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Or does this Labour Party meme display all we need to regarding about how they feel about women?

140 replies

Lion400 · 19/04/2024 19:59

Those silly little women. Apart from the ones with penises. They’re just like us men.

OP posts:
NoWordForFluffy · 19/04/2024 23:25

Medschoolmum · 19/04/2024 23:24

Thanks, but I find it more important to provide some balance on the ones started by the Tory propagandists.

Oh yes. Those concerned about Labour are Tory propagandists. 🙄 More lazy thinking being trotted out.

Sunquest · 19/04/2024 23:27

NoWordForFluffy · 19/04/2024 23:22

Feel free to start your own thread to discuss issues you're concerned about.

And how long before that thread will be over taken by the GC blaming every thing on the trans issue, Have you ever thought why people don't start those threads? Because it's a waste of time.

KTheGrey · 19/04/2024 23:30

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 19/04/2024 20:12

Meanwhile in the real world Rishi Sunak has today announced plans to strip GPs of the ability to sign people off work due to mental health crises. A policy that will disproportionately affect women.

Meh. Can't argue with the fact that there's a worryingly high number of people who cannot work for mh reasons.

Medschoolmum · 19/04/2024 23:31

NoWordForFluffy · 19/04/2024 23:25

Oh yes. Those concerned about Labour are Tory propagandists. 🙄 More lazy thinking being trotted out.

Not at all. It's entirely possible to have concerns about Labour without being a Tory propagandist. Frankly, I have some concerns about Labour myself.

But there is a small but very, very dedicated group of posters on MN who seem intent on promoting the idea that, if you are a feminist, you need to vote Tory. This is such an absurd and illogical position, based on the Tories' record in government, that I can only assume that these people are being paid to push that agenda by Tory HQ. I don't accept that any of them are stupid enough to actually believe it.

ilovesooty · 19/04/2024 23:32

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2024 22:30

Nope-there absolutely is - because they chose this meme and changed the wording - it wasn't just an 'oppsy' retweet - so they DO need to acknowledge it's sexist and remove it - I say this as a life long member - we don't have to accept or defend everything because we are Team Labour - we are allowed to face palm at this backfire

I'm a member too and I agree with you.

ilovesooty · 19/04/2024 23:38

Medschoolmum · 19/04/2024 23:17

I'm more worried about the Tory party's track record of shitting on women for 14 years than I am about one fairly crap Labour Party meme.

You don't seem to start quite so many threads about this, though, OP. Why is that? Do you think women are in a better position now than they were 14 years ago?

For all of the fearmongering about Labour, I'm yet to hear anyone tell me how the last 14 years have been better for women. Please do come and enlighten me.

Agreed but I think this meme reflects badly on Labour and I'm glad it's been deleted. It shouldn't have been posted in the first place.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 19/04/2024 23:41

It’s funny - its a meme template that’s used a lot, and it’s a joke on that I think.

ilovesooty · 19/04/2024 23:42

Sunquest · 19/04/2024 23:27

And how long before that thread will be over taken by the GC blaming every thing on the trans issue, Have you ever thought why people don't start those threads? Because it's a waste of time.

I agree. They all go the same way. I expect this thread will be no exception.

Keeprejoining · 19/04/2024 23:44

I know, those stupid women trying to hold labour to account for embedded misogyny. The thing is we expect labour to be better than this and to protect and vulnerable people.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 19/04/2024 23:46

There's more to that (as usual) but I saw this earlier and it was in response to something.
As usual, half a story!
Will have to try and find

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 19/04/2024 23:47

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 19/04/2024 23:41

It’s funny - its a meme template that’s used a lot, and it’s a joke on that I think.

Just seen this comment before posting mine.
Yes it's a joke meme and I've seen it loads the past few weeks and this is just a play on it.

AdultReindeer · 20/04/2024 00:09

Nubbled · 19/04/2024 23:13

I will never vote for a party who says
women can have a penis

So you'll vote for one that fucks women instead?

Keeprejoining · 20/04/2024 00:28

The question we are asking is what is labour going to do about its misogyny problem. How is going to get our votes back?

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 20/04/2024 00:43

AdultReindeer · 20/04/2024 00:09

So you'll vote for one that fucks women instead?

Metaphorically, physically or both?! 😁

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 20/04/2024 00:44

Keeprejoining · 20/04/2024 00:28

The question we are asking is what is labour going to do about its misogyny problem. How is going to get our votes back?

Christ, Labour over Tories any day. I've always felt more comfortable under them.

anothernamitynamenamechange · 20/04/2024 01:14

I already posted this on a different thread but I like it so I'm posting it again.

FictionalCharacter · 20/04/2024 01:47

ATerrorofLeftovers · 19/04/2024 20:15

Just because something’s used a lot, doesn’t make it any less egregious.

It’s particularly ill-timed at present, given the spotlight on the misogyny that’s been so rife within Labour. Really ham-fisted of the Labour comms team to let this one through.

Exactly.
Even if it's meant to be a hilarious "joke", the fact is it's a man having serious intelligent thoughts and a woman being shallow.
After a lifetime of sexism and misogyny my tolerance for such jokes has worn thin.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/04/2024 04:22

Sunquest · 19/04/2024 22:29

But the other issues are mostly ignored by the GC on MN. I do get the safe guarding of children in the Cass report, but as far as I can see on MN all the other issues women and children face are never ever mentioned. It's like the trans issue is the only thing that matters to them.

Do you really mean MN, or do you just mean the specifically feminist sections of MN?

MN is a site about women by women for women. That is what makes it so great. On almost any other forum, things that impact only or mostly women are ignorede or shunted into a Feminism thread, or even worse, a Women's Chat thread.

But on MN, where women's concerns are front and centre, the topics you are flagging aren't specifically in Feminism because they are all over the site, turning up in education threads, in relationship threads, in AIBU threads, in property threads, in legal threads.

This is, if you like, small-f feminism. It's women supporting women by dealing practically with the specific instances of shit that impact women's life. When shit is hitting the fan the underlying Why this happens (women's lesser voices and lesser political, economic and cultural power, the asymetric impact of parenthood etc) is less important than the What needs to be done right now.

And of course the women who comment under one name in FWR may well have another name they use in the rest of the site, because too many nasty men consider it a sport to identity women with whom they disagree online IRL and harass them.

And then there is big-F Feminism, the social and political analysis and activism that links all that small-f shit together and aims to tackle the source it springs from. On MN, the Feminist boards tend to be more big-F feminism not because that's all MN feminists care about but because unlike male-dominated sites, on MN the small-f feminism happens under the specific topic for each problem. And right now, redefining womanhood itself, unwriting the impact of biology and patriachy and replacing it with the idea of "womanny minds" is a pretty huge social change that big F feminism needs to understand and (IMO) challenge. Even if your view is it is a good thing, there's still a load of big-F questions raised that GAFs (gender accepting feminists) need to grapple with to work out how feminism and women's supports can best accomodate male women without disadvantaging the female ones.

Mrttyl · 20/04/2024 07:30

It is a stupid meme with an added dose of sexism. It represents the Labour Party perfectly.

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2024 08:15

skippy67 · 19/04/2024 22:53

Are you under the impression that we only know Labour are a misogynist party because the Tories told us?

Are you under the impression that the Tories are are not demonstrably proven liars? They've shielded sex offenders in their midst. They've misused party funds. They've accepted millions of pounds from racist doners. These are facts. Plenty more where they came from too. But yeah, crack on and vote for them because you feel Labour are misogynist.

I wouldn't vote Tory with a gun to my head. You're mistaking criticism of Labour for endorsement of their opposition.

We should not accept overt misogyny from Labour. How will they ever change if we do?

valensiwalensi · 20/04/2024 08:36

That’s a really popular meme.

not everything is that deep.

itsgettingweird · 20/04/2024 08:46

ghostyslovesheets · 19/04/2024 20:46

Look I have been a party member since 1985 I will be honest - there are a lot of left wing men who don't like women - they don't like to be challenged or pulled up on anything by women - BUT do I think right wing men are better? Nope I think they are worse. Labour still fields lots of women candidates and actively encourages women to stand locally and nationally. My daughters 22 year old friend is standing in the local election coming up.

BUT if you actually really care about women then vote for a party that will improve their lives - will fund healthcare, family support, education, police, social housing, tackle poverty (because it actually gives a shit about it) and improve lives - don't vote Tory just because - what? Rushi decided saying what a woman was is a vote winner - don't be that blind

Excellent post.

I - for 1 - won't be letting an ill judged use of a meme transform my whole vote.

I wont be allowing it to cloud every single thing the Tory's have done the past 14 years to ruin the lives of - well everyone - except their rich mates.

EasternStandard · 20/04/2024 08:50

ilovesooty · 19/04/2024 23:42

I agree. They all go the same way. I expect this thread will be no exception.

Tbf I can predict your posts on those threads

EasternStandard · 20/04/2024 08:51

On the thread title glad to see majority yanbu

ATerrorofLeftovers · 20/04/2024 08:58

VickyEadieofThigh · 20/04/2024 08:15

I wouldn't vote Tory with a gun to my head. You're mistaking criticism of Labour for endorsement of their opposition.

We should not accept overt misogyny from Labour. How will they ever change if we do?

Exactly this. Criticising Labour does not imply endorsement of the Tories.

Labour should do better. We need to keep demanding they do, rather than accept unacceptable treatment, just because they’re better than the alternative. Otherwise, there is no incentive to change and they never will. How is that a good outcome?

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