idea how tiring it is running someone’s life and actually having to organise where he goes, when, how he gets there, wha the does. It’s my Saturday night to and I have to make sure that he is ok and even then have to be on stand by.
The worst thing about it all is that I pay tax and my husband pays a ridiculous amount of tax and I strongly suspect have contributed to all those child benefits that people who have complained have benefited from. I have never begrudged that but as a family that paid an eye watering amount in tax but you begrudge my adult son his Pip.
The difference is that we are invested in the tax paying system as it makes society. My husband repaid furlough payments via the company he is involved in as it was the right thing to do . I believe in a system which is there for the vulnerable and for that reason I resented Liz Truss and her daft tax cut even though we were better off. Either you want a proper system to look after the vulnerable or you don’t. My sons dad has always voted to he taxed and believe in a state to look after the weak. He never begrudges the taxes he pays and I bet it’s considerably more than the people pay who begrudge the Pip system. As it happens his son is a beneficiary of this - that is why we have the tax system.