Scanning through the last few pages is sickening.
I have physical disability/ND and some mental health associated with the impact of those disabilities. One of DC is ND and has learning difficulties.
Regarding taxi gate - we try to use the bus as much as possible and to get lifts from family members. But it isn’t always possible to cope - for instance, to get to a frequent destination it is 2 buses and takes 1 1/2 hours with walking in between. Taxi or car is 20-30 minutes, no walking. If I tried to do bus all the time I would end up hospitalised and my child would have more distress/meltdowns/suffering on days when they are already dysregulated. So we pick our battles. Taxis £15-40 per week.
Regards cinema, it costs £7.50 for a disabled person to attend, their carer goes free with CEA card and snacks can be brought from home.
For my DC I have just spent £300 on OT aids this month. Last month I had to buy a pricey bike and equipment £300 to suit their needs to try and help them be active. Next month I will be spending £600 on specialised summer schemes to keep their routine over summer and ensure we all don’t go completely mad. Then there’s the trampoline I’ve been advised to buy. And the sporting activities.
For me, because there is no nhs therapy available (physio/counselling), I am spending £160 a month on this, plus I have to get a private consult to see a specialist because I can’t cope any longer waiting on nhs (4yrs in) so that’s £200, the hateful taxis are about £140 a month, then there are other therapeutic items I need…
DLA/PIP does not cover it.
All that PIP and further changes do is demean disabled people, taking away their dignity and creating a quagmire of paperwork to plow through that diminishes your quality of life because you spend so much time having to constantly justify and prove your position.
It is inhumane. If they fixed the health and education systems there wouldn’t be half the number of applicants there are. They are claiming as a last port of call to get some sort of quality of life.