Lol @ "get a job and work like everyone else".
You realise that men are currently able to walk away from former spouses and partners and their children, reduce working hours to reduce reportable income, falsify income if self employed, and not pay a penny toward the care and keeping of their children, and refuse to do any parenting so the mother has to?
You clearly have an interest in current affairs or you wouldn't be commenting on this thread, so you're aware of the cost of childcare, waiting lists for available spots in nurseries, the housing crisis, and the state of the rental market, right?