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Neighbours oxygen tank

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Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 17:37

I'm not one to complain and I am usually tolerant but the distinct popping noise from upstairs neighbours oxygen tank is irritating me so much. They are on 17 hours of oxygen so it's going all through the night. I know it's a medical need and don't know how to deal with this.
Its 3 pops followed by a final louder one and it's constant. Anybody please

OP posts:
Needanewname42 · 27/04/2024 23:33

Mumtobabyhavoc · 27/04/2024 22:53

Your neighbours need proper carpeting with underlay.

could you approach in person, explain how awkward and bad you feel, that the sound is keeping you up and would it be poss for them to install carpet with a thick underlay? Failing that, I'd wear earplugs to sleep, play white noise, music or a podcast to sleep.

They don't need to go to the expense of re-carpeting the floor. A cheap bit of insulation board under the machine should do it - if it is the vibration of the machine itself.

StormingNorman · 28/04/2024 00:23

beenwhereyouare · 27/04/2024 23:03

They are the UPSTAIRS neighbors!!

Advice about paper-thin walls, next-door flats, acoustic soundproofing the walls, bookshelves or soft furnishings to block noises aren't relevant as the sound is coming from overhead.

Please, just read the entire thread-opening post for yourselves before you start commenting. It was literally stated in the first sentence.

Let me just apologize now, and climb down off my soapbox, and scuttle away. 😳 As you were.

Better soundproofing during development could be used to reduce noise transfer between levels. There are also ways to retrofit soundproofing but it would be an expense for the OP that she shouldn’t need to pay.

T1Dmama · 28/04/2024 00:31

Can you switch the room you sleep in to the other side away from the room with the tank in? Ear plugs… play music etc.

Garlicked · 28/04/2024 00:41

TheDogsAFloofyFool · 27/04/2024 18:43

Agree 💯
Ive had a fan in the bedroom for 20+ years and can’t sleep without it. If it’s too quiet, I imagine I can hear things😱
Sorry for you OP, it’s tough if it’s disturbing your sleep, but such a sensitive issue. I guess you’ve tried moving furniture etc?
Try the fan, it might just work xx

This is really odd but it works for me too. I can sleep with the window open - I'm on a street, with a deafening church across the way. My fan isn't even noisy, it must be soothing somehow.

@Tevion1213, your neighbour's wife must be suffering as well! I second having a word with the delivery guy and carers.

Frogpole · 28/04/2024 00:41

A thought for the pearl clutchers if I may be so bold - imagine yourself in the following hypothetical situation:

Toria's driving her car along the road. Not fast, got the limiter set to 32mph as per the posted speed limit.. and she falls asleep. Only for two seconds, not long enough even for the fancy car tech to respond, but just long enouBANG

Oops. just long enough to go straight through the red light at the Toucan crossing you just stepped on to it seems. By some miracle you're entirely unscathed, as is Toria.

The precious bag of shopping you had in your hand though? That's gone, like gone gone. it's nothing more than a red splat on the bonnet and a pungent smell of iron/copper that'll haunt your dreams forevermore. Then she pokes her head out the window and says:

"Oh my god I'm so sorry, that's totally my faul.. yeah, my bad, sorry. I must have fell asleep at the wheel, but it's all good - I've not slept in 12 days straight, and a girl's gotta get her beauty sleep whenever she can, right? Nah, it's just my neighbours, they've got this machine that runs all night and keeps us awake, but it's all good 'cause it's "life saving"... I know, the irony, right? Anyway hun, do me a favour woman to woman.. wipe all that claret off my windscreen please? I can't see with it like that, and I don't want to run someone over"

Then like that she just drives off. Do you find this acceptable?

Mmhmmn · 28/04/2024 00:51

Difficult OP, I know. But they are so sick that they rely on external oxygen. It’s highly unlikely they’ll be in a financial position to sound proof they’re flat. You’re going to have to use ear plugs, sound proof, or move. I know how awful it is to have neighbour noise impinging on your life, it raises your everyday base stress level, but solving it is going to be on you, and whatever your situation, just be glad you can breathe and get oxygen around your body without assistance.

Anothnamechang · 28/04/2024 00:59

We have oxygen in our home and I agree it’s very loud! It’s in our bedroom and for my child so I wouldn’t be comfortable wearing earplugs.

What I have started doing although not ideal is listening to podcasts or watching Netflix on my phone right beside me to try and drown it out.

Moving room may not even help, I can hear it running in all areas of my house and although my neighbours say they can’t, I can even hear it when sat in their living room.

GoatScapes · 28/04/2024 00:59

Better soundproofing during development could be used to reduce noise transfer between levels.

welcome to shitty UK housing!

oakleaffy · 28/04/2024 01:34

SummaLuvin · 27/04/2024 17:42

Not sure why you’re getting such a hard time OP. The fact of the matter is the is constant sounds from a neighbour impacting sleep and life. The fact it’s life saving noise doesn’t mean it’s not disruptive. Sounds like OP was looking for advice on how to manage since she knows it would be unreasonable to talk to neighbour. All very fair.

Absolutely this.
A repetitive noise like that would drive me nuts.

How loud is the oxygen machine if you can hear it?

Machine sounds faulty .

How to Make a Loud Oxygen Concentrator Quieter. 5 Non-permanent Solutions to Reduce the Noise

Home oxygen concentrator machines can be surprisingly loud and noisy. Using these simple DIY solutions lowered the volume of this O2 generator by more than 1...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5Ajm7Q9DwQ

oakleaffy · 28/04/2024 01:40

Mischance · 27/04/2024 17:44

Just be sure they do not smoke. I used to visit a patient on 24 hour oxygen who merrily smoked however often I explained the danger.

That will solve the noise problem.
But probably take out OP as well.

oakleaffy · 28/04/2024 01:47

Sounds like a milking machine..Is it faulty?? Seems they are horrendously loud

@Tevion1213 Read the comments below the you tube video- people's sleep is wrecked by these devices.

How loud is oxygen concentrator

How loud is oxygen concentratorJust a video showing how loud a oxygen concentrator is at home, it can be pretty loud in a quiet environment, something to get...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aGtgP7A0roQ

Sadperson1 · 28/04/2024 02:04

dawngreen · 27/04/2024 22:55

What about using a fan in your bedroom to drown out the background noise? And the person going on about the person been a smoker. Go to any stay in a hospital, and they preach don't smoke, then you go to the garden area for fresh air to find doctors, and nurses smoking. And I have never smoked!

My partner developed a lung condition and had NEVER smoked. He was on a large oxygen machine at home, like the one above, died in his mid thirties. They are noisy, I barely slept and had to care for multiple very young children. I really don’t think that the op can say something to the neighbour, I think I would have just collapsed and cried if it was me, but there are so many helpful options on here. I hope they find something that works for them.

Charlotteap · 28/04/2024 02:53

LongLostSock · 27/04/2024 17:39

Take a deep breath.

Coz they ain't and be grateful.

Oh my 🤣🤣🤣🤣

BabyRaindeer · 28/04/2024 08:10

Newname71 · 27/04/2024 17:44

White noise or a fan. DS works 10pm til 2am and will game to wind down before bed. I can’t sleep if I can hear noise so use the fan to dull the sound. The fans annoying at first but I can’t sleep without it now.

Blimey DS needs to wear headphones surely. Quite selfish of him

Zombiemama84 · 28/04/2024 08:12

How inconsiderate of the neighbour to need a noisy machine to help keep them alive.

ForCandles · 28/04/2024 08:29

Do you have a wardrobe and drawers in your bedroom?
Is there any way that you could rearrange your bed and furniture so the wardrobe etc is against the party wall?
That should help to muffle the noise, if not block it altogether.

Needanewname42 · 28/04/2024 08:34

ForCandles · 28/04/2024 08:29

Do you have a wardrobe and drawers in your bedroom?
Is there any way that you could rearrange your bed and furniture so the wardrobe etc is against the party wall?
That should help to muffle the noise, if not block it altogether.

The noise is coming through the ceiling.

Reading comments on how loud these machines are why on earth aren't they designed better. With noise insulation built into the machines.

LookItsMeAgain · 28/04/2024 08:36

Tevion1213 · 27/04/2024 17:57

Rental property and I can't afford to do anything at the moment.

Could you possibly contact the landlord to see if they could do anything about the soundproofing?
All else fails, you may have to move if your sleep is being disturbed as much as you seem to be saying.

HÆLTHEPAIN · 28/04/2024 09:32

Zombiemama84 · 28/04/2024 08:12

How inconsiderate of the neighbour to need a noisy machine to help keep them alive.

No one, especially not OP, said anyone was inconsiderate.

DeadbeatYoda · 28/04/2024 10:06

I have to agree with many of the PP's on here. There are some things in life that we don't bother saying out loud because we are decent people who know how lucky we are.

123anotherday · 28/04/2024 10:18

Needanewname42 · 28/04/2024 08:34

The noise is coming through the ceiling.

Reading comments on how loud these machines are why on earth aren't they designed better. With noise insulation built into the machines.

I’ve already said upthread that the machine needs checking as it’s possibly faulty .

Newname71 · 28/04/2024 10:41

BabyRaindeer · 28/04/2024 08:10

Blimey DS needs to wear headphones surely. Quite selfish of him

He does wear headphones but he’s got ADHD and his inside voice needs some work. He doesn’t wake anyone else up. I think I don’t get into a really deep sleep until I know he’s home.

Theunamedcat · 28/04/2024 10:47

Newname71 · 28/04/2024 10:41

He does wear headphones but he’s got ADHD and his inside voice needs some work. He doesn’t wake anyone else up. I think I don’t get into a really deep sleep until I know he’s home.

And they can't hear themselves BECAUSE of the headphones 🙄 I have the same thing here

artfuldodgerjack · 28/04/2024 10:52

Allfur · 27/04/2024 18:06

It sounds awful

Imagine how awful it is for the person needing the oxygen to keep them alive! Ffs 🤦🏻‍♀️